Finesse Made
Finesse Made
Jakobi Matagi
My name is Jakobi Matagi and I want to share with you the things I learn on this journey we call life. Finesse For Life!
Goals Set The Destination. Systems Get You There
Why set goals? Triggers new behaviors Helps you focus Creates momentum - positive or negative What is a good system? Positivity Always speak positive Never be negative to others Growth Stepping out of comfort zone Learning new skills Meet new people Productive Always making improvement or progress daily Setbacks are lessons The big picture is being accomplished pixel by pixel
Aug 14, 2022
19 min
Embrace Failure
Embrace your failures. Let them teach you to progress not fall down. What do you need to do? Stop making excuses - everyone deals with shit be the one who handles their shit Reevaluate your efforts - what didn’t go well that I can make better Put your head down and go to work all failures are new beginnings - set goals and work efficiently reach out to people who can help
Aug 7, 2022
18 min
It is Hard to be Positive in a Negative Environment
Home Clean and declutter Get natural sunlight Background Music (Playlist Link) Work Good relationship with co-workers (stay out of drama) Have a good work mindset (expect a good day) Decide your reaction to known problems ahead of time Friends Your friend circle should always respect and support your decision. They should also keep you in check You shouldn't leave social hang outs drained you should be energized Unfollow people on social media that are affecting you in real life
Jul 31, 2022
28 min
Get Off The Nipple
Getting off the nipple is simply just becoming independent and not dependent from your parents. I hope that this helps give perspective of how to push yourself to become more independent. 
Jul 4, 2022
22 min
Practice Brings Improvement not Perfection
Take a listen on my thoughts about the saying "Practice makes perfect."
Feb 13, 2022
4 min
Take Action and React Positively
Have you been taking action or going with the flow?? 
Feb 7, 2022
8 min
Positive Momentum
How do you start your day? This is how I start my day: - Make my bed - Shower and Brush Teeth - Get dressed for work - Make breakfast (Oatmeal with Egg white and spinach omelet) - Glass of water - Get all set up for a day of work
Jan 31, 2022
2 min
Build a Relationship with Patience
What is your relationship with patience?  Learn your process trust it and enjoy the journey.
Jan 24, 2022
7 min
Optimism over Pessimism
Add this into your arsenal and watch it change your life!
Jan 9, 2022
8 min
Take Control of Your Life
What can help you feel more secure in your life?  Choosing to take control of what you do, eat, watch, etc!
Jan 2, 2022
4 min
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