Do You F*cking Mind?
Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach
The Science of Crying: Why a Tactical Cry (and Sad Music) Is Good for You
42 minutes Posted Aug 31, 2025 at 2:00 pm.
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Sometimes you just need a tactical cry, and science says that’s actually good for you. In this episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I break down the psychology and neuroscience behind why crying feels so relieving, and why putting on sad music can actually help your brain process emotions.
You’ll learn:
The neuroscience of emotional tears and how they regulate your nervous system
Why a “tactical cry” can reset your stress response
How music enhances emotional release and supports mental clarity
The link between crying, self-regulation, and long-term resilience
If you’ve ever felt better after bawling your eyes out to sad songs, this episode explains exactly why your brain needed it, and how to use it as a tool for mental health.
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