How the f#ck do these people keep finding me? This week on DMMCH, we're getting into the two schools of clap back: the Ginja-Ninja full Chinatown way — blunt, immediate, and leaving zero room for interpretation — versus Jason's "chill like a monk" way of dealing with idiots. As much as we want to spread kindness, some people do deserve a reminder of how to behave better.This week I'm digging into a few of my most memorable (and deeply satisfying) clap back moments — real ones, real people, no regrets. We're talking the art of the quick response, when silence is actually the weapon, and why Jason's zen approach works for him but would never survive a day in the Grace inbox.For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

People get offended by everything these days—and we’re over it. In today’s episode of DMMCH, we’re discussing why direct communication is being labeled as "rude" and how to find the middle ground when the world feels like it’s becoming increasingly fragile. We’re talking about the cultural clash of directness, the struggle of being "too blunt" in a "soft" society, and how to stop catering to everyone else’s fragility. If you’re tired of the constant eggshell-walking, hit play.What’s your take? Are we too sensitive, or has the world just changed? DM us your thoughts or drop a comment on our socials—we want to hear your side.For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

Let’s be real: our communication skills have hit rock bottom. We are currently living through the Great Email/Text/DM Apocalypse, where we’re expected to be available 24/7, yet somehow, nobody actually knows how to have a conversation anymore.In this episode, we’re calling out the digital madness. We’re breaking down the massive generational gap—from the Gen X “I’ll get to it when I get to it” cool, to the Millennial “I’m experiencing a full-blown existential crisis because you left me on read,” all the way to the Gen Z/Alpha approach where if it isn’t a 15-second video, it basically didn’t happen.When did we decide that voice notes and cryptic emojis were better than just hearing a human voice? If your house is on fire, pick up the damn phone and call. If not? Then wait your turn. Jason and I also discuss how to set boundaries and stop being a slave to your inbox and why "I'll reply when I'm good and ready" is the most underrated power move of 2026. Let's create more in-person connection people! This ain't Covid era anymore.For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

Don't let your age define you people! As a huge Lewis Hamilton fan for many years, I’m so thrilled to celebrate his first Formula One Grand Prix win with the world's most iconic team, Scuderia Ferrari. At 41, driving for Ferrari in his second season, Lewis just gave the middle finger to every cynic who said he was "washed up." If the 2025 season was a dumpster fire, Spain was the glorious and EPIC revenge.This week on DMMCH, we’re unpacking the only thing that matters: why do people love to put an expiry date on our lives? Why are we so obsessed with being "past it" when, clearly, we’re just getting started? We’re talking about the art of ignoring the "you’re too old/too much/too ambitious" noise and why your self-talk needs to be sharper than a Formula 1 turn.But it’s not just about the track. It’s about the people standing on the sidelines—the people who clap for you but are secretly praying you hit a wall. We’re doing a brutal audit of your inner circle, calling out the fake people, and learning how to protect your energy like it’s a championship trophy. We’re tapping into the Stoic side of self-belief—because if you aren't backing yourself, who the hell is?In segment 'What Would Grace Do?' (replacing Ginja Ninja Combat Zone) Another listener write-in, another round of our highly unprofessional, unsolicited, and absolutely necessary advice. Keep'em coming peeps!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

If you aren’t being called a “diva” or “difficult” at least once a week, are you even doing it right?This week on DMMCH, we’re weaponising the ‘Asian Discount.’ We’re moving past the supermarket haggling and looking at the real reason we do it: because you deserve what you’re asking for, and the world is counting on you to be too embarrassed to demand it.We’re peeling back the layers on why women are “difficult” for knowing their worth, while men are just “good negotiators.” We’re here to say "Sorry NOT Sorry". We’re teaching you how to treat rejection like a common cold—unpleasant for a second but it won’t kill you, and you definitely shouldn't let it stop you from getting what you want.Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

EP 9. Welcome to the cultural interrogation room. This episode, we are unpacking the endless cycle of family grilling. Why does reaching a certain age mean your aunties get a free pass to ask about your uterus, your bank account, and your relationship status? We dive into the heavy pressure to stay quiet just to 'keep the peace,' and share actual, practical ways to reject the traditional norm without being labeled the 'ungrateful child.' Because honestly? It’s none of their bloody business. Grab a matcha—we’re unlocking the scripts to shutting down the interrogation, respectfully...kinda!Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

We’ve all done it. You keep holding the door open for someone just because you have ten to thirty years of history together or because you share the same last name. But let’s get real: a long timeline or a bloodline isn’t a lifetime pass to wreck your mental health. It’s time to start issuing some "Access Denied" notices.In this episode, Jason and I are talking about how to spot the ultimate energy vampires, how to spot a narcissist, and master the art of the being the best door biatch.  You don’t always have to block them completely—you just need to take away their VIP pass to your sanity. If you know a conversational hijacker or have experienced countless encounters of people ill treat you then this episode is for you. Don’t fall for the history trap! This week’s Ginja Ninja Combat Zone we go all bubbly!  It’s time to clean house again! Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

If you work in the creative industry or the freelance world, grab a matcha latte and sit down. This week, Jason and I are pulling back the curtain on the absolute circus of chasing what you’re actually worth.We’re breaking down the ultimate "Dos and Don’ts" of setting your rates, and exposing the oldest client trick in the book: the classic "we just don't have the budget" sob story. Funny how that budget magically evaporates even when the economy is flying high, innit?We’re also calling out the people ruining the ecosystem by doing high-value work for absolute pennies. It’s hard out here, but undercutting everyone else just makes it worse for the rest of us. It’s time to grow a backbone and start charging properly.We’re heading straight back into the alleyway for this week’s Ginja Combat Zone and we need your ammunition. Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice.DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

If you want to know how Grace Lam claps back this one is for you. Apparently, the "sweet primary school" era has a much shorter shelf life than it used to. One minute you’re dealing with lost lunchboxes, and the next, the social dynamics have shifted into a low-budget teen drama—about three years ahead of schedule.In this episode, Jason and I discuss the "Year 7 Pivot." We’re not pointing fingers, but let’s just say the parenting bar in the wild is currently sitting on the floor or even in the basement. Apparently Y7 is all about hanging with the 'cool kids' but may I remind you all that those so called 'cool kids' in high school are definitely not cool anymore....jus sayin. Grace shares some good quotes from renowned child psychologists -Gabor Mate and Dr Becky Kennedy.Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to me on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  ⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠

Why are we all so terrified of a little chat? In this episode, we’re diving into the awkward, sweaty-palmed world of confrontation.Most people would rather move to a different country than tell a friend they owe them money or tell a colleague their "reply all" habit is bloody annoying. We explore why everyone has become so sensitive and why "refusing to talk things out" is actually just a slow-motion car crash for your relationships.Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to me on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyleHosts:  Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai  www.lindsaylai.com