Mette and Candice, friends for more than thirty years, both found themselves divorced during the pandemic. They have very different perspectives on the challenge of finding themselves in the midst of an entirely new life.

Candice and Mette talk about what the podcast has meant to them.

Candice and Mette talk about what the podcast has meant to them.

Episode Fifty

We talk about what makes us feel safe and what doesn't.

We talk about what makes us feel safe and what doesn't.

Safety

Two recovering perfectionists talk about the contining temptation.

Two recovering perfectionists talk about the contining temptation.

Perfectionism

Can you become more fun and if so, how?

Being Fun

When you know you shouldn't do too much, why do you keep doing it anyway? What are you winning? What are you avoiding?

When you know you shouldn't do too much, why do you keep doing it anyway? What are you winning? What are you avoiding?

Why Do I Keep Doing Too Much?

What do you keep, literally and metaphorically, after a major life change?

What do you keep, literally and metaphorically, after a major life change?

What Do I Keep?

Do you give advice? Why or why not?

Advice

If no one has ever told you before, it sucks getting old.

If no one has ever told you before, it sucks getting old.

My Body Is Falling Apart

All the things we've learned to do since our divorces.

All the things we've learned to do since our divorces.

We Can Do It!

What do you regret? How do you let go of regret? What regret is it useful to hold onto, if any?

What do you regret? How do you let go of regret? What regret is it useful to hold onto, if any?