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Need help? Shoot me a text!People Pleasing is f**king you up way more than you think.In this episode, John Oakes explores the concept of people pleasing, revealing that it is often not about making others happy but a survival mechanism rooted in childhood. He discusses how this behavior can significantly affect mental health, weight loss goals, and overall wellbeing. Through the example of a character named Cindy, John illustrates the consequences of prioritizing others over oneself and offers steps to reclaim personal freedom and assertiveness. He also shares insights into the deep-rooted fears that drive people pleasing and provides guidance on how to begin breaking free from these patterns.00:00 Introduction to People Pleasing00:45 Personal Story and Mission01:34 Understanding People Pleasing and Weight Struggles04:22 The Case of Cindy: A People Pleaser's Life14:43 Childhood Roots of People Pleasing19:19 The Impact of People Pleasing in Adulthood23:45 Understanding the Nature of Control and People Pleasing24:17 Steps to Break Free from People Pleasing27:06 Facing Your Fears and Setting Boundaries29:45 The Importance of Self-Care and Personal Wellbeing33:50 Accepting Your Reality and Needs38:45 The Journey to Emotional Freedom40:51 Conclusion and Coaching Information Buy my book! 75 EASY: the ultimate challenge for personal growthAmazon USUKCAAUWeight loss coaching - Join the Weight Loss Freedom Academy todayJoin the free "Lose Weight with John" communityTo inquire about 1 -1 Coaching with John - email John at [email protected] Check out the EASY WAY OUT Blog/Newsletter siteWatch the Easy Way Out on Youtube