The Final Episode - Episode #210 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists ANNOUNCEMENT: As you all know ...life! Shannon and Kim have really enjoyed this podcast, but we have decided that since we are no longer in the wedding business that it would be best to wrap up From Ring to Veil. The show will still be available and you can listen to all 210 episodes but we will no longer be releasing new episodes. The Facebook group will continue as well as our page. We will still respond to questions asked in the group, so please feel free to reach out there. Life, as it is, is changing a bit for both of us. Not having time to dedicate to this show we would like to leave on a high note and not let the content suffer. We are both moving into different areas that aren't in the wedding industry and feel that there are other podcasts that will stay relevant. FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On -

Wedding Traditions Around the World - Episode #209 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Traditions can be fun, some useless, some even downright appalling. We thought we'd share a few from around the world with you. Who knows you might want to include one or two in your wedding. From Brides.com and other sources Mexico: As a Mexican bride and groom are exchanging their vows, the minister drapes a "lazo," or lasso, made of rosary beads and flowers around their shoulders in the shape of a figure eight. Not only does "el lazo" represent the union of the couple, but its shape also resembles the infinity symbol, signifying how long they're hoping the marriage will last. Italy: The night before the wedding, an Italian groom throws a surprise party outside his bride-to-be's window. "La serenata" begins with the groom, backed by musicians, serenading his fiancée, then turns into a full-blown bash, complete with a lavish buffet and all the couple's friends and family. South Korea: As part of the "Falaka" ceremony in South Korea, the groom's friends and family hold him down as they beat the bottoms of his feet with a stick or dried fish. In between beatings, he's asked trivia questions, so the custom is said to help strengthen his memory and his feet. Wales: Back in the day, when a Welshman fell in love and was ready to commit, he carved spoons from wood, called "lovespoons," and gave them to his beloved. Decorations included keys, signifying the key to his heart, and beads, symbolizing the number of children he was hoping for. Peru: In Peruvian weddings, the cake is typically assembled with ribbons attached to charms, one of which is a fake wedding ring. During the reception, all the single women in attendance participate in the "cake pull," each grabbing a ribbon. The single lady who pulls out the fake wedding ring, per tradition, will be the next to get married. Germany: After getting married, couples in Germany are presented with a large log and a saw. By sawing the log in half as a team, it is believed they are proving their ability to work together in overcoming obstacles. Ireland: In Ireland, when the bride and groom are dancing, the bride must keep at least one foot on the floor at all times. Irish folklore states that if she doesn't, evil fairies will come and sweep her away. This might make dancing slightly difficult... Russia: In a gesture of respect, couples in Moscow often take wedding photos at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier near the Kremlin, then lay down flowers afterward. Norway: Norwegian tradition states that the bride will wear an ornate silver and gold crown that has small charms dangling all around it. When she moves, the tinkling sound is supposed to deflect evil spirits. Guatemala: the parents of Guatemalan grooms can do whatever they want, including smashing things. When the newlyweds arrive, it's a tradition that the groom's mom breaks a white ceramic bell filled with grains like rice and flour to bring prosperity to the couple. French: French brides and grooms traditionally eat chocolate and champagne after the reception. They must consume these treats from a toilet bowl. The point is to give the twosome strength before their wedding night. Egypt: For good luck, Egyptian women pinch the bride on her wedding day. Sweden: A Swedish bride puts a silver coin from her father and a gold coin from her mother in each shoe to ensure that she'll never do without. Morocco: Moroccan women take a milk bath to purify themselves before their wedding ceremony. Holland: a pine tree is planted outside the newlyweds' home as a symbol of fertility and luck. South Africa: The parents of both bride and groom traditionally carried fire from their hearths to light a new fire in the newlyweds' hearth. Iceland: So significant was the drinking and loss of money that in the late 1700s the Icelandic government put a stop to the alcohol-fueled weddings. Celebrations were patrolled and soon weddings were referred to as "bread parties." Coffee and pastries were enjoyed and the Kransekaka cake became a favorite wedding tradition. Quite different from Anglo wedding desserts, the cake is made of layered pastry wreaths concealing a bottle of wine or a tower of chocolates and candies inside. Austria: The auction of the bridal shoe is very popular in Austria. It helps to fill the newlyweds' purse. Like at a real auction all wedding guests bid on the shoe. The custom stipulates, however, that the final bid is made by the father, best man or groom. Only with a purchased shoe can he uphold the honor of his daughter or wife. Tune in for big announcement on our next episode #210. FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Where to Propose and Other Fun Stuff - Episode #208 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Today we are sharing a few articles we found on where to propose. Plus we have a few fun extras, including a listener question! Popular places to get engaged around the world Central Park, NY The Eiffel Tower, Paris Brooklyn Bridge, NY The Grand Canyon, AZ Oia, Santorini The Colosseum, Rome Tower Bridge, London Sydney Opera House, Australia The Louvre, Paris Lake Louise, Hamlet Alberta Canada Popular places to get engaged in the US *Check out the link for more info like where to propose in each city! Chicago Nantucket NYC Austin Boston San Fran LA Honolulu Philly Charleston Places to get engaged in each US state Weird wedding stuff Uninvited guests http://fromringtoveil.com/hair SOLOMOON Listener Question: Hey, Ladies, I love the podcast! I have been binge listening since I got engaged! I love your interviews but also enjoy when just you two chat. I am sorry if this has already been a question, I tried to search it within the group. My mom and I are not close, my fiancé and I have planned and are paying for our wedding. My mom wants to be involved and has even bought shirts for two of the guys in the wedding party without telling us, in a different color than the rest of the wedding party will be wearing. After I found out I called the two guys and told them not to worry the shirts they had already were what we wanted so everyone matches. We planned it so we could have the wedding we want. She is intent on being involved somehow any ideas how to solve this? I have heard suggestions like flowers or something but that is already taken care of and I am anticipating a blowout with us or my sister who lives with her and her refusal to come to the wedding. (this is not uncommon she left my sisters graduation party because my sister invited her half-brother) If she does not come besides the initial awkwardness with my family and my stepdad (who I am close to) there I don't think it would bother me. In fact, I hope it happens before the wedding rather than at the wedding. Any advice or possible solutions much appreciated! FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –

Wedding Money Saving Tips – Episode #207 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists It's time for some more money-saving tips. We've had shows on individual areas such as floral but today we are giving you a great list to choose from. Offseason venues or get married on a weekday In – season floral Make a budget and stick to it Wedding website Wedding party Gifts: Pay for hair and makeup/ outfit accessories Guest list cull cull cull Small and intimate, limit plus ones Alternate bridesmaids' bouquets, single stem "bouquets" Go paperless Seating chart rather than cards Menu sign, rather than personal menus Rent House for a venue, housing, and honeymoon Consider college campus Courthouse wedding Borrow jewelry Dress: Consignment Samples Order early Borrow from newlyweds or go in together for floral and or décor Let your family help if they offer Reuse floral, bouquets as centerpieces, relocate large pieces, make large pieces from smaller ones Candles Borrow fancy car for exit Cut the floral boutonnieres and corsages, Limit alcohol options-signature cocktail, 1 red, and 1 white wine option, limit beer selection Consider college students for live music Price multiple options Cake, small cake for cutting, cupcake or other sweets for guests. Catering-buffet, passed appetizers, single menu options Drinks Charitable favor/no favors/favors as centerpieces Chairs moved from ceremony to reception Disposable plates for cake Suburb restaurants can be less pricey than inner city Ask about kids pricing for catering or have a separate menu Buy secondhand decor Late night snacks but not for everyone, since not everyone will close out the night Listener Question: Hello! So my mom and others really want to help me make decisions and do the research involved with hiring our vendors and such. How do I politely tell them when I expect them to do their part? I'd think that within a couple of days to a week it would be acceptable to check back in for a progress report, but I've been finding that they haven't gotten to that task yet. FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On – 

How to Pamper Mom with Anne Timss – Episode #206 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists One of our favorite guest hosts is back! Anne Timss is here to share some ideas on how to pamper Mom on your wedding day. If you missed any of Anne's past episodes we have linked them here: Wedding Makeup and Hair Roundtable Current Trends in Wedding Hair and Makeup Here are some of the topics we discuss: Dress shopping Fresh makeup Newer hairstyles Papering Face mask Eye mask Facial Oils Scalp massages Water and drinks Find mom's style if she hasn't had a trial Timing on the day of, mom needs things done before the helping of the dress photos so that she's fully dressed and photo ready Feeling left out Helping to feel confident Aging moisturizers Kiehl's Ultra facial cream UV sunscreen Hyaluronic acid – Neutrogena review La Mare – Kelp fermented infused Who pays typically James Maloy – tape demo on Instagram LINKS: Podcast: http://fromringtoveil.com/BTBS Agency: http://fromringtoveil.com/pdnw [responsive-slider id=3222] FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Destination Wedding - A Bride's Experience - Episode #205 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists When Sam (a bride and listener) reached out to us she told us that she has a story to tell we said absolutely. If you are thinking about a destination wedding, check out this episode! These are a few of the things we discussed about her destination wedding: Planning a wedding on the Virgin Islands How did she find her vendors, venue, and dress How she decided on a location Local resources Most difficult vendor to find What happened vs. what she expected What she had to give up to get what she wanted Reading reviews Helping others in planning Let Sam(and us) know if you have any questions or concerns about your destination wedding planning. Contact Sam - [email protected] [responsive-slider id=3202] Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{Stitcher}{Youtube} {iHeartradio}{Alexa}{ CastBox}{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On – THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:  

Wedding Officiants – Episode #204 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Hi ladies! I'm getting married this summer and have been listening to your podcast for about a year now! Thank you for all your advice it's been really helpful. I was wondering, do you have an episode that talks about having a friend/family member officiate the ceremony?? We want a close friend of ours to officiate our wedding but he has never done one before and I have only been in one other wedding so I'm not an expert either. We are doing a very casual, non - religious ceremony but I still want to make sure we are legally married by the end of it Any advice or sources you have would be greatly appreciated! ! Episode 23 - Hiring a Wedding Officiant Who can officiate Friend JOP Preacher or Religious leader Sea Captain Recognized officiants by state: https://www.thespruce.com/recognized-marriage-officiants-2300735 https://theamm.org/marriage-laws/ Tips for having a friend officiate: https://www.brides.com/story/tips-for-using-friend-as-officiant-sandy-malone https://www.theknot.com/content/friend-officiate-ceremony-how-to https://seattlebridemag.com/expert-wedding-advice/how-legally-officiate-wedding Let them add to the ceremony, or give input Practice Give them instruction on what to wear In order for the marriage to be legal, your officiant has to include the declaration of intent, or the "Do you take..." and "I do" vows portion of the ceremony. Your officiant must complete the marriage license Members of the clergy, judges, justices of the peace, and some notary publics are all qualified to perform weddings. Oddly enough, in some states, an officiant isn't required at all. In Pennsylvania, Colorado, Wisconsin, and the District of Columbia, a couple can simply marry in front of witnesses and submit the required paperwork to the state, no officiant needed. ________________ Here's how much the average wedding costs in every state: https://www.thisisinsider.com/average-cost-of-wedding-every-state-2019-2#wyoming-26017-51 Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

The In's and Out's of Wedding Registries-Episode # 203 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists The wedding registry business has changed in the last few years. Most couples are getting married later in life or have lived together for a while and have the household items they need. There are now registries for other things besides housewares and linens. We are going to go over that plus where and how to register. Tips for a good registry Take stock of items you have and items you need to replace Register at more than one store- we recommend one online, one box store and one specialty store. Try not to overlap registries Keep track of everything, you will need to send Thank you notes out. Always check the return policy Don't add the registry to your wedding invitation- add it to your website and shower invites What to register for in a typical registry: Tableware Formal dinnerware (China) Informal dinnerware Silverware/flatware glasses Linens Sheets, pillowcases Towels Tablecloths Placemats napkins Cook and kitchenware Pot and pans Cooking utensils Small electric appliances A Bridal Registry is Not Only About the Kitchen - Episode #22 Where to find a typical registry Department stores Macy's Nordstroms JCPenney Tiffany & Co Big Box Stores Wal-Mart Target Bed Bath and Beyond Online Amazon Zola Wayfair Specialty Stores Crate and Barrel Pottery Barn Williams and Sonoma Honeymoon funds and gift fund sites Gift cards for airlines and hotels Honeymoon excursions Dinner and drink gift cards Add funds for trips and house Large item gift collection Recap on thank you notes- How to Express your Gratitude, Episode #73 Set aside a part of every day to write thank you notes. Send thank you notes within 3 months of gift receipt but can be done up to a year. Here is The Emily Post's 10 do's and don'ts for Thank You Notes- Do personalize your notes and make reference to the person as well as the gift. Do remember that a gift should be acknowledged with the same courtesy and generous spirit in which it was given. Do be enthusiastic, but don't gush. Avoid saying a gift is the most beautiful thing you have ever seen unless you really mean it. Don't send form letters or cards with printed messages and just your signature; don't use email or post a generic thank you on your wedding web site in lieu of a personal note. Do promptly acknowledge the receipt of shipped gifts by sending a note right away or calling and following up with a written note in a day or two. Don't mention that you plan to return a gift or that you are dissatisfied in any way. Don't tailor your note to the perceived value of the gift; no one should receive a perfunctory note. Do refer to the way you will use a gift of money. Mentioning the amount is optional. Don't include wedding photos or use photo cards if it will delay sending the note. Don't use being late as an excuse not to write. Even if you are still sending notes after your first anniversary, keep writing! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Feeling Comfortable in Front of the Camera with Jill Steenson – Episode #202 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Let's face it there will be more pictures taken of you on your wedding day than you've probably ever have had before. It takes some getting used to and some of us still aren't that comfortable. Today we have Jill Steenson with Lillian Lane Photography here with us. Jill is here to help us share with you some tips and tricks on how to feel comfortable in front of the camera. With her experience both behind and in front of the camera, she's the perfect guest host for today's topic. People around you feeling comfortable with your photographer feeling comfortable with your partner, or who you're being photographed with choose a more secluded location if you're introverted don't have people watching your photo shoot if you're not 100% comfortable with that Atmosphere Play music that brings up your mood/helps with movement Have a LITTLE wine Make sure the temp is okay for you/dress for the temp Take a break if you need one Bring a snack/water Prep Eat something! You'll want energy meditate/visualize yourself having fun do a light workout or yoga if you can avoid the news/anything that stresses you. Instead, listen to music that makes you happy take a moment with your partner before the shoot and just look into his/her eyes for a full three to four minutes (dopamine) Ask your photographer for help for prompts to bring out fun emotions Both you and your partner can come up with fun challenges to help each other to have fun and get great photos *slow run competition *yell the artist/name of each song as it comes on (one point for each) *dance with each other *bear hug, or have him pick you up Avoid planning a shoot that you'll have to wake up very early for unless you're used to that. Choose a time of day that you know you're productive. Appearance Put on a little more than daily wear makeup (false lashes look nice in photos) Wear clothing you feel comfortable in/clothing that moves/avoid stiff fabrics Avoid heels/stilettos unless you're very used to wearing them LINKS: Lillian Lane Photography Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Wedding Facts and Findings - Episode #201 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists This weeks episode is full of facts about weddings. How much the average costs are and even the best places to get married ranked by WalletHub. 2019's Best Places to Get Married - WalletHub 2018 Costs of Weddings 2017 Avg - $25,764 2018 Avg - $24,723 I would just like to give From Ring to Veil a HUGE shoutout from my rooftop all the way in Louisiana...... THANK YOU SO MUCH for your FABULOUS podcasts, which by the way, have inspired and taught me more than any magazine or book on the shelf EVER could! I may not be a bride...well, I was almost 27 years ago, and my oh my how things have changed; however, I am a Mother of the Bride and not just one bride, but TWO brides. Yes... both of my daughters are getting married one month (technically 5 weeks) apart. The first daughter got married on February 2nd and is currently on her honeymoon, and the second wedding will take place on March 9th. Both daughters have completely different styles, so the second wedding is certainly not going to be a "copy and paste" kind of wedding. Your podcasts have educated me and allowed me to envision a perfect wedding day for both my girls in two totally different spaces! There is absolutely NO WAY I could have planned these weddings without the help of Kim and Shannon! (I actually refer to these two rockstars to my family and friends as my "virtual besties" although I've never met them personally!) If you are the bride or the Mother of a Bride, I strongly recommend their podcasts to you! It was a game changer for me, and for that, I will forever be grateful to my two virtual besties! 💕 -Kelly THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –