When we don't address and resolve conflict in a healthy way that respects everyone involved, misplaced anger almost always results. As human beings, when we keep suppressing the emotions around unresolved conflict pressure builds; over time we become more and more volatile. Eventually a mere spark in the area of our resentment can set off a raging fire of anger.

When we want to truly resolve conflicts so that relationships improve and people work together in a mutually spirit respecting way we must operate for our heart in a spiritual respecting manner.

Useful Book reference:
Have a Nice Conflict: How to Find Success and Satisfaction in the Most Unlikely Places, Tim Scudder. ASIN ‏ : ‎ B006N7RMLO