
Welcome to The FQ Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast, your go-to show for bold conversations, unfiltered perspectives, and authentic sisterhood. Hosted by the dynamic trio—Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, and Tempress—this podcast dives deep into all things fierce, feminine, and unapologetically real.
In this exciting season finale, the ladies of Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool wrap up Season 4 with an unforgettable episode packed with unexpected surprises, juicy revelations, and the kind of heat only their infamous gold bowl can deliver. As always, expect a perfect mix of laughs, truths, and the kind of spicy, sexy, soulful energy that only Asia, Tabytha, and Tempress can serve.
If you've been rocking with us all season, thank you for being part of the ride! And if you're new here—welcome to the party. Now's the perfect time to catch up on past episodes, share with your crew, and get ready for what's next.
💋 Crazy. Sexy. Cool. Every damn week.
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Michael Dajour
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Graphics & Social Media by: Semaj Rasan
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Makeup by: Symone
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Hair by: Judi Doll
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RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY
GLAAD: https://glaad.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org
A4TE: https://transequality.org
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May 1, 2025
1 hr 5 min

COURTNEY BALENCIAGA TALKS CAREER, AGING, LOSS, MOTIVATION, BALLROOM & THE GOLD BOWL
In this emotional and eye-opening continuation, the iconic Courtney Balenciaga sits down with us to share deeply personal reflections on life beyond the runway.
Courtney opens up about the heartbreaking loss of her best friend, a moment that became a wake-up call. She candidly discusses how, for years, she avoided getting tested and neglected her health. That loss forced her to take a hard look at herself—and ultimately sparked a journey of healing, accountability, and self-love.
She talks about finally taking her health seriously, embracing wellness not just for herself, but for the community that looks up to her.
Courtney also reflects on the impact of her mother’s love, and how it shaped her into a strong, nurturing figure in the ballroom scene. That love became the foundation for how she parents and supports her ballroom kids, with compassion, guidance, and real talk.
From evolving as a performer to aging with pride, staying motivated, and gearing up for The Gold Bowl, this episode is packed with vulnerability, growth, and legendary wisdom.
Don’t miss it—Courtney keeps it raw, real, and Crazy Sexy Cool.
🎧 Tune in to the latest episode of the FQ Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast to hear Courtney Juicy-Balenciaga's inspiring story. Don't forget to subscribe and turn on notifications for new weekly episodes!
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Set Design/Production/Editing by:
Gatekeeper Adrian
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Michael Dajour
https://www.instagram.com/michaeldajour
Graphics & Social Media by: Semaj Rasan
https://www.instagram.com/semajrasan
Makeup by: Symone
https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.ef...
Hair by: Judi Doll
https://www.instagram.com/judi.dadoll
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RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY
GLAAD: https://glaad.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org
A4TE: https://transequality.org
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Apr 25, 2025
58 min

In a recent episode of the FQ Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast, hosts Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, and Tempress engage in a heartfelt conversation with Courtney Juicy-Balenciaga. They delve into topics such as her upbringing in Brooklyn, experiences with bullying, her career in dance, and the significance of the ballroom community in her life. Courtney discusses how the ballroom scene offered her a sense of belonging and empowerment, helping her navigate challenges and embrace her true self.
Listeners can expect an inspiring discussion that highlights the resilience of individuals who find strength and identity through community and artistic expression. The episode sheds light on the transformative power of ballroom culture and its impact on personal growth and self-acceptance.
🎧 Tune in to the latest episode of the FQ Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast to hear Courtney Juicy-Balenciaga's inspiring story. Don't forget to subscribe and turn on notifications for new weekly episodes!
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Stay connected with Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool -
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PRODUCTION TEAM
Set Design/Production/Editing by:
Gatekeeper Adrian
https://www.instagram.com/gatekeeper90
Michael Dajour
https://www.instagram.com/michaeldajour
Graphics & Social Media by: Semaj Rasan
https://www.instagram.com/semajrasan
Makeup by: Symone
https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.ef...
Hair by: Judi Doll
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RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY
GLAAD: https://glaad.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org
A4TE: https://transequality.org
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Apr 21, 2025
1 hr 14 min

This week on a special two-part episode of Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool, we’re bringing you an unfiltered, in-depth conversation with two icons in the ballroom community: Whitney Garcon and Zeric Mugler.
In Part 1, we dive into the art and pressure of maintaining your looks in ballroom and beyond. From beauty routines to body work, the ladies open up about the physical and emotional labor that goes into staying “on” all the time. We also explore personal journeys with addiction—how it starts, the impact it has, and what healing really looks like in spaces where image and performance are everything.
In Part 2, the conversation gets even more personal. We talk dating while being that girl (or that boy), how popularity complicates intimacy, and navigating love in a community that often watches your every move. Whitney and Zeric also get real about rivalry—when it fuels you, when it distracts you, and how to survive in a culture built on competition. Through it all, we center the joy, pain, and resilience of being Black, queer, and fab in today’s world.
You don’t want to miss this! Press play and get into the tea, the truths, and the testimony.
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PRODUCTION TEAM
Set Design/Production/Editing by:
Gatekeeper Adrian
Gatekeeper Adrian
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Michael Dajour
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Sound Mixing By: Jackie M
https://www.instagram.com/wavy_bagels
Production Assistant:https://www.instagram.com/kneaku
Graphics & Social Media by: Semaj Rasan
https://www.instagram.com/semajrasan
Makeup by: Symone
https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.ef...
Hair by: Judi Doll
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RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY
GLAAD: https://glaad.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org
A4TE: https://transequality.org/
Association of Transgender Professionals: https://transgenderprofessionals.org
Ackerman Institute for the Family: https://ackerman.org
New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP): https://avp.org
InterACT Advocates for Intersex Youth: https://interactavocates.org
Lambda Legal: https://lambdalegal.org
Transgender Law Center: https://transgenderlawcenter.org
DestinationTomorrow: https://destinationtomorrow.org
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Apr 10, 2025
1 hr 30 min

S4 EP 8 PART 1 | WHITNEY GARCON TALKS BEAUTY, RIVALS, DATING IN THE PUBLIC EYE, & WHY HE LEFT MUGLER
This week on a special 2-part episode of The FQ Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast, your favorite hosts Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, and Tempress dive deep into the world of ballroom, beauty, and beyond with two iconic guests: Whitney Garçon & Zeric Mugler!
From keeping your looks on point to navigating the highs and lows of addiction, dating while being in the spotlight, and dealing with rivals—this episode is all about **survival, resilience, and staying fabulous through it all.
Expect real talk, unfiltered moments, and insider gems from two legends who’ve lived it, survived it, and are still serving!
Tap in and listen NOW!
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PRODUCTION TEAM
Set Design/Production/Editing by:
Gatekeeper Adrian
https://www.instagram.com/gatekeeper90
Michael Dajour
https://www.instagram.com/michaeldajour
Sound Mixing By: Jackie M
https://www.instagram.com/wavy_bagels
Production Assistant:https://www.instagram.com/kneaku
Graphics & Social Media by: Semaj Rasan
https://www.instagram.com/semajrasan
Makeup by: Symone
https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.ef...
Hair by: Judi Doll
https://www.instagram.com/judi.dadoll
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RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY
GLAAD: https://glaad.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org
Sylvia Rivera Law Project: https://srlp.org
A4TE: https://transequality.org/
Association of Transgender Professionals: https://transgenderprofessionals.org
Ackerman Institute for the Family: https://ackerman.org
New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP): https://avp.org
InterACT Advocates for Intersex Youth: https://interactavocates.org
Lambda Legal: https://lambdalegal.org
Transgender Law Center: https://transgenderlawcenter.org
DestinationTomorrow: https://destinationtomorrow.org
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Apr 3, 2025
1 hr 37 min

Talking All Things NYC Nightlife with William, Sailey, & King Malawtic
Episode Description:
In this episode, we’re diving deep into NYC’s vibrant nightlife scene with special guests
William, Sailey, and King Malawtic. From the hottest parties to the cultural influence of the ballroom scene, our guests share their firsthand experiences navigating the city after dark.
We’re talking about:
The evolution of NYC nightlife and its impact on queer and Black communities
The role of ballroom in shaping the club scene
The best spots to party and what makes a true NYC night out
How DJs, promoters, and creatives keep the culture alive
Whether you're a nightlife veteran or just stepping into the scene, this episode has something for you! Tune in and join the convo using #FemQueenCrazySexyCool on socials.
🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts
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PRODUCTION TEAM
Set Design/Production/Editing by:
Gatekeeper Adrian
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Michael Dajour
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Sound Mixing By: Jackie M
https://www.instagram.com/wavy_bagels
Production Assistant:https://www.instagram.com/kneaku
Graphics & Social Media by: Semaj Rasan
https://www.instagram.com/semajrasan
Makeup by: Symone
https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.ef...
Hair by: Judi Doll
https://www.instagram.com/judi.dadoll
Powered by Black Trans Femmes in the Arts
https://www.btfacollective.org/
RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY
GLAAD: https://glaad.org
The Center: https://gaycenter.org
National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org
Sylvia Rivera Law Project: https://srlp.org
A4TE: https://transequality.org/
Association of Transgender Professionals: https://transgenderprofessionals.org
Ackerman Institute for the Family: https://ackerman.org
New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP): https://avp.org
InterACT Advocates for Intersex Youth: https://interactavocates.org
Lambda Legal: https://lambdalegal.org
Transgender Law Center: https://transgenderlawcenter.org
DestinationTomorrow: https://destinationtomorrow.org
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Mar 27, 2025
1 hr 32 min

Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool – Season 4, Episode
Guest: Raquel Willis – TIME’s Women of the Year
In this special Women’s History Month episode, we welcome back the incredible Raquel Willis, activist, author, and one of TIME’s Women of the Year! This conversation is a full-circle moment as Raquel returns to BFTA —the very space where she shot her book cover, a place that once held the seeds of her vision, now in full bloom.
What to Expect in This Episode:
A Homecoming: Raquel reflects on the power of returning to a space where she once dreamed, now standing in her reality.
Black Trans Women in Community: FQ Crazy Sexy Cool has been a safe space for Black Trans Women to be vulnerable, and this episode is no different.
Deep Conversations: Raquel gets real about her journey in activism, womanhood, fears, joys, and even her dating life nothing is off-limits.
💖 Don’t just listen—support! Grab a copy of Raquel’s book here: https://www.raquelwillis.com/bloom
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Episode Credits:
- Powered by: @btfacollective
- Videographers: @michaeldajour @gatekeeper90
- Sound Mixer:@wavy_bagels
-Audio Produced by Q ( @quannamc)
- Graphics:@semajrasan
- MUA: @thebarbe.effect
- Hairstylist: @judi.dadoll
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Mar 20, 2025
1 hr 15 min

Exploring Identity, Ballroom Culture & Community with Surface Level Podcast*
In this episode of FQ Crazy Sexy Cool, we’re joined by the hosts of Surface Level Podcast, a show that dives deep into conversations about identity, culture, and the complexities of being Black and queer in today’s world.
We discuss:
- The Surface Level Podcast Journey– Why they created the platform and the stories they aim to tell.
- The Energy in Ballroom– Asia, Tabytha, and Tempress share powerful insights on how ballroom culture has shifted, with emphasis now placed on elite status, notoriety, and trophy wins rather than its original foundation of community and self-expression.
- Parents in the Scene – A deep dive into the responsibility of parents in ballroom to nurture and guide the next generation while maintaining the essence of the culture.
- Black Queer Identity in Media – How representation is evolving and where it still falls short.
- Navigating Friendships, Community & Authenticity– Balancing personal truths with societal expectations.
This episode is all about real conversations, honest perspectives, and pushing beyond the surface to uncover the layers of identity, experience, and culture.
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Mar 14, 2025
1 hr 55 min

FQ Crazy Sexy Cool: The Art of Voguing with Icon Feminine Destruction
In this powerful and unapologetic episode of FQ Crazy Sexy Cool we sit down with the one and only Icon Feminine Destruction (@therealfeminined)—a voguing diva, ballroom legend, and an inspiring force of nature.
We dive deep into:
-The Art of Voguing: Understanding the movement, precision, and passion behind every dip, spin, and catwalk.
- Self-Expression and Identity:How voguing has been a vessel for self-discovery and living authentically.
- Detransitioning: A raw and honest conversation about Feminine Destruction’s journey and the lessons learned along the way.
- The Culture That Shapes Us: Celebrating ballroom culture’s impact on mainstream media and the unwavering sense of community it fosters.
You won’t want to miss this candid conversation filled with insight, inspiration, and all things carefree!
Where to Listen
Tune in on the Revolt Podcast Network (@revoltpodcastnetwork) and our exclusive YouTube channel—FQ Crazy Sexy Cool
Follow the hosts :
Asia --- born_blondi3
Tabytha --- tabythagonzalez
Tempress -- 1_am_tempress
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Episode Credits:
- Powered by: @btfacollective
- Videographers: @michaeldajour @gatekeeper90
- Sound Mixer:@wavy_bagels
-Audio Produced by Q ( @quannamc)
- Graphics:@semajrasan
- MUA: @thebarbe.effect
- Hairstylist: @judi.dadoll
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Mar 6, 2025
1 hr 9 min

Special Guest: Stephanie York 007
On the latest episode of FemQueen Crazy Sexy Cool we’re honored to have the legendary Stephanie York in the building! A true fashion icon in the ballroom community, Stephanie shares her incredible journey—how she found her passion for fashion, carved out her unique style, and became a force in the scene.
From the runways of ballroom to the influence of high fashion, Stephanie gets real about self-expression, confidence, and what it takes to make a lasting impact. Tap in for an unfiltered, inspiring conversation!
Listen now and step into the world of a true style visionary.
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Asia Snowden- born_blondi3
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Special Guest: stephanie_york_72
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Feb 27, 2025
1 hr 45 min
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