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Parenting and Porn with Erika Lust
1 hour 14 minutes Posted Aug 8, 2025 at 8:40 am.
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It’s time to talk about… PARENTING & PORN.

What happens when your career is in porn — and you’re planning for parenthood? Florence is flying solo this week and sitting down with legendary erotic filmmaker Erika Lust for a juicy, no-holds-barred convo on raising kids in a world obsessed with sex but terrified of sexuality.
From fighting censorship and dismantling shame to the nitty-gritty of how to actually talk to your kids about porn, we’re going deep into the messy, meaningful overlaps between pleasure, politics, and parenting. Erika shares her wisdom from 20+ years in the industry, why tech bros keep banning her, and how to raise informed, empowered (and media-literate) young people without freaking out over their screen time.
Plus:
✨ Sex education that doesn’t suck
✨ Parenting through the porn panic
✨ Why pleasure is power — and why your kids need to hear that too
Whether you're a parent, a porn-lover, or just a curious fker wondering how to raise a less fked-up generation, this one’s for you.
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