The importance of words and word choice is a key to developing healthy relationships. Using positive affirmations is probably the #1 key to taking those relationships to a much a higher level. Often times we affirm a person's physical attributes, which is absolutely needed. However, there is a much more needed and deeper affirmation that can take your relationship to a much higher level. Affirmations of the soul. In this episode Randy and his wife Cathy talk in depth about these types of affirmations and how it has helped their relationship and how they can and will help yours as well, as long as you are consistent at it.