In this episode, Giles and Alison explore Type 3 – The Achiever, a driven and success-oriented personality that thrives on accomplishment and recognition. But beneath their ambition often lies a deep fear of failure and a struggle with tying their worth to external validation.Through biblical insights, including the story of Joseph and Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness, we unpack how Type 3s can move from a performance-based identity to a life rooted in God’s unconditional love. We also examine how spiritual practices like solitude, confession, and social media fasting can help Threes embrace authenticity over image and refute the lie that “I am what other people say or think about me.”If you or someone you love is a Type 3, this episode offers encouragement, truth, and practical wisdom for living with purpose beyond achievement.Resources:⁠⁠Self to Lose, Self to Find⁠⁠ by Marilyn Vancil⁠⁠The Sacred Enneagram⁠⁠by Christopher L. Heuertz

In this episode, Giles and Alison continue their Enneagram series with Type 2 – The Helper. Type 2s are driven by a deep desire to love and serve others, but they often struggle with an underlying fear of being unworthy of love if they aren’t needed. Their generosity and warmth are beautiful gifts, yet their tendency to suppress their own needs can lead to burnout, resentment, and an unhealthy attachment to affirmation.Giles and Alison explore what motivates Type 2s, how their servant-hearted nature can be both a blessing and a burden, and how they can move from striving for love to resting in the truth that they are already deeply loved by God. They discuss biblical examples of Type 2s, the unique challenges they face, and spiritual disciplines that help them grow—including centering prayer, fasting from over-serving, and learning to receive love without conditions.If you’re a Type 2 or love someone who is, this episode will provide practical insights into how to support, encourage, and walk alongside them as they embrace a life of love—without needing to earn it.Resources:⁠Self to Lose, Self to Find⁠ by Marilyn Vancil⁠The Sacred Enneagram⁠by Christopher L. Heuertz

In this episode, Giles and Alison continue their Enneagram series withType 1 – The Perfectionist. Type 1s are driven by a deep desire for goodness, integrity, and justice, but they often wrestle with an inner critic that pushes them toward self-judgment and frustration.Giles and Alison explore what motivates Type 1s, how their pursuit of righteousness can be both a gift and a burden, and how they can move fromstriving for perfection to resting in grace. They discuss biblical examples of Type 1s, the challenges they face, and the spiritual disciplines that help them grow—includingSabbath, confession, and breath prayer.If you’re a Type 1 or love someone who is, this episode will give you practical insights into how to support them, encourage them, and help them live from a place ofpeace rather than pressure.Resources:Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn VancilThe Sacred Enneagramby Christopher L. Heuertz

In this episode, Giles and Alison dive into the world of Enneagram Type 9—The Peacemaker. Alison, a Type 9 herself, shares her personal insights on the strengths and challenges of being a Peacemaker, including her desire for harmony and her struggle to avoid conflict. Together, Giles and Alison explore the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking, emphasizing the biblical call to make peace as Jesus did—engaging with courage and seeking true reconciliation. Through personal stories, practical tools like the PAUSE tool, and biblical examples such as Barnabas and Gideon, we discuss how Type 9s can grow spiritually by stepping out of passivity and into their God-given calling. Spiritual disciplines like intercession and confession can be pathways for Nines to move beyond complacency and live out their redeemed identity as courageous reconcilers and compassionate listeners. Whether you’re a Type 9 or you know one, this episode offers encouragement and inspiration for the journey toward peace and presence. PAUSE teaching video: https://youtu.be/FzPgtBGglRY?si=-UkC8QUY8kNDwHmn

In this episode of the For Everyday Disciples, Giles and Alison explore Enneagram Type 8—The Protector. Known for their boldness, independence, and passion for justice, Type 8s embody resilience and leadership. But with their strength comes the temptation to rely solely on themselves, often avoiding vulnerability and emotional connection. We unpack the spiritual journey of Type 8s, offering biblical examples like Moses, Esther, and Nathan to illustrate both the challenges and beauty of their calling. We emphasize how surrendering control and trusting in God’s provision allows Type 8s to transform their natural intensity into life-giving leadership. We offer practical insights and specific spiritual practices that can help Type 8s channel their protective instincts into deeper faith and connection. Whether you’re a Type 8 or you know one, this episode provides encouragement to step into God’s strength rather than your own.

In this episode of For Everyday Disciples, Giles and Alison explore the Enneagram—its origins, misconceptions, and potential as a tool for spiritual formation. We address concerns about the Enneagram’s mystical associations and explain its roots in early Christian thought, particularly the teachings of the Desert Fathers and Mothers. Drawing insights from Evagrius Ponticus and Richard Rohr’s The Enneagram: A Christian Perspective, we highlight how this ancient framework can help us identify our false self and move toward freedom and transformation in Christ.Rather than replacing the gospel, the Enneagram can be a mirror that reveals patterns of fear, pride, and self-protection, helping us grow in self-awareness and empathy. When used prayerfully, it can deepen our faith and relationships. Have thoughts or questions? We’d love to hear from you! Drop a comment or visit yourwayfinders.org to connect. Next up in January: a deep dive into each of the nine Enneagram types to kick off the New Year. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

In this episode, hosts Giles and Alison explore the life-changing truth of our redeemed identity as God’s beloved. We uncover how common lies—“I am what I do,” “I am what others think,” and “I am what I have”—distort our sense of self and lead us away from the freedom found in Christ.Through Scripture, reflections on Jesus’ life, and practical insights, we reveal how living as God’s beloved shapes our relationships, purpose, and identity. From faith, hope, and love as foundational virtues to the power of surrender in Jesus’ example at Gethsemane, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps for embracing a life with God, rooted in His unchanging love.Our identity as God's beloved transforms everything, empowering each of us to live boldly and authentically as an everyday disciple.

In this episode, we explore the false identity of “I am what I have,” which is especially impactful for Enneagram types 5, 6, and 7. These types often seek security through accumulating knowledge, resources, or plans. Drawing from biblical examples like the rich young ruler and King Solomon, we highlight the emptiness that comes from finding identity in possessions or mental strategies rather than in a relationship with God. These types tend to adopt a "life over God" approach, trying to control outcomes and ensure security through their own efforts. However, when Jesus faced this temptation in the wilderness, He rejected shortcuts and placed His trust fully in God’s provision. Like Jesus modeled, our true contentment and security are found in being God's beloved, not in what we gather or possess.Challenge Questions: This week, spend some time in silence to identify areas where you might be placing your security in what you have, rather than in God’s provision. How can you practice releasing those attachments and trusting in God’s sufficiency? Who in your life could benefit from hearing this message? Consider sharing your reflections with a friend or community group, inviting them to join you in exploring what it means to find identity in God alone.

In this episode, hosts Giles and Alison build on last week’s discussion about how our core motivations from our Enneagram type may inform the lies we believe about our identity and the idols we pursue, offering specific spiritual disciplines to counter those lies and ground us in our true identity in Christ. This episode explores the lie: "I am what people say or think about me.” Focusing on the heart-centered Enneagram Types 2, 3, and 4, we delve into the struggles these types face when self-worth is built on others' opinions. We unpack this exhausting pursuit of validation and approval and offer insights on how Jesus models true identity in God.Through powerful biblical examples, like Peter's denial and Saul’s jealousy, we illustrate the pitfalls of living for others' praise. We also highlight practical steps to break free from the approval trap and embrace our true worth as beloved children of God, including the transformative practice of solitude as a way to reconnect with God's voice amid the noise. Learn how to let go of what people think and rest in the liberating truth that “I am who God says I am”: fully known, fully accepted, and fully loved by God before the world even had a chance to comment (Jeremiah 1:5).

In this episode, hosts Giles and Alison begin exploring the Enneagram and how our core motivations may inform which spiritual disciplines could be most beneficial to our spiritual growth. We start with the "body" center of the Enneagram - related to types 8, 9, and 1 - and how these types often struggle with the lie that "I am what I do," leading to stress and performance-driven mindsets. Alison shares personal insights on navigating the tension between invitation and challenge in disciple-making as an Enneagram 9. We also talk about the spiritual discipline of stillness and how it can ground these types in the truth that our true worth is in being God's beloved children.