
In this episode, I sit down with Judy Giovangelo, a grief recovery specialist who has experienced unimaginable loss. After losing her son to suicide, followed by multiple family tragedies, Judy shares how she navigated overwhelming grief and discovered tools that truly helped her heal. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into what actually moves people forward.
We unpack the myths surrounding grief, including the idea that time alone heals and why staying busy can actually keep people stuck. Judy opens up about how even meaningful work, like starting a nonprofit, can sometimes act as a distraction from processing pain. Together, we explore the concept of short-term energy relieving behaviors, unresolved grief, and how unprocessed emotions can impact relationships, mental health, and even the body.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in grief, overwhelmed by loss, or unsure how to move forward, this episode offers hope and clarity. I truly believe this conversation can change how you see grief and what’s possible for your healing. If this resonates, share it with someone who needs it and help us get this message out.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome to the Feel Free Again Podcast
05:03 – Judy’s Story: Loss, Trauma, and Nonprofit Beginnings
10:06 – The Truth About “Sturbs” and Avoiding Grief
15:09 – How Grief Impacts Relationships and Family Dynamics
20:12 – Ben Speaks: Turning Pain Into Purpose
25:15 – Grief Recovery Training and Real Transformation
30:18 – Misdiagnosed Grief and Mental Health Confusion
35:21 – Why Support Groups Don’t Always Work
40:24 – Guilt vs Regret: A Major Breakthrough
45:27 – Final Thoughts: Tools for Healing and Moving Forward
Connect with Judy:
Website: https://www.benspeaks.org/
Email: [email protected]
About the Host:
Cole James, President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares about the Power of Grief Recovery! Cole is dedicating his life to help people with grief. Now, grief is much more than just losing someone. Did you know that? You've probably heard of the Five Stages of Grief, right? Well, this goes much deeper than you think. Let me explain. Everyone has some type of grief in their lives, some haven't yet, but it's part of life. We can't escape it, BUT we can work through it. And you don't have to do it alone. Let's talk about it.
We have trained Grief Recovery Method Specialists, who help heartbroken people, in Europe, Asia, Africa, Australia, the Middle East, Central America, South America, and North America. The Grief Recovery Method Certification Program is taught and available in multiple languages including: English, Spanish, Swedish, Hungarian, Ukrainian, and Russian. Our home office is in the United States and serves English-speaking nations and populations around the world, such as the United Kingdom, Canada, and the Commonwealth Nations. In addition, we have international affiliate offices in Sweden, Australia, Mexico, and Hungary.
Our goal is to help as many people as possible, which is why our books have been translated into over 30 languages including: Spanish, French, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese, Ukrainian, Russian, and many more.
For more information visit: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/
Mar 23
51 min

In this episode of the Feel Free Again podcast, grief recovery specialist Joe Dubowski shares his transformative journey from tech professional to marriage and family therapist. After experiencing the unimaginable loss of his daughter in a shooting, Joe turned to grief recovery methods, which not only helped him process his emotions but also led him to dedicate his life to helping others navigate grief. With over 15 years of experience, Joe offers valuable insights into the often overlooked stages of grief and how we can find healing through focused emotional work.
During the conversation, Joe reveals how retirement can be a powerful grief event that often goes unaddressed, leaving people with unresolved emotions. He shares his own personal experience in approaching this life transition with the tools of grief recovery, showing how completing emotional work allowed him to retire on his terms, with peace and clarity. This episode is an eye-opening discussion for anyone facing a major life change, whether it be retirement, loss, or other significant life shifts.
Tune in as Joe emphasizes the importance of recognizing grief in all aspects of life, even in places where society doesn’t typically acknowledge it. From career changes to personal losses, Joe’s story highlights how grief recovery tools can help individuals complete unfinished emotional business and embrace new chapters in life. If you’re ready to dive deeper into your own grief and learn how to process it effectively, this episode is a must-listen.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:04 - Introduction to Joe Dowski and His Background
02:52 - Joe Reflects on the Loss of His Daughter
06:37 - Transition from Tech to Grief Recovery and Therapy
09:03 - The Impact of Losing a Child and Joe’s Grief Journey
12:11 - How Joe Discovered the Grief Recovery Handbook
15:09 - Joe’s First Experience with the Grief Recovery Method
18:22 - Joe’s Transition into Grief Recovery Work as a Profession
21:48 - Recognizing Grief Beyond the Obvious Losses
25:31 - Joe Talks About Retirement as a Grief Event
28:44 - The Role of Grief in Retirement and Life Transitions
32:15 - How Grief Recovery Tools Helped Joe Complete His Career
36:01 - The Importance of Getting Complete with Past Grief
49:21 - Final Thoughts on Grief, Transition, and the Power of Emotional Healing
About the Host: Cole James, President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares about the Power of Grief Recovery! Cole is dedicating his life to help people with grief. Now, grief is much more than just losing someone. Did you know that? You've probably heard of the Five Stages of Grief, right? Well, this goes much deeper than you think. Let me explain. Everyone has some type of grief in their lives, some haven't yet, but it's part of life. We can't escape it, BUT we can work through it. And you don't have to do it alone. Let's talk about it.
We have trained Grief Recovery Method Specialists, who help heartbroken people, in Europe, Asia, Africa, Australia, the Middle East, Central America, South America, and North America. The Grief Recovery Method Certification Program is taught and available in multiple languages including: English, Spanish, Swedish, Hungarian, Ukrainian, and Russian. Our home office is in the United States and serves English-speaking nations and populations around the world, such as the United Kingdom, Canada, and the Commonwealth Nations. In addition, we have international affiliate offices in Sweden, Australia, Mexico, and Hungary.
Our goal is to help as many people as possible, which is why our books have been translated into over 30 languages including: Spanish, French, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese, Ukrainian, Russian, and many more.
For more information visit: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/
Mar 9
59 min

In this episode of the Feel Free Again podcast, I am joined by Rhys Kiaaina, a grief recovery specialist, who shares his profound personal journey with the Grief Recovery Method. Rhys opens up about his experience with unresolved grief from the loss of his grandmother, the church split that impacted his community, and how the grief recovery process helped him find healing after 18 years of emotional turmoil. He dives into the powerful and transformative process of identifying grief, embracing it, and working through it to find peace.
Rhys explains how the Grief Recovery Method not only helped him recover emotionally from the significant loss of his grandmother but also opened his eyes to the power of healing unresolved grief in other areas of his life. His story of transformation emphasizes the importance of addressing the emotional pain we carry, especially when it remains unresolved for years. We also explore the profound impact of the method on communities, highlighting how it helped Rhys navigate his own grief while also aiding others in their healing journey.
In this candid conversation, Rhys offers advice to those struggling with grief, encouraging them to take action and seek help. Whether it’s grief from personal loss, church splits, or other emotional wounds, this episode provides hope and practical insights for overcoming the emotional pain that can sometimes feel insurmountable. If you’re ready to heal from past hurt and emotional loss, tune in for Rhys' powerful message on how the Grief Recovery Method can help transform your life.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction to Rhys Kiaaina and the Grief Recovery Method
00:43 - Rhys' Journey into Grief Recovery
02:05 - Impact of Church Split on Rhys and His Community
03:18 - Introduction of Grief Recovery Specialist at Rhys' Church
04:50 - Emotional Struggles After Church Split and Unresolved Grief
05:36 - Reflecting on the Loss of a Dear Family Friend
06:10 - Role of Grief Recovery Specialist in Helping the Church Heal
07:42 - Unresolved Childhood Grief and Its Lasting Impact
09:22 - Uncovering Unresolved Grief from the Loss of His Grandmother
12:02 - How Grief Recovery Helps Navigate Emotional Healing 14:50 - The Guilt Rhys Felt After Recommending Chemotherapy for His Grandmother
16:39 - Realizing the Importance of Feeling Emotions to Heal 19:15 - Rhys' Breakthrough: Visiting His Grandmother’s Grave 24:30 - The Power of Emotional Connection in Grief Recovery 58:00 - Rhys' Path to Becoming a Grief Recovery Specialist
Connect with Rhys:
Website 1: https://www.peacewithrhys.com/
Website 2: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/rhys-kiaaina
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhys-kiaaina-795b9793/
Email: [email protected]
About the Host:
Cole James, President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares about the Power of Grief Recovery! Cole is dedicating his life to help people with grief. Now, grief is much more than just losing someone. Did you know that? You've probably heard of the Five Stages of Grief, right? Well, this goes much deeper than you think. Let me explain. Everyone has some type of grief in their lives, some haven't yet, but it's part of life. We can't escape it, BUT we can work through it. And you don't have to do it alone. Let's talk about it.
We have trained Grief Recovery Method Specialists, who help heartbroken people, in Europe, Asia, Africa, Australia, the Middle East, Central America, South America, and North America. The Grief Recovery Method Certification Program is taught and available in multiple languages including: English, Spanish, Swedish, Hungarian, Ukrainian, and Russian. Our home office is in the United States and serves English-speaking nations and populations around the world, such as the United Kingdom, Canada, and the Commonwealth Nations. In addition, we have international affiliate offices in Sweden, Australia, Mexico, and Hungary.
Our goal is to help as many people as possible, which is why our books have been translated into over 30 languages including: Spanish, French, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese, Ukrainian, Russian, and many more.
For more information visit: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/
Feb 23
59 min

Family estrangement is becoming increasingly common in the United States, with nearly one in four Americans now estranged from at least one close family member. In this episode of the Feel Free Again Podcast, I sit down with grief recovery specialist Victoria to have a deeply honest, nuanced conversation about why family estrangement happens, when it may be necessary, and when it may actually be causing more harm than healing.
We talk about unresolved grief, emotional pain, mismatched values, expectations, boundaries, forgiveness, and the cultural shifts that have changed how families relate to one another. I share what I’ve seen after working with hundreds of people in grief recovery — adult children, parents, siblings — all heartbroken, often good people on both sides of the estrangement. We explore how unfinished emotional business, misunderstood boundaries, and unspoken expectations can quietly dismantle relationships, sometimes without either side fully understanding why.
This conversation is not about shaming anyone for choosing distance. It’s about clarity, emotional responsibility, and reclaiming your agency. Grief recovery offers tools to help you assess whether estrangement is protecting you — or whether unresolved pain is driving decisions that don’t align with who you truly are. If you’re navigating family conflict, estrangement, forgiveness, or emotional healing, this episode will challenge you to slow down, reflect, and consider a different path forward.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 — Why Family Estrangement Is Rising
05:12 — Cultural Shifts and the Breakdown of Family Systems 09:47 — Expectations, Boundaries, and Planned Disappointments
14:01 — The Danger of Acting on Incomplete Emotional Pain 18:48 — Taking 1% Responsibility and Reclaiming Power 23:32 — Why Forgiveness Isn’t Weakness
28:23 — When Boundaries Become Emotional Walls
33:56 — The Grief of Parents Estranged From Adult Children 39:46 — Love, Acceptance, and Letting Others Choose
45:12 — How Grief Recovery Helps Heal or Clarify Estrangement
47:12 — Detoxing From Collective Drama Before Family Gatherings
50:47 — Teaching Kids Responsibility for Their Own Feelings 53:26 — Grieving the Child Who Is Growing Up
1:00:55 — How to Know If Estrangement Was the Right Choice
Connect with Victoria:
Website: https://theunleashedheart.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoriavolk/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theunleashedheartllc/
GRM Website: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/victoria-volk
About the Host:
Cole James, President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares about the Power of Grief Recovery! Cole is dedicating his life to help people with grief. Now, grief is much more than just losing someone. Did you know that? You've probably heard of the Five Stages of Grief, right? Well, this goes much deeper than you think. Let me explain. Everyone has some type of grief in their lives, some haven't yet, but it's part of life. We can't escape it, BUT we can work through it. And you don't have to do it alone. Let's talk about it.
We have trained Grief Recovery Method Specialists, who help heartbroken people, in Europe, Asia, Africa, Australia, the Middle East, Central America, South America, and North America. The Grief Recovery Method Certification Program is taught and available in multiple languages including: English, Spanish, Swedish, Hungarian, Ukrainian, and Russian. Our home office is in the United States and serves English-speaking nations and populations around the world, such as the United Kingdom, Canada, and the Commonwealth Nations. In addition, we have international affiliate offices in Sweden, Australia, Mexico, and Hungary.
Our goal is to help as many people as possible, which is why our books have been translated into over 30 languages including: Spanish, French, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese, Ukrainian, Russian, and many more.
For more information visit: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/
Feb 9
1 hr 4 min

In this episode of the Feel Free Again Podcast, I sit down with healing and empowerment coach Jorge Ruiz to talk about something men desperately need, but rarely reach for: grief recovery. We dig into why men often avoid emotional healing, why “I’m fine” becomes a lifestyle, and how unprocessed loss doesn’t just hurt your feelings, it quietly anchors your identity to your past and shapes how you react in the present and fear the future.
Jorge shares powerful stories from working with foster youth, people coming out of prison, and men who’ve learned to survive by numbing instead of processing. We talk identity labels like “addict” or “prisoner,” and how the Grief Recovery Method can help you finally separate who you are from what happened to you. We also go deep on men’s isolation, the suicide reality, and the warrior/protector paradox: real strength isn’t pretending you feel nothing—it’s learning how to feel without being ruled by it.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, reactive, ashamed, disconnected, or like peace always sits just one achievement away… this conversation is for you. I also share how grief recovery impacts marriage and fatherhood, and Jorge breaks down his FOCUS framework (Faith Overcomes Challenges Unleashes Success) plus why none of this works well until the heart gets healed first. If you know a man who needs this, please share it. It might be the conversation that helps him finally start healing.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 — Why Feeling “Stuck” Happens to Strong People
05:54 — Meet Ezra Stanton: The Cost of Staying in Quicksand
11:48 — The Hidden Patterns That Keep Men Stalled
17:42 — How to Tell If You’re Numb vs. Actually “Okay”
23:36 — The Moment You Realize It’s Not Just Stress
29:30 — The Lie of Self-Sufficiency (And Why It Backfires)
35:24 — Naming the Real Problem Without Shame
41:18 — The Inner Story Driving Your Outer Life
47:12 — Why Willpower Fails (Even for Disciplined Men)
53:06 — Rebuilding Clarity When You Can’t Trust Your Feelings
59:00 — The Emotional Weight You Didn’t Know You Were Carrying 01:04:54 — What Healing Actually Looks Like in Real Life
01:10:48 — Breaking the Cycle: Triggers, Reactions, and Repair
01:16:42 — Identity: Who You Become After Loss and Change
01:22:36 — Relationships Under Pressure: How Men Pull Away
01:28:30 — The Turning Point: Doing the Work That Works
01:34:24 — Practical Tools to Get Unstuck This Week
01:40:18 — What Freedom Feels Like (And Why It’s Quiet at First) 01:46:12 — The Long Game: Staying Free, Not Just Getting Free 01:52:08 — Final Charge: The Next Step for Men Ready to Move
Connect With Jorge:
Email: [email protected]
Website: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/jorge-ruiz
Cole James, President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares about the Power of Grief Recovery! Cole is dedicating his life to help people with grief. Now, grief is much more than just losing someone. Did you know that? You've probably heard of the Five Stages of Grief, right? Well, this goes much deeper than you think. Let me explain. Everyone has some type of grief in their lives, some haven't yet, but it's part of life. We can't escape it, BUT we can work through it. And you don't have to do it alone. Let's talk about it.
We have trained Grief Recovery Method Specialists, who help heartbroken people, in Europe, Asia, Africa, Australia, the Middle East, Central America, South America, and North America. The Grief Recovery Method Certification Program is taught and available in multiple languages including: English, Spanish, Swedish, Hungarian, Ukrainian, and Russian. Our home office is in the United States and serves English-speaking nations and populations around the world, such as the United Kingdom, Canada, and the Commonwealth Nations. In addition, we have international affiliate offices in Sweden, Australia, Mexico, and Hungary.
Our goal is to help as many people as possible, which is why our books have been translated into over 30 languages including: Spanish, French, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese, Ukrainian, Russian, and many more.
For more information visit: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/
Jan 26
1 hr 52 min

Many of us were taught to handle grief in one of two ways: ignore it and hope it fades, or simply "be strong" and move on. But if I'm being honest, that approach doesn't heal—it just buries the pain.
In this episode, Part 2 with grief recovery specialist Kelli Sheumaker, we dive into the complexities of grief and the different ways people cope with loss. We explore the importance of acknowledging grief rather than pushing it aside, the ripple effects of unresolved grief on relationships and physical health, and the transformative power of the grief recovery method. This conversation highlights that healing requires action and that grief recovery is an ongoing journey—not just about processing loss but about rediscovering joy and connection.
We go beyond the typical association of grief with death. We discuss grief in living relationships—marriage, parenting, friendships—and the challenging dynamics where the relationship continues, but the pain endures. We also examine how unspoken expectations lead to disappointment, how unresolved grief can distort our memories of a person, and why getting accurate about a relationship—the good, the bad, and the unfinished—can restore clarity and empower us to make informed choices.
And yes, we talk about the body. Not as a guilt trip or a simple "grief causes everything," but as an invitation to consider the impact of years of unprocessed emotional pain on your nervous system, sleep, health, and how you show up for the people you love. If you've ever thought, “I should be over this by now,” this conversation is for you.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 — Welcome + What Feel Free Again Is About
01:50 — The Two Paths: Avoiding Grief vs Healing It
04:51 — Getting Unstuck: Safe Space + Tools That Actually Work
09:53 — The Relationship Graph: How Grief Distorts Memory (and How to Get Accurate)
16:51 — Expectations = Planned Disappointments (Marriage + Living Relationships)
21:34 — The Ripple Effect: How Unresolved Grief Impacts Everyone Around You
26:59 — Grief in the Body: Sleep, Pain, Autoimmune, and Physical Symptoms
35:50 — Chronic Illness Grief: Mourning the Life You Expected
40:58 — Core Work First, Then Day-to-Day Maintenance Tools
46:08 — How to Work With Kelli + Final Takeaways + Closing
Connect with Kelli:
Website 1: www.renewedhopegriefrecovery.com
Website 2: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/kelli-sheumaker
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/renewedhopegriefrecovery/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/renewedhopegriefrecovery
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@renewedhopegriefrecovery
Cole James, President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares about the Power of Grief Recovery! Cole is dedicating his life to help people with grief. Now, grief is much more than just losing someone. Did you know that? You've probably heard of the Five Stages of Grief, right? Well, this goes much deeper than you think. Let me explain. Everyone has some type of grief in their lives, some haven't yet, but it's part of life. We can't escape it, BUT we can work through it. And you don't have to do it alone. Let's talk about it.
We have trained Grief Recovery Method Specialists, who help heartbroken people, in Europe, Asia, Africa, Australia, the Middle East, Central America, South America, and North America. The Grief Recovery Method Certification Program is taught and available in multiple languages including: English, Spanish, Swedish, Hungarian, Ukrainian, and Russian. Our home office is in the United States and serves English-speaking nations and populations around the world, such as the United Kingdom, Canada, and the Commonwealth Nations. In addition, we have international affiliate offices in Sweden, Australia, Mexico, and Hungary.
Our goal is to help as many people as possible, which is why our books have been translated into over 30 languages including: Spanish, French, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese, Ukrainian, Russian, and many more.
For more information visit: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/
#mentalhealth #grief #depression #sad
Jan 12
49 min

In today’s episode of the Feel Free Again Podcast, I’m joined again by Tammy Adams. This is her second time on the show, and I’m grateful we get to keep building on the ground we covered last time. In this conversation, we’re diving into something that’s breaking hearts everywhere: how we’ve forgotten how to love each other through differences, and how families are getting fractured, ghosted, and cut off over “outside topics” that were never supposed to cost us our relationships.
We talk about how belief systems form early, why certain phrases can trigger massive reactions, and the powerful shift from “You made me feel” to “When you said/did ___, I felt ___.” Tammy brings her early childhood education background into the conversation, and we connect the dots between nervous system overwhelm, social media saturation, unresolved grief, and why so many people live in defense mode. We also get real about how unresolved emotions often show up as anger, especially for men and what it looks like to do the inner work that gives you your peace (and your relationships) back.
If you’re a Grief Recovery Specialist (or considering the work), we also speak directly to the importance of creating safety and staying anchored in the mission: helping broken hearts heal without bringing our personal “rightness” into the room. If this episode helps you, please share it, subscribe, and leave a review so more people can find these tools and find their way back to connection.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 - Tammy Adams Returns: A Deeper Conversation on Healing Relationships
01:35 - The Divide Is Breaking Families (And We Need Better Tools)
05:20 - How Childhood Beliefs Get Wired and Become Adult Triggers
10:55 - “You Made Me Feel” vs “I Felt”: The Language That Restores Power 14:40 - Social Media, iPads, and Why Beliefs Form Earlier Than We Think 17:50 - The “One-Hour Debate” Rule: Staying Family While Disagreeing
22:55 - You’re Not a Wind-Up Toy: Owning Your Emotional Responses
27:45 - When Unresolved Grief Shows Up as Anger (Tammy’s Real Story) 37:50 - People-Pleasing, Control, and Trauma Responses in Conflict
40:14 - Why Constant Global News Keeps Us Triggered and Divided
52:45 - Message to Specialists: Create Safety, Stay in Your Lane, Help the Heart Heal
Cole James, President of the Grief Recovery Institute, shares about the Power of Grief Recovery! Cole is dedicating his life to help people with grief. Now, grief is much more than just losing someone. Did you know that? You've probably heard of the Five Stages of Grief, right? Well, this goes much deeper than you think. Let me explain. Everyone has some type of grief in their lives, some haven't yet, but it's part of life. We can't escape it, BUT we can work through it. And you don't have to do it alone. Let's talk about it.
We have trained Grief Recovery Method Specialists, who help heartbroken people, in Europe, Asia, Africa, Australia, the Middle East, Central America, South America, and North America. The Grief Recovery Method Certification Program is taught and available in multiple languages including: English, Spanish, Swedish, Hungarian, Ukrainian, and Russian. Our home office is in the United States and serves English-speaking nations and populations around the world, such as the United Kingdom, Canada, and the Commonwealth Nations. In addition, we have international affiliate offices in Sweden, Australia, Mexico, and Hungary.
Our goal is to help as many people as possible, which is why our books have been translated into over 30 languages including: Spanish, French, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese, Ukrainian, Russian, and many more.
For more information visit: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/
#mentalhealth #grief #depression #sad
Dec 29, 2025
1 hr

Connect with Victoria Volk:
Website: www.theunleashedheart.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/theunleashedheart
As the host of the Feel Free Again Podcast, I’ve had the privilege of hearing countless stories of loss and restoration — but few moved me like my conversation with Victoria Volk, a grief recovery specialist and mother of three from rural North Dakota. In this episode, we explore what it really means to confront decades of buried pain and how doing so can restore connection, compassion, and freedom.
Victoria opens up about losing her father at age 8, enduring abuse, and spending 30 years trying to outrun grief through achievement, distraction, and numbing. Her breaking point led her to the Grief Recovery Method, which completely changed her life — and even saved her relationship with her mother. She shares how healing her heart didn’t require others to change, but instead invited empathy, forgiveness, and peace that rippled through her entire family.
We also talk about how grief recovery helps parents and children communicate more openly, why boundaries create safety, and what happens when anger is finally understood instead of suppressed. If you’ve ever lost someone, faced trauma, or felt emotionally stuck, this episode will remind you that you can’t heal what you won’t feel — and that freedom is closer than you think.
⏱️ Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & Welcome to the Feel Free Again Podcast
01:05 – Meet Victoria Volk: Finding Grief Recovery After 30 Years
04:56 – The Midlife Unraveling: Identity, Motherhood & Burnout
06:50 – Discovering the Grief Recovery Method & Choosing Healing
10:05 – Why You Can’t Heal Alone: The Power of Safe Spaces
16:42 – Healing the Relationship with Her Mother Through Compassion
23:04 – Boundaries, Body Awareness & Feeling Safe Again
31:02 – Teaching Kids Emotional Honesty & Healthy Anger
45:00 – Victoria’s Son’s Accident: How Grief Tools Saved Their Family
1:00:07 – Grief Is Everywhere: Why the World Needs This Work
Nov 17, 2025
1 hr 8 min

Connect with Cindy:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorCindyCipriani/
Website: https://www.cindycipriani.com/
Contact: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/cindy-cipriani-sewell-nj/223227
Today’s conversation moved me deeply. I sat down with Cindy Cipriani, an emotional wellness coach and grief recovery specialist, whose story of loss, healing, and redemption is nothing short of powerful. From being excommunicated by her faith community and surviving domestic abuse, to finding new purpose through the Grief Recovery Method, Cindy’s testimony shows how emotional healing is possible — no matter your past.
Cindy shares how grief can hide in plain sight — not just through death or divorce, but through lost dreams, childhood beliefs, or even fictional characters who brought comfort during hard times. We explore how to process those emotions instead of carrying them silently for years, and why forgiveness isn’t about condoning pain but releasing it.
This episode is for anyone who has ever felt unseen in their grief or unsure where to start healing. You’ll learn about the five C’s of emotional wellness, how to reconnect with who you truly are, and why grief recovery is more than therapy — it’s a path to freedom. If this conversation resonates, please share it with someone who needs hope today.
Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome to the Feel Free Again Podcast
01:03 – Cindy’s Story: From Religious Trauma to Renewal
02:07 – Surviving Loss, Isolation, and a Suicide Attempt
04:13 – The Turning Point: Discovering the Grief Recovery Method
08:00 – Can You Grieve Someone You’ve Never Met?
15:08 – How the Grief Recovery Process Actually Works
21:23 – The Five C’s of Emotional Wellness Explained
33:04 – Rebuilding Identity After Loss and Forgiveness
44:08 – How Grief Recovery Changes Families and Workplaces
49:20 – Where to Find Cindy’s Books & How to Start Your Own Healing Journey
Nov 3, 2025
53 min

In this episode of the Feel Free Again Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Andrea Szegedi, a medical doctor, grief recovery specialist, and founder of a clinic in Budapest, Hungary. Andrea’s story is both heartbreaking and deeply inspiring — after losing her third son, she began searching for answers that science, logic, and faith alone couldn’t provide. What she discovered was that grief isn’t just emotional — it’s cellular. It lives in the body, and true recovery means reconnecting the mind, body, and heart.
Connect with Dr. Szegedi: https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/andrea-szegedi-md
Throughout our conversation, Dr. Andrea Szegedi shares how the Grief Recovery Method gave her stability in the chaos of loss, helping her rebuild her life from the inside out. She opens up about how grief physically affected her body, why expression is the opposite of depression, and how movement, music, and writing became sacred tools for healing. From crawling on the floor to completing two half-marathons, her journey is proof that emotional recovery leads to physical restoration.
We also talk about the missing education around grief, how children naturally process loss, and why modern medicine must integrate emotional healing with physical care. Andrea now uses her platform to help parents, cancer patients, and grievers around the world find peace, laughter, and hope again. Whether you’re grieving a loved one, your health, or simply trying to understand your emotions — this conversation will help you reconnect with the part of yourself that still believes in wholeness.
Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome & Introduction to Dr. Andrea Szegedi
03:00 – Losing a Child and the Birth of a Calling
06:00 – Why Logic and Faith Aren’t Enough to Heal Grief
10:00 – Understanding Grief as an Emotional Process
13:00 – The Pyramid of Grief and Finding Stability
17:00 – How Movement, Crying, and Singing Healed Her Body
23:00 – Laughter and Light Returning After Loss
31:00 – Teaching Children to Process Grief Naturally
40:00 – Integrating Medicine and Grief Recovery in Healthcare
55:00 – The Biology of Trauma and Path to Wholeness
Oct 20, 2025
1 hr
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