Hey, Don't Do That!
Hey, Don't Do That!
Elizabeth Haberberger
If you've ever seen someone do or say something that made you want to pull them aside and say, "Hey, don't do that. There's a better way!," then you are in the right spot! Join us to get the inside scoop on how to win together at work. We explore the little things nobody told you that have big impacts on your motivation, effectiveness, and overall success. We will help you think differently and shift your approach to working with others so you can get more done and have fewer frustrations.
Episode 13 - Don't Focus on Qualifications (But Start with Capability Instead)
Today, we want to challenge a widely held belief and explore a fresh perspective on the importance of qualifications. In a world that often prioritizes degrees and certifications, we encourage everyone to shift our focus towards growing our capabilities. Qualifications are undoubtedly valuable, as they provide a foundation of knowledge and expertise. However, they are not the sole indicators of success or potential. By emphasizing capability over qualifications, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities. Capability encompasses a broader spectrum of skills, including adaptability, creativity, problem-solving, and emotional intelligence. These qualities enable us to navigate an ever-evolving landscape, where traditional qualifications might fall short. Moreover, focusing on capability encourages continuous learning and personal development, fostering resilience and the ability to thrive in diverse situations. So this week, let's embrace the notion that qualifications are just one piece of the puzzle, and let our focus be on expanding our capabilities, paving the way for a brighter and more adaptable future.
Jun 23, 2023
23 min
Episode 12 - Don't Be Vague (Clear Is Kind)
Clarity is kind. The more clear we are, the more kind we are. As leaders, clarity, instead of vagueness, reduces ambiguity and confusion, enabling team members to understand their roles and responsibilities clearly. It enhances productivity by eliminating the need for interpretation, allowing everyone to focus on achieving objectives efficiently. Clear communication also fosters trust, engagement, and a positive work culture. When leaders are transparent and provide clear instructions, employees feel valued and empowered, leading to a sense of purpose and commitment. Equally important, clarity is crucial in sales enables us to effectively showcase the value and benefits of our products or services, helping potential customers understand how the offering meets their needs. It also builds trust by providing transparent pricing and terms, reducing misunderstandings and fostering credibility. John Maxwell said, "Clarity of vision, purpose, and communication creates the foundation for successful leadership." Join us as we explore areas that we all can be more clear on and ideas to get us started!
Jun 16, 2023
23 min
Episode 11 - Don't Be Afraid of Change (And How To Open Ourselves Up for Change)
In a world that's constantly evolving, it's natural to feel hesitant when faced with change. But here's the truth: change is the catalyst for growth, the gateway to new opportunities, and the path to personal and professional fulfillment. It's time to shed the armor of resistance and open ourselves up to the boundless possibilities that await. Jack Welch said, "Change before you have to." But how do we open ourselves up to change? Listen to this episode for ideas to shift our mindset and embrace the unknown.
Jun 9, 2023
20 min
Episode 10 - Don't Focus on the Negative (And Tri's Best Trivia Yet!)
We once heard it said, "if you want to be good, focus on your weaknesses. If you want to be great, focus on your strengths!" Focusing on the negative can drain us and demotivate. Focusing on strengths can empower to achieve greatness. In a world often dominated by headlines of despair and tales of woe, it's time to shift our focus and discover the transformative power of positive thinking. Too often, we fall victim to the negative bias, where negative events take up the front stage of our attention and dominate our thinking. Your focus determines your reality. By choosing to shift your gaze away from the negative, we become more creative in problem-solving and experience less stress. And we maximize our potential. Listen in as we uncover the power of reframing our thoughts, practicing gratitude, and embracing mindfulness as tools for shifting our perspective.
May 22, 2023
21 min
Episode 9 - Don't Be Boring And How to Become More Dynamic In Work and Life!
Being perceived as boring can hinder our credibility and ability to motivate others to act. However, it's important to understand that what one person finds exciting or interesting may not be the same for another. That being said, there are certain strategies that can help us avoid coming across as dull or unengaging. Our ability to engage others in our communication will impact their perceptions on our competence. By being aware of our audience and actively working to cultivate our interests and conversation skills, we can increase your likelihood of being seen as a competent, dynamic and engaging individual. Whether you're looking to improve your social life, professional network, or personal relationships, taking steps to become a more captivating and stimulating presence can have a significant impact on your overall well-being and sense of connection to the world around you.
May 8, 2023
17 min
Episode 8 - Don't Fight Technology (And How To Embrace It!)
"The advance of technology is based on making it fit in so that you don't really even notice it, so it's part of everyday life." - Bill Gates Technology is not inherently good or bad. It is a tool that can be used for good or ill. Fighting against technology is impractical. Where technology creates value, technology will win. Technology is an ever-evolving force, and it is impossible to stop its advancement. By resisting it, we risk falling behind and missing out on the many benefits it offers. By embracing technology and working to shape its development, we can ensure that it is used to benefit society and promote the well-being of all. Instead of fighting the inevitable, why not cooperate with it and let technology work to our advantage?
Apr 24, 2023
19 min
Episode 7 - Don't Get Stuck in the Same Way of Thinking (And How To Get Out of It)
"Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change." - Wayne Dyer In our fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in our routines and familiar ways of thinking. However, seeking new perspectives in life is essential for personal growth, expanding our understanding of the world, and unlocking new opportunities. Stepping outside our comfort zones and looking at things from different angles can lead to profound insights, fresh ideas, and increased empathy towards others. Join us as we explore ideas on how to become "unstuck" in our old ways of thinking.
Apr 14, 2023
24 min
Episode 6 - Don't Be Afraid To Bring Up Hard Topics | The Why and How
Martin Luther King Jr. said, "In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." Bringing up hard topics with those around us can be intimidating, but there are several reasons why it's important not to be afraid to discuss them: growth, building relationships, problem-solving, and learning opportunities. It's important to approach difficult conversations with empathy, active listening, and respect for differing perspectives. Join the discussion and learn tips to engage in difficult conversations!
Apr 6, 2023
19 min
Episode 5 - Don't Be Too Available (And How To Get Out of It)
Does this sound familiar to you? Your boss or colleague texts you at 10:05 pm before you head to bed AND you feel the urge to respond immediately? We've all been there! Somebody asks you for a favor, and your answer is always “yes.” Being available for a friend or being willing to pitch in beyond what's required at work is a truly admirable quality. When we constantly live our lives that way, we pay a price - burnout, loss of time for the important things in our lives, we feel like we are living other people's lives, etc... You can never be everything to everyone. So people are invariably left disappointed. So how can we learn to say no, set boundaries, and lovingly stop being too available? Let's explore that today!
Mar 30, 2023
20 min
Episode 4 - Don't Talk To Much (The Why and The How)
"We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak," said Epictetus. Many of us do the opposite - sometimes we talk WAY TOO MUCH. We've all been there. Today, we explore several reasons how this can happen to the best of us and some quick tips on how to listen more intentionally and emphatically so that we can strengthen relationships with those around us and build our leadership presence. Join us!
Mar 22, 2023
20 min
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