F*ck N*ce
F*ck N*ce
F*ck N*ce
Welcome to Fuck Nice - the podcast all about showing up for ourselves and others - curiously, compassionately, authentically and intentionally. This is a podcast in which two friends, who are also therapists, use their own relationship to teach, model, and explore relational self-awareness and all sorts of tools useful for humans just trying to make it in the world. Check us out on instagram: fck_nice_pod
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Apr 11, 2024
1 min
Enneagram Type 9- The Peacekeeper
Listen and learn about what makes type 9’s tick and specific nuances such as what is the difference between a peacemaker and peacekeeper. Resources:Tammy SollenbergerJoan RyanBeatrice Chestnut booksThe wisdom of the EnneagramThe spiritual dimension of the enneagram The Honest Enneagramhttps://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-vices-and-virtues/https://cpenneagram.com/subtypesGifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#enneagram #typenine#peacekeeper#peacemaker
Feb 20, 2024
1 hr 32 min
Minisode: Apology Languages
In today's minisode we go over Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas' apology languages. We may not love everything about the creators, but we are big believers that any time we have more language around things it helps us to grow. Learn about the different ways apologies can sound and why "I am sorry" isn't an apology. https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/apology-languageThe Five Apology Languages by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas.#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#apologylanguage#apology#lovelanguage
Feb 5, 2024
29 min
Enneagram Type 1- The Perfectionist
Welcome to our enneagram episode about Type One's. Chelsea is a one so she is pumped to share with you guys! Take a listen to learn about the type that wants desperately to be good and to have control and order to resist chaos. We all may relate to the common feature of one's, a harsh inner critic. So what makes that different in a type one? Listen to find out!Resources:Tammy SollenbergerJoan RyanBeatrice Chestnut booksThe wisdom of the EnneagramThe spiritual dimension of the enneagram The Honest Enneagramhttps://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-vices-and-virtues/https://cpenneagram.com/subtypesGifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#enneagram #typeone#reformer#perfectionist
Jan 22, 2024
1 hr 37 min
Minisode: BRAVING principles for trust
Join us as we discuss Brene Brown's BRAVING acronym which acts as a guideline for breaking down different aspects of trusting and safe relationships. We discuss how we use this as a tool personally and in our work.Resources:Brene Brown's "Braving The Wilderness"Brene Brown's "Dare to Lead"#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#trust#BRAVING#integrity
Jan 1, 2024
29 min
Enneagram type 2- The Helper
This episode focuses on enneagram type two's. Perhaps our greatest number of listener questions yet! Find out all about enneagram two's including how to support them in voicing and taking care of their own needs, how to approach a type two boss in the workplace, and best romantic pairings (heads up, it's not a clear cut answer). While some types can be a bit more difficult to understand how all the parts come together, two's are pretty clearly about meeting the needs of others so that their needs can be met. Resources:Tammy SollenbergerJoan RyanBeatrice Chestnut booksThe wisdom of the EnneagramThe spiritual dimension of the enneagram The Honest Enneagramhttps://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-vices-and-virtues/https://cpenneagram.com/subtypesGifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#enneagram #typetwo#helper#lover
Dec 18, 2023
1 hr 39 min
Enneagram type 3- The Performer
Come learn about type 3’s, the performers or achievers. Our longest episode yet. It’s not a competition but if it was the 3’s would be very happy to win.Resources:Tammy SollenbergerJoan RyanBeatrice Chestnut booksThe wisdom of the EnneagramThe spiritual dimension of the enneagram The Honest Enneagramhttps://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-vices-and-virtues/https://cpenneagram.com/subtypesGifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#enneagram #typethree#performer#achiever
Nov 6, 2023
1 hr 41 min
Enneagram type 4- The Romantic
Back from a break for our second season! In the fourth Enneagram deep dive episode, Heather and Chelsea focus on the Romantics/Individualists (Enneagram type 4).  Learn about type 4’s, how Chelsea becomes 4ish in stress as a 1, and why the world as it currently exists is not always set up to allow 4’s to be their authentic selves. Resources:Tammy SollenbergerJoan RyanBeatrice Chestnut booksThe wisdom of the EnneagramThe spiritual dimension of the enneagram The Honest Enneagramhttps://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-vices-and-virtues/Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#enneagram #typefour#romantic#individualist
Sep 17, 2023
1 hr 28 min
Enneagram Type 5- The Investigator
In the third Enneagram episode, Heather and Chelsea focus on the "Investigators" (Enneagram type 5). Learn about this often direct and curious type that is motivated by being competent and not having needs. Resources:Tammy SollenbergerJoan RyanBeatrice Chestnut booksThe wisdom of the EnneagramThe spiritual dimension of the enneagram The Honest Enneagramhttps://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-vices-and-virtues/#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#enneagram #typefive#investigator#observer#analyst
Jul 17, 2023
1 hr 30 min
Enneagram type 6- The Loyalist
Heather and Chelsea spend an episode on enneagram type 6’s. Find out why Heather loves 6’s, what makes 6 and 1’s similar and different when it comes to “standards” and hear answers to questions from Instagram about 6’s.Resources:Tammy SollenbergerJoan RyanBeatrice Chestnut booksThe wisdom of the EnneagramThe spiritual dimension of the enneagram The Honest Enneagramhttps://enneagramexplained.com/enneagram-vices-and-virtues/#indygrammers#podcast#relationalselfawareness#boundaries#communication#selfawareness#therapistsofinstagram#relationships #fucknice#enneagram #typesix#loyalist#skeptic
Jun 27, 2023
1 hr 23 min
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