Fathering Our Future
Fathering Our Future
Anthony Vandagriff
Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads devoted to helping men love being dads, helping dads become better dads every day, and building a community of dads so that together we can better father our future. Fatherhood is a rewarding privilege but it is also the greatest challenge. Fortunately, we do not have to figure it all out ourselves and do it alone. This podcast explores various topics relating to fatherhood and provides logical, Biblical, and communal guidance to help you start asking the right questions. The world needs great fathers today and the future needs people of integrity and compassion. We are fathering those people, we are fathering our future.
Turning Your Losses Into Wins
We all mess up, make mistakes, and fail. As much as we try not to, it is inevitable. Knowing that we are going to make mistakes, the most important thing for us is to know what to do with those mistakes. Recently, I had a bad day as a dad. I want to share some details from that day and what I do with failures. We cannot run from them. We must face them because when we face them, we have an opportunity to learn and grow.
Mar 6, 2023
25 min
Your Secret To Maximizing Your Fatherhood: Your Marriage
As a dad, I understand how easy it is to get tied up in your kids. Our kids are dependent upon us and they require our focused attention. We can have the tendency to get so caught up in being a dad that we forget about the other person in our family, our wife. As leaders in our home, we cannot allow our kids to get in the way of our marriage. If we understand God's design for marriage, we will become better men and better fathers, but we have to make sure we value our wives above our kids.
Feb 27, 2023
19 min
Interview with Lenora Edwards | Building Better Speech
Communication is vital in life. It is a means of building trust and trust gives us a foundation for relationship. Lenora Edwards, a Speech Language Pathologist, joins me to talk about addressing issues in our children's speech, as well as providing some insight on how we can improve our own.
Feb 20, 2023
52 min
Interview with Doug Norvell | Reuniting With My Dad
Everyone loves a good story of hope, but those stories usually start out pretty rough. Doug Norvell grew up not knowing his biological father. He struggled with feelings of abandonment and the idea that he was not loved. However, he still felt the need to find his dad. Doug shares his story on the podcast and how reuniting with his dad was one of the greatest things that happened to him.
Feb 13, 2023
51 min
Stop Chasing The Outcome
We function in a world of societal norms. Too many people see the things they are supposed to do or supposed to become and then fixate on those things. We chase the outcome with no context or understanding of the process. When people pursue the outcome, circumventing the process, they never arrive at the outcome.  Just because you are "technically" a dad does not mean you get to bypass the process. The process we need to obsess over is relationship. Without a relationship with your kids, you aren't truly a dad. It is time for us to stop chasing the outcome, the status quo, and to start focusing on relationship. www.fatheringourfuture.com
Feb 6, 2023
22 min
Be An Initiator
God is the greatest example we as dads can follow. I recently realized that God is an initiator. He does things first and so should we. I want to encourage you to be an initiator and give you a few areas you need to make sure you are making the first steps in.
Jan 30, 2023
19 min
What Do You Love?
It can be easy to think you get to love what you want and the impact of that is isolated to you. Unfortunately, that is wrong. What you love matters, especially for your kids. I learned a great lesson through a challenging moment in life that showed me how important it is to wisely choose what I love. That's what I want to share with you.
Jan 23, 2023
18 min
Interview with Ryan O’Neil | Traveling with Kids
Traveling with kids can be chaotic and a true test of your patience. Thankfully, there are a number of things you can do to make traveling with kids easier and more desirable. My friend, Ryan O'Neil, shares his traveling expertise, hacks, and the reason why he wants to travel so much with his kids.
Jan 16, 2023
50 min
No Communication = No Relationship
I want us to have a proper understanding of the power and value of communication. If we can obtain that, we will strive to learn how to foster good communication and adopt practices that will help us communicate better as dads. Today, I'm sharing one simple practice I have when it comes to communicating with my kids that is a game changer. Plus, I am giving you some hard facts about communication that we all need to remember.
Jan 9, 2023
19 min
Fatherhood Fundamentals Part 2
In order to succeed as fathers, we need to gain a mastery of the basics. In addition to communication and grace, there are two other basics we must be disciplined about. We have an opportunity to radically impact the future and we can do it by diligently practicing the basics.
Jan 2, 2023
18 min
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