Real people, Real conversations, and Real connections... bridging the gap between what we see and what we feel. Follow the life of Phoebe where she shares all real life experiences and the lessons learned along the way, including but certainly not limited too her love life, her career, and the relationships in between. 

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<p>Doing a deep dive into flower boy and sharing a date story straight out of a rom com. &nbsp;Learning that you don't have to enjoy being alone, you just have to love yourself. &nbsp;And talking about how I learned to truly put myself first.</p>

Doing a deep dive into flower boy and sharing a date story straight out of a rom com. &nbsp;Learning that you don't have to enjoy being alone, you just have to love yourself. &nbsp;And talking about how I learned to truly put myself first.

am I being courted?

<p>Do you like drama? Well, you are in for a treat this first episode. &nbsp;Feel the Mess is about feeling and sharing the hard things in life and not just the perfect moments, and what is truly one of the messiest part of life? &nbsp;Yup... Dating. &nbsp;I share an outrageous story that I guarantee you will not want to put your phone down and it all starts with sliding into the DM's. &nbsp;But don't worry I do happen to learn from these experiences and I share with you my process, lessons learned, and my thoughts on ending out 2020 with a bang. &nbsp;Oh and a brand new life mantra that I hope you make your own.</p>

Do you like drama? Well, you are in for a treat this first episode. &nbsp;Feel the Mess is about feeling and sharing the hard things in life and not just the perfect moments, and what is truly one of the messiest part of life? &nbsp;Yup... Dating. &nbsp;I share an outrageous story that I guarantee you will not want to put your phone down and it all starts with sliding into the DM's. &nbsp;But don't worry I do happen to learn from these experiences and I share with you my process, lessons learned, and my thoughts on ending out 2020 with a bang. &nbsp;Oh and a brand new life mantra that I hope you make your own.