
Greetings Friend! This is on of our first Episodes, so it might sound a bit different than those you are used to already :) It was recorded on Febrauary 7th in 2022.
We talk about things like:
Travelling as a Neurodivergent
Fire house delivery gear
Being born in a multichildren family not diagnosed
Being in a big city like Paris
Do you think differently while travelling in comparison to being at home?
Habits of peole who are not so aware
Neurodivergents, Primal behaviours and hierarchies
What are your models in your Life?
What are the models?
Identifying with characters in stories liek Disneys Raya and the last Dragon
Sometimes it is just not possible for people on the spectrum to walk across the room and hug somebody
Feb 19, 2023
1 hr 18 min

Greetings friends. Today we have an interesting topic to talk about. We start out with strong habits since Alex managed to publish on his Blog on 100 consecutive days AAAND:
We started our Free Range Thinking YouTube Channel
First w talk about Brandon Sanderson's 10 years Mindset and the AD(H)D instant gratification mindset inspired by this Video by writer and YouTuber Jed Herne
How do we feel and think about the Babysteps?
How doing a LOT of Babysteps in DIFFERENT directions is the Polymath approach
aka
- A Pile of Ants
- A Bee Hive
- The Drunken Master Steps
That can mean: Walking AROUND a goal instead of towards it in a straight line
Sneaky Sharon tells Alex the idea for the Fantasy Book we have to write.
We got some Feedback:
So Alex started with Yoga - The Yoga-App is called Asana Rebel
On a party someone asked Alex:
"I heard about aphantasia on your podcast"
Then finally we takl about
Garrison vs Combat Mindset - An idea by Jocko Willink on the Huberman Labs Podcast (around 19:11)
Working as a Chef with Gordon Ramsay
Or FRT as a Food Truck Daily Reality Show :)
HBO Contacts anyone?
FRT is Consistency and Fun for us
Adventurer / Explorer Mindset
Back to the military :)
The German Military in the 90ies
IBMs method "Capture the Hill"
Premium Cola and Uwe Luebbermann as an example for a democratic company
Hierichal structures are great testing grounds
Autistic Person in the Air Force
24 as a theory as a tool for political influence
Some Neurodiverse humans are good at Red Teaming
and
Lateral thinking
Sidedoors and Backdoors
Red Oceans and Blue Oceans
Book Recommendation: Blue Ocean Strategy
It does not need to be for everybody!
Feb 14, 2023
1 hr 13 min

THAT Episode-Title is a mouthful! :-D
And heeeere we are again with a new Interview Episode with Saskia Listle. First we have to say a little sorry: We were so engaged in the conversation that we totally overheard Saskia's connection had some hiccups. It's a minor annoyance but it should be possible to follow our conversation.
How did you find out your brain works differently?
How to see when the other one is maxed out
Logical Aphantasia
Learnings from being a Concierge in a High Class Hotel
How to interpret and act on hostility?
Yawning
Is there a way to make yourself interested in things?
How to get back into conversations you are not interested in.
Why is it yawning?
Because you are tired?
Or because it is an inappropriate thing to do in most situations?
Important: knowing yourself and your needs
How to live in a collaborative startup household as a source for serendipity
24h watercooler conversations
Accidents are frowned upon
Dying is forbidden
How much is on the living together side and how much on the collaborating side?
Don't have any unspoken norms!
Get that stuff on the table
- wants
- needs
- fears
- expectations
With HUMOR in it - it can be healthy
Negotiating a personal manual for ourself
The secret smell Saskia can't tolerate in the morning
Here you can find out more about Saskia:
1. Saskia's LinkedIn Profile
2. Saskia's Podcast: Conversations with my Future Skills
3. Her Newsletter: the grey area
4. And her Website: www.saskia-listle.com
Hybrid humans: is one of Saskia's and Sharon's projects
and PSSST: They offer BEAUTIFUL art on T-Shirts - like NFT-Shirts :)
Book mentioned:
RANGE - David Epstein - Generalism
Feb 11, 2023
1 hr 18 min

Greetings friends to Episode 4 of our second season of Free Range Thinking!
You can reach Sharon's via LinkedIn and Alex via Mail.
Curiosity is tied in
Anchor important things with humor
Studies about learning and laughing
Is Memorizing useful or not?
Giving speeches or keynotes to neurotypicals
Hic sunt Dracones!
Coach
Laughing and fun in Martial Arts - differences between traditional martial arts like TaeKwonDo and more western ones like Boxing and Kickboxing
Laughing while Sparring. And when people are VERY serious it gets even funnier
Sharon's Yoga Teacher Voice 😀
The Yes-And Mindset
Where is the point when people lose their open mindset
...There is the death of a thousand papercuts again
Growing up in a very acidic and heavy household with JOY SQAUSHERS
How did parents(couples) like that ever get together??
Who is more joyful - catholics or protestants?
Emerging humor vs studied humor. Using jokes again and again
Shadow of the Gods humor and neurodiverse implications
Feb 7, 2023
1 hr 2 min

Here we are again with our second episode with the wonderful Matthew Bellringer going even deeper down some exciting neurodiverse rabbit holes!
You can reach Sharon via LinkedIn
and Alex via [email protected]
Our Homepage is http://free-range-thinking.com/
find short Clips on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@freerangethinkingpodcast
Hyper Adaption
how we interact with the environment so it meets our needs
and how it's Trauma related
but not specifically Neurodivergent related
"if we don't do THIS - bad things will happen"
Hyper Empathy in autistic people
and
how we can manage other peoples level of feelings
Differences between Masking and Hyper Adaption
Hyper Adaption are the tools we use to mask
Hyperlexia
and not saying "sorry i didnt mean that"
Strong Language, Fast Thinking, Shame
being strong but poorly coordinated
ADHDlers are well in a crisis
because we have PRACTICE with crisis :-)
It is a threshold, a transmission point.
Universal Design
Perceviing signals of change earlier
can intimidate Neurotypical people
We need categories and (helpful) words
Preemptive selfjustification
Object Permanence and ADHD
Environmental Design
We can create an environment that suits as or does NOT suit us
How neurodiversive people might be more like chaos (not chaotic) and neurotypical people are more like order
Another kind of asthetic
Framework and flexible design
Explore specifics and
How people can play around with it
Neurodiversity as an organizational benefit
Matthew's languaging around neurodiversities
Links to Matthew
- https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-bellringer/
- https://iaq.matthewbellringer.com
- https://www.matthewbellringer.com
Feb 3, 2023
1 hr 54 min

We start with a question about Self awareness and identity but also really practical.
You can reach Sharon via LinkedIn
and Alex via [email protected]
Our Homepage is http://free-range-thinking.com/
find short Clips on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@freerangethinkingpodcast
In German there isn't really a word for Self-Awareness
How would you help people to find out what they are naturally good at?
Intrinsic motivators from our childhood and how it was outcultured through family and culture
Ask: "how do you want to feel?" Not what thing do you want to be or do
Shownotes Glennan Doyle - Doctor Becky Family Dynamics
How to teach kids to trust themselves
Where do you dwell?
How Alex ended upbeing some kind of Detective, somekind of Mac Gyver and some kind of treasure hunter.
Areas of security and privilege
We look for an alternative expression for "Death by a thousand papercuts" but: with a positive connotation
How Alex came up with the idea for this episodes through a Wordpress writing prompt:
Write about your first name, its meaning, its heritage and so on
Identity as a Tag in the clothing
Pronouns and identiy
Gracious Patience :-)
Our new definition for Death by a thousand paper cuts (and ChatGPT helped us with it :-D)
Link to the mentioned Episode of We can do hard things with Glennon Doyle and Dr Becky Kennedy about internal family systems
Jan 31, 2023
1 hr 21 min

We talk with our third and wonderful guest, Matthew Bellringer, about how to get over the barricades and work with individuals and organizations on complex and wicked problems socially, techy plus human relations.
Matthew's neurodivergent Bingo card: Dyslexia, ADHD and Autism
Matthew changed how Sharon speaks about high functioning and low functioning.
What is Atypical Autism?
When you meet one person with autism you met ONE person with autism.
If you are a problem for others you are likely to be diagnosed, whereas,
If you are a problem for yourself - you are less likely to be diagnosed.
So:
Diagnostic factors for neurodiversion is how we annoy neurotypical people.
If you are part of a neurominority you tend to distrust your internal state because the world tells you it is wrong.
Differences between hard empathy and soft empathy.
Strategies for how you can turn a "you are functioning in a wrong way" around?
How to develop awareness how to integrate and practice sensory awareness into skillful self-expression.
Fear with bureaucratic authorities up until being at gunpoint with the police because of neurodivergent behavior.
Sometimes the right answer IS masking.
The trick is having the choice!
When you study psychology - how much neurodiversity taking place there already?
Aphantasic - but also hyperphantasic in a way.
Having proceptic sense in space - knowing the relative relationship of things in space without knowing how they look.
How neurodiversity works in other pathways, other journeys and the analogy of the Schiebepuzzle = clusters are moving in the brain.
Is it possible to recreate the creativity in adults?
Flexibility in categorizing: Cognitive piles instead of boxes.
We enjoy the puzzle of things that contradict ourselves. It's our kind of sudoku :)
We become experts in our fields of focused interest, like elite athletes or musicians find pleasure in hours of training or practicing.
When we are doing something different and succeed with it - THAT scares people.
We internalize other people's feelings which leads to: I learned to be afraid of it because OTHER PEOPLE are fearful of this
Alex's observation:
Matthew sounds like Neil Gaiman! :)
And: Neverwhere works as a great allegory for unmasking
Our Downhill Parking: Another way of Aesthetic and languaging around universal design
Links to Matthew
- https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-bellringer/
- https://iaq.matthewbellringer.com
- https://www.matthewbellringer.com
Jan 27, 2023
1 hr 24 min

“If it works for now: Milk the HELL out of it!” (Jesse Driftwood about tools like Journaling)
Alex: The Idea of constant reinventions and evolving is much easier nowadays because with every new tool out there you can build upon the last steps.
Some tools we talked about:
- Zettelkasten
- Obsidian
- Drafts
- Evernote - for the more librarian-like type
- Notion - more for people on the architect-side of knowledge work
- Obsidian - gardeners and those who want Zombie-proofed vaults :)
There is NO MAGIC BULLET that solves all your problems, tasks or whatever for you
Sharon played around with ChatGPT for a proposal and found it is a GREAT tool to start on a blank page with an inspiration
Sharon’s using ChatGPT like a “thinking dance partner”
Alex likes to call ChatGPT Captain obvious :)
It is a bit like the neurotypical answer so that you can ADD the Neurodivergent things to it
Interesting and fun ways to use ChatGPT
Would you rather type with a tool like ChatGPT or talk to it - and let it generate the result in print later?
Voice Dream Reader as a tool that reads books and articles aloud for you almost like an audiobook
Professor Alex's historical view on knowledge-technology like reading :)
How to use tools like ChatGPT constructively against Hate Speech
Links in this Episode
Jesse Driftwood and Levi Allen’s Podcast
The Make Stuff Club
zettelkasten.de - english community about and introduction to the digital zettelkasten-method and the digital tool thearchive
antinet.org - english site about the analog / paper based method to the zettelkasten
Antinet Reddit - english Community about the method
Douglas Adams 3 rules of technology
Jan 24, 2023
1 hr 18 min

A (meta)-conversation with our Guest Torsten TROJA Jacke - About High Sensitive People, Polymaths, Neurodiversity in Companies and so much more
Aaaaaand this here is our biggest Experiment - yet!
This whopping 3:15 hours Episode has two parts:
1. The first part is in English - Sharon and Alex talk about a conversation they had with their second guest Torsten Roman Jacke - aka Troja Aktivist42.
2. And since that conversation was in german we appended the German talk after the English episode at 1 hour and 28 minutes.
Please enjoy Sharon butchering the German grammer! ;D
So please tell us if you listened to the German version as well and what you think about our meta-conversation ;)
You can reach Sharon via her Linkedin Profile https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon-leigh-pp4l/ and Alex via e-mail: [email protected].
Aaaaand here are the show notes!:
Alex tries to explain the concept of Flachwitze really briefly and unsuccessfully :)
How was it to follow the German conversion with an ADHD Brain?
Key Takeaway Alex: Neuro-Utopia
Experiment was to bring people together
DEI - Diversity Inclusion
Companies are saying: How can we make money from these new-fangled Neuro diversities?
We think: How can we help stop the usual “profiting on the backs” of the maginalized?
Moving the needle on ND Culture in a whole culture
Book Recommendation: Tipping Point by Malcom Gladwell
…….Back to Torsten Roman Jacke 🙂
Avalanche of Change
What does Sharon think about Troja’s differentiation of high sensitive and high sensible people?
Think how powerful it would be if Tom Cruise’s Maverick in Top Gun would be shown as an ADHD or autistic person!
The Problem with Neurotypical stories and storytelling
The town of Bethel inside the city of Bielefeld
Supermarkets in France who turn lights and music down on ND days
Why don’t people analyze themselves?
Alex’s rant about a family member telling his daughter
“The seriousness of life begins now with school”
..and Sharon’s advice :)
Jan 20, 2023
3 hr 19 min

Greetings Friend! Heeeere we are again 🙂
This is our second season in 2023 and we explain in the intro why and when there are still a lot of episodes coming from season one :)
In this episode we are talking about which new years resolutions of other people Alex adapted, since he does’nt believe in new year resolutions but silly like to use them as inspiration.
We asked ChatGPT an interesting question:
Why is it so hard for people with ADHD to finish things
And the quality of the answer might surprise you.
Sharon shares her Tips and tricks for finishing things with ADHD
The concept of Paying in Energy (Spoons) https://happiful.com/what-is-the-spoon-theory/
Alex often struggles with finding preparation time
Sharon's mom always said: "You don't need to put your foot on the gas - just take your foot off the brake"
Give yourself Permission to experiment
Sharon would like to experiment with AI generated music
Take the time to show you care
Baselines and Cheat days
If we are not aware of something how can we reduce it, accomplish it, know what we want out of it or what we prefer?
The plan: Writing a MANUAL FOR YOURSELF
Sharon is an Ambience Alchemist - being HSP helps her A LOT
Key for Finishing for Alex: #1 is Reducing Friction
Alex Experience with Micronutrients Bloodanalysis
and
Back on Keto diet, YAY!
How Alex beautified his physical and digital workspace
ChatGPT’s answer to the question:
How do you keep humans from using ChatGPT in a shitty way?
Links we talked about:
Tim Ferriss and Mark Manson
https://tim.blog/2022/12/30/mark-manson/
Steve-O and Casey Neistat and how they work
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tdZqvkWaYaE
Sharon's and Saskia's ☕️🍰 Hybrid Humans Café!
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86275907540
Jan 17, 2023
1 hr 31 min
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