
FyreLight, Colorado's newest and best gay camping event, was inaugurated one weekend in September in the foothills of Bailey, Colorado---and it was incredible! Five fun-filled days of festive frolicking among good friends, old and new. In this episode, we re-live the memorable fun of that special weekend with interviews and stories---and information on next year's event, so those of you who didn't make it won't repeat the same mistake in 2026!
Oct 23, 2025
44 min

In this episode, we cover a LOT of territory (some intentional, some the result of conversational tangents, and some just random shit that came in out of nowhere), so pay attention so you can keep up. As hard as it is to believe it, Kim Davis is back in the news. Yep, she and her three ex-husbands are still tryin' to get same-sex marriage overturned by SCOTUS. , because, you know, she's so concerned about the sanctity of marriage. Right. We also take a look at the hottest topics in the ...
Aug 31, 2025
41 min

SPECIAL GUEST: Sasha Summer Cousneau. How do you tackle a problem no one wants to talk about—let alone admit even exists? Once united by the fight for marriage equality and other civil liberties, the LGBTQ community now finds itself more fragmented than ever. In particular, the bond between gay men and lesbians has frayed, with each group retreating into its own social silo. In our August episode, we sit down with trailblazing lesbian entrepreneur and activist Sasha Summer Cousineau to explor...
Jul 29, 2025
49 min

A large percentage of the gay male community has become enamored with hook-up apps—and most of us have at least one of those apps active on our smart phones. We have grown to rely on apps like Grindr, Scruff, Adam-4-Adam, Sniffies and so many others for an easy path to connecting with other gay and bisexual men. Finding a sexual encounter has become easier than ever before. But at what cost? Apps have replaced the concept of cruising in bars or parks to find a sexual encounter. Many of us all...
Jul 7, 2025
46 min

It’s Pride month and while we have much to celebrate, we must all be aware that we still have a lot of work to do before we're at the gates of true equality. In this episode, we celebrate single gay and bisexual men while exploring the challenges of being single---including issues coming from within the LGBTQ community. We also take a tongue-in-cheek look at the top 30 reasons gay men have given for being single. Some are valid and legitimate, and others are best categorized under, “Are you f...
Jun 22, 2025
50 min

We’re back after a bit of a hiatus! We are sorry we left you in the dark, so to speak, but we are so happy to be back in the swing of things with a brand new episode. This month, we ‘celebrate the bate’ with a commemoration of international masturbation month. But we’re also introducing a brand new gay camping festival set to take place in July, courtesy of Nate Turner, the guy who made Rendezvous such a great event. Nate joins us for a conversation about Fyrelight, Colorado’s own LGBTQ campi...
Jun 1, 2025
41 min

Dave and Brian are back after a bit of an unexplained absence. But where did they go? Some said they were placed in the witness protection program. Others said it was an alien abduction. No one is REALLY sure---but now, all will be revealed. Also in this episode, everything you need to know about Rendezvous 2024----the big gay camping trip in August that brings together around 500 gay men (and a few women) for a weekend of comradery, exploration, relaxation, consultation and a bit of debauche...
Jul 9, 2024
47 min

Is Polyamory right for you? As part of our exploration of the different types of relationships for gay men in today's culture, we begin by exploring the concept of polyamory, what it is, and how it works. Our featured guest is Nate Turner, an expert on polyamorous relationships. Nate is also the chair of the planning committee for Rendezvous, the annual big gay camping festival in Medicine Bow National Forest. So Nate gets us excited for Rendezvous 2024, filling us in on just how fun this yea...
Apr 1, 2024
1 hr 2 min

For some of us, it's almost second nature. While for others---not so much. But almost everyone likes hearing it. What is it about dirty talk that we find so enticing? In this episode, we explore the art and science of dirty talk. It's one of the most fun episodes we've ever done. We convene two small groups of gay and bi men to give us a more well-rounded perspective on the subject, and as is often the case, the conversation takes us off on a variety of tangents. But we always find our ...
Mar 5, 2024
52 min

Those crazy kids! So hard to figure out, sometimes. Some are genuinely attracted to older guys, and some are obsessed with finding a sugar daddy. And then there are those young'ns who would sooner set their junk on fire than get it on with anyone more than ten years older than they are. On the other side of the tracks, there are older guys who are on the twink-hunt prowl while other older guys would never even consider hopping into the sack with anyone young enough to be their son (or grandso...
Feb 2, 2024
37 min
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