Often, we hold grudges. Family, friends, teachers - you name it. So many people might have had a huge influence on how your life turned out.

However, we need to understand that blaming people and events on how our life is going TODAY, does nothing to us except prevent our growth.

Yes, they said things, so what? In every situation, WE have a choice to make. Holding grudges and living in the past prevents you from experiencing the present and creating your future.

Learn to leave the past in the past and pay attention to what you’re paying attention to - which is today and right now.