Divorce Dialogues
Divorce Dialogues
Katherine Miller
How to Talk to Kids About Divorce | Dr. Korie Leigh
30 minutes Posted Sep 24, 2026 at 9:00 am.
Divorce doesn't have to be a conversation you dread having with your kids. What if it's the beginning of showing them they can get through something hard?Childhood Grief Specialist and Award-Winning Author Dr. Korie Leigh joins the show to break down how to talk to kids about divorce without overwhelming them or trying to make it painless.Katherine and Korie explore how to figure out what your child already knows before you say anything, how the conversation shifts by age, and why getting it wrong the first time isn't the failure it feels like. Listen in for practical, developmentally grounded guidance you can use today.What you'll learn:Why divorce is a form of loss for kids, even when it's the right decision for the family;How to "dose" information about divorce so kids aren't overwhelmed;How to adjust the conversation based on your child's age; andWhat actually gives kids a sense of safety and stability across two homesHighlights:
Meet Dr. Korie Leigh
What kids are actually grieving during divorce
Why parents need to process their own emotions first
Why "treat it like a business deal" is bad advice
Why you should start by asking kids what they already know
What "dosing" information actually means
How the conversation should change by a child's age
What gives kids the greatest sense of safety
One piece of advice before you have "the talk"
Meet Dr. Korie Leigh
What kids are actually grieving during divorce
Why parents need to process their own emotions first
Why "treat it like a business deal" is bad advice
Why you should start by asking kids what they already know
What "dosing" information actually means
How the conversation should change by a child's age
What gives kids the greatest sense of safety
One piece of advice before you have "the talk"
The reframe every parent needs about protecting kids from grief
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Divorce doesn't have to be a conversation you dread having with your kids. What if it's the beginning of showing them they can get through something hard?Childhood Grief Specialist and Award-Winning Author Dr. Korie Leigh joins the show to break down how to talk to kids about divorce without overwhelming them or trying to make it painless.Katherine and Korie explore how to figure out what your child already knows before you say anything, how the conversation shifts by age, and why getting it wrong the first time isn't the failure it feels like. Listen in for practical, developmentally grounded guidance you can use today.What you'll learn:Why divorce is a form of loss for kids, even when it's the right decision for the family;How to "dose" information about divorce so kids aren't overwhelmed;How to adjust the conversation based on your child's age; andWhat actually gives kids a sense of safety and stability across two homesHighlights: (00:00) Meet Dr. Korie Leigh (03:11) What kids are actually grieving during divorce (04:46) Why parents need to process their own emotions first (09:26) Why "treat it like a business deal" is bad advice (12:15) Why you should start by asking kids what they already know (13:48) What "dosing" information actually means (15:39) How the conversation should change by a child's age (22:53) What gives kids the greatest sense of safety (26:11) One piece of advice before you have "the talk" (28:32) The reframe every parent needs about protecting kids from griefAbout our guest, Dr. Korie LeighWebsite: korieleighphd.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/korie-leigh-phd-ccls-ftAbout Divorce Dialogues and Miller Law GroupKatherine’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/More on her book “The Emotionally Savvy Divorce” at: https://katherinemiller.com/book/Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: shareyourgenius.com