Send a text External validation keeps us trapped in cycles of performance that obscure our true identity and exhaust us spiritually, emotionally, and physically. We're learning to rediscover who God created us to be by breaking free from people-pleasing and returning to our authentic selves. • Trading authenticity for attachment teaches us to perform for love rather than receiving it freely • Spiritualized people-pleasing in faith communities isn't service—it's survival motivated by fear • V...