How to add "peripheral vision" to your elicitations to get the full picture of your date.

Here's a tool by which to clarify what your date - and you - really mean, so that you avoid assumptions that can create problems later on.

Safely cut to the core of character with "why" and "how" questions - even from the first date.

Hear how good listening encourages your date to share, and sets the tone for the questions that follow.

Is the first date just about seeing how well you get along?

Here are some character-centered strategies for checking out dates.

Hear why the level of willingness to answer questions may very well correlate with the level of readiness to date