Father and Joe
Father and Joe
Father Boniface Hicks and Joseph Rockey Jr
Father and Joe is a podcast series of a continuing conversation about struggles and successes of being close to God. Father Boniface provides spiritual direction through problems of daily life. According to statistics of the average American's church habits - We went to church when we were forced to but somewhere along the way, we drifted away. The ultimate goal of this podcast is to help us get back to church, regardless of what faith you hold, and create a stronger union with God.
Father and Joe E466: The Golden Rule Isn’t Enough — “Love One Another as I Have Love You”
Most of us grew up with the Golden Rule: “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” It’s simple, it’s memorable, and it works at a basic level. But as adults, Joe Rockey has been noticing a hard truth: that rule can fail fast in real relationships—because people value different things, receive care differently, and can completely miss a gesture that would have meant the world to you. So Joe and Father Boniface Hicks press into the upgrade Jesus gives at the Last Supper: “Love one another...
Jun 16
17 min
Father and Joe E465: Building a Relationship With the Holy Spirit — The “Third Point” That Connects You to God
Many Catholics can describe their relationship with Jesus and God the Father—but feel vague when it comes to the Holy Spirit. In this episode, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks address that gap head-on: the Holy Spirit is not an “it,” but a Person, and learning to relate to Him changes how you pray, discern, and grow. Through the lens of relationships—with self, with others, and under God—they show how the Holy Spirit quietly does what we cannot: transforms us day by day into Christlikenes...
Jun 9
17 min
Father and Joe E464: Continual Conversion — You’re Not “Done” After the Sacraments
A common trap in the Christian life is the “graduation mindset”: I got baptized, received First Communion, got confirmed… I’m good. Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks argue that this is not only false—it quietly starves your soul. This episode is a practical invitation and blueprint for continual conversion: ongoing reaffirmation with Jesus that turns faith from a box you checked into a life you live. Father lays out a simple foundation that makes growth sustainable: Sunday Mass, monthly c...
Jun 2
17 min
Father and Joe E463: Abundance Mindset — Stop Taking God’s Gifts for Granted and Start Using Them
Abundance isn’t a business cliché—it’s a spiritual reality most of us underuse. In this episode, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks unpack an “abundance mindset” through the lens of faith: the human gifts we notice (marriage, family, friendships) and the supernatural riches we often forget (baptismal identity, forgiveness, Mass, the Church as family, communion with the saints). The question isn’t whether God gives abundantly. The question is whether we practice receiving those gifts—and bui...
May 26
16 min
Father and Joe E462: Riches, Talents, and Trust — Money Isn’t the Sin, Self-Reliance Is
A real client conversation turns into a real Gospel question: if a Christian builds something that genuinely helps people—and it becomes financially successful—how do you reconcile that with Jesus’ warning that it’s hard for the rich to enter the Kingdom? Joe Rockey brings the tension to Father Boniface Hicks and pressure-tests the advice he gave: Jesus didn’t condemn “business” when He flipped the tables; the deeper issue was blocking outsiders from worship. And the parable of the talents po...
May 19
21 min
Father and Joe E461: “The Lord Is My Shepherd” — Desire, Provision, and the Messy Gift of Kids at Mass
A single Psalm line can mess with your head—in a good way. Joe Rockey brings a phrase from the Good Shepherd Mass that sounds impossible on first hearing: “The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I shall want.” Joe’s honest reaction is simple: I still want things… like a burger. So what is the Church actually saying here? Father Boniface Hicks grounds it in Psalm 23’s meaning: the Lord provides for our needs—He doesn’t leave us destitute or deprived. Desire isn’t the enemy; it’s essential. ...
May 12
22 min
Father and Joe E460: Faith Isn’t an Aquarium — Stop “Using” People and Start Witnessing With Love
It’s easy to treat faith like an aquarium: you can see it “over there,” but it doesn’t touch real life on your side of the glass. Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks push back hard on that. In this episode, they connect Easter-season love to a daily-life obstacle that quietly blocks evangelization and honest relationships: the fear of **manipulating people** or being manipulated. Joe explains why uncomfortable conversations (including talking about Jesus) often trigger something old in us—ea...
May 5
19 min
Father and Joe E459: A Picture of Heaven — Perfect Love, Total Vulnerability, and Breaking Our Hidden Defenses
Heaven is hard to picture because everything in us is trained to see life through “today.” In this episode, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks try to imagine what eternal life in God’s love would actually be like—and why that vision matters right now. Father shares how funerals naturally force the question: where are we headed, what are we made for, and why do we settle for compromised relationships that stay “safe” but never become truly trusting, vulnerable, or healed? Using a strong ima...
Apr 28
19 min
Father and Joe E458: Love Doesn’t Pay the Bills — But It Powers Everything That Does
What do you do when faith says “love wins,” but real life says “the mortgage is due”? In this episode, Joe Rockey challenges a common tension: love can’t be deposited in a bank account—so how is “the way of love” actually practical? Father Boniface Hicks responds by reframing the claim: love may not show up on a ledger, but it animates the person who can show up, endure, work, persevere, and make hard choices with integrity. Without love, we “die before we die”—we quit internally long before ...
Apr 21
16 min
Father and Joe E457: When the Apostles Scattered — Fear, Trauma, Judas, and Why Jesus Loved Them Anyway
After Easter, it’s easy to forget what the Passion felt like from the inside. In this episode, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks step back into the apostles’ experience: men from wildly different backgrounds who watched miracles, trusted the mission, and still scattered in fear when Jesus was arrested. Joe names the real-life parallel: we can believe in something—and still not react the way an outside observer thinks we “should,” then carry guilt, confusion, and self-questioning afterward....
Apr 14
24 min
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