-23 states, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and self-control. Before you start dating, ask yourself these questions. Can you express your feelings to one another? Who is your ideal partner? What kind of good or bad habits can you live within a partner? What type of person are you in a relationship? Are you 3-dimensional? Example: To be 3-dimensional, you need to be the same person you were before the relationship. Often, people get excited because they think they found their match. But often people don't work on themselves BEFORE they decide “it’s time to date!”