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Why We’re Afraid to Say No (and How to Stop People Pleasing)
35 minutes Posted Aug 29, 2025 at 1:14 am.
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Why is saying NO so hard? In this Core Conversations episode, therapist Crystal Rodenbaugh and host Ebrima “Abraham” Sisay dive into the fear of rejection, shame, and people-pleasing that keeps so many of us from setting healthy boundaries.


We explore:

- Why we’re afraid of saying no

- How people-pleasing takes over when we lose our boundaries

- The connection between shame, rejection, and identity

- Why saying “no” is not rejection but self-respect

- How therapy can help you find freedom in boundaries


If you’ve ever said “yes” when you wanted to say “no,” this conversation will help you rethink what boundaries really mean. Saying no doesn’t make you bad — it makes you whole.