In this episode I talk about the reason that men don't ask for help, why it's ridiculous and the immense benefit that getting help provides!If you're in a relationship or stage in your life where you're unsure where to turn, get yourself into a mens group like the one we offer through Goodguys2Greatmen - you won't regret it. There are men from all walks of life, so one way or another we'll get you the support and advice you need.

Does your wife have inappropriate male friends? How are you going to think about that?This is specifically for the husband in a rocky marriage where you feel boundaries are being crossed. And for some reason you haven’t figured out what to do about it yet.Your wife’s “boyfriends” may come in various shapes and sizes. These are some of the descriptions I hear from husbands about the questionable men she has in her life.“At parties, she surrounds herself with men and initiates sexual conversations and dirty jokes with them.”“She always gravitates toward this one guy in the neighborhood and enthusiastically hugs him when we leave – nobody else – just him.”“She has lunch nearly every day at work with a male colleague who is “just a good friend” going through some tough times.”She is chatting on Facebook frequently with an old boyfriend.”“She constantly exchanges texts with a male friend who is in a bad marriage and says she is just supporting him.”“She ignores me at home and lights up like a Christmas tree around other men whenever we go out socially. She laughs and talks with them in ways she used to do with me.”“She says she wants to share a hotel suite with her business colleague to save money for the company during the 3-day conference.”“She goes to happy hour every Friday with her boss because she thinks her job depends on it. And I’m not invited.”“She chewed me out for rudely interrupting her on a phone call in our kitchen with the guy she now refers to as her lover.” (yeah, really)Those real-life examples span the scale of “appropriateness”. But I believe there is a way to prepare yourself to respond to any one of them with a calm, clear-headed, confident strength.As you read those I imagine you developed knots in your stomach and now you want to scream something into your computer/phone/whatever your gadget is.No need. I understand your feelings.But let’s talk about your thoughts on this.

Do you avoid your partner when she's angry? Do you try to avoid creating conflict as much as possible.In this episode I explain why she hates that, how it makes her feel and why it's damaging her affection and attraction to you. Plus what you can do in these situations which will reduce their regularity, improve your self confidence around her AND build her trust and attraction to you.

When your relationship is struggling and you just don't know if you can trust her, everything is confusing and you feel insecure and tentative.In this episode we talk about trust and how, at its foundation, it has to be a decision you make to give your trust to another person.Tell us where you're struggling with trust in your life in the comments.

If you have noticed your wife or partner becoming more and more distant and disconnected, maybe rude and disrespectful with you recently, then you may be experiencing what is known as the "walk-away wife syndrome."We see this a lot in the coaching we do with men and I want to give you some guidance firstly that - this doesn't mean that your marriage or relationship is screwed - and secondly I mention two free pdf documents in this video which I'm offering to you that are directly related to this issue in relationships.In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.

For 7 days, stop this mistake which makes your wife or partner more distant and less affectionate towards you and notice how she becomes more relaxed and appreciative of you.

Your wife wants space, she feels no connection or she loves you but isn't "in love" with you. What do you do next? This episode tells you what you need to THINK next in order the use this time for regaining self-respect, confidence and independence.

I want to talk with you about living in the kind of life and relationship you really, really want.That last sentence has a key word in it. It’s the word “living”.Note, I didn’t say “getting” the life you want or “having” the life you want.Those two words imply there is somewhere you must GO to achieve the life you want.But, what if living that life is a place you come FROM, not a place to get TO?What if you just f*cking DECIDED to start living the life you want right this moment?What kind of man would you have to BE in order to make that choice?

This episode explains how you can THINK differently about your woman in order to create more trust, connection and intimacy. It all starts with POSITIVE REGARD.

This episode describes the bad habit men have of comparing themselves to others. This habit kills confidence and your sense of personal power and value. This habits kills intimacy and your sex life because you feel insecure and uncertain about your future and how to get what you want.