Being in a relationship is different from having a friend with benefits. What am I trying to say? You would ask. Having a boyfriend means that you are in love, therefore, you must show him that you love him. Unfortunately, many women believe that a prove for love ends at making love. In as much as love making is good and very important in a relationship, it is not the only way to show your boyfriend that you love him. If you believe that love making or intimacy is the only thing men want in a relationship and gives him just that, you may only have him as a friend with benefit, and not a boyfriend.