After years of living more like roommates than husband and wife, Delight Your Marriage provided the tools to enable real change. Today our marriage is more loving, more intimate and more satisfying than it has been since we were newlyweds. With more than 30 years under our belts, that's saying something!

DYM has a great path to help couples heal and prioritize their marriage. It’s Christ-centered, kind, and optimistic about what God does when people humble themselves.

Going through the Delighted Wife course has been one of the most pivotal experiences in my marriage and walk with Jesus. It is a gift that truly keeps on giving day after day because now I have tools, accountability, and community around the difficult topics of marriage. I also have sisters walking right alongside of me cheering me on to do the next right thing, walk forward in obedience, and strive for faithfulness. I am deeply grateful.

My husband and I are taking this course together in order to heal our marriage! We have worshipped together in many places for His Glory but our relationship was far from that! He and DYM have given us tools to truly understand each other and be MORE in tune. So now we can truly worship Him in Spirit and in truth!

Our marriage was breaking apart because of broken trust and lack of good communication. It helped us to look inside of ourselves at the problem and learn to see the good once again in our spouse.

Delight Your Marriage has proved to be the most life-changing subscription I have. The podcasts combine information with stories of real-life experience. The interviews show a wide variety of situations in marriages and provide a window into transformed lives. No actors reading scripts; real people. Some how-to, some inspiration, some encouragement. The most important relationship in your life can be restored. This is the place to begin.

I went into Delight Your Marriage thinking I already knew how to be a husband. I love my wife. I work hard. I try to lead our home. But I was better at running a business than I was at really seeing her, listening to her, and setting the tone in our house. DYM didn’t give me a list of tricks. It put Scripture in front of me and made me deal with my own heart. I stopped waiting on her to change and started taking responsibility for the man I was bringing home. I got more grateful, quicker to own it when I was wrong, and a lot better at pursuing her instead of just providing for her. That changed our marriage. There’s more peace between us. We’re closer. I lead spiritually in a way I talk about instead of only intending to. And it didn’t stay between the two of us. I’m a better father because I’m a better husband. Our three girls are watching how I treat their mom, and that home feels steadier because I stopped making everything about getting through the day and started showing up on purpose. If you’re a man who loves his family but knows you’re not loving them the way God designed, do the work. God used DYM to change me. My wife and my kids are living with the difference.

I was introduced to the podcast many years ago by a coworker. I signed up for the 12 week coaching program and am so grateful I did. I learned so much, and the trajectory of our marriage has changed. I have learned how to be the husband God has designed me to be and help my wife flourish.

DYM is the best marriage program around! God has used it tremendously to reshape me as a man and to reshape my marriage. Prior to coming to DYM, my marriage was lukewarm and lacking in emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy. Since completing the program, my wife and I are now praying and reading scripture together, we are laughing and having fun, and our intimate lives have grown in leaps and bounds. I can't thank Belah and DYM enough for the wonderful course and materials and for their care for my wife and I over the last 3 months. I genuinely love the people at DYM and thank God for bringing them into our lives!

DYM has been a truly life-changing program for me. One of the things I appreciate most is that the focus is on working on yourself rather than trying to change your spouse. It gives you practical tools, support, and a different perspective on marriage that can make a real difference. I went through the program about a year ago and am still involved today. I’m very grateful for the impact it has had on my life and marriage.

This program has helped me grow and change me and my marriage. This really works.

This program and these podcasts are so lifesaving and inspirational. Just listened to the February 6, 2026 episode with Randy and Rozanne Frazee. I love learning about theology, even about such a taboo topic. It’s so helpful to do deep dives on these subjects. I do hope you find this episode to be as satisfying as I did!

This podcast and ministry has been such a monumental blessing in my marriage and in my personal life also. Pointing everyone in the home towards Christ has generational blessing that just can’t be underestimated

The quality of the sound is awful. The host’s intro is clear and crisp but the interview portion is AWFUL. She needs to clean it up. Her interviewing skills are also poor. Promotion your program is fine but she does nothing actually tell you what it is. It’s just blanket testimonials nothing in depth. This is the 10th time I’ve tried to listen and just unfollowed because it’s just awful.

DYM and Belah help marriages through simple steps that are Biblical. Highly recommend this podcast! Look forward to each podcast episode.

The Delight Your Marriage Podcast has been a really helpful resource for growing in marriage from a biblical perspective. It talks honestly about real struggles couples face while pointing back to God’s design for intimacy, communication, and love in marriage. I appreciate how it mixes practical advice with solid biblical foundations. The interviews with couples and the way they describe transformation is a blessing. It’s encouraging, convicting at times, and a great listen for anyone who wants to intentionally strengthen their marriage.

There is so much good applicable content here. After 5 years of listening and 20 years of marriage I finally jumped in and started the masculinity reclaimed course and it has been the best thing I’ve ever done. No exceptions! Belah has the road map to get your marriage on track and to make the process truly enjoyable. 9 weeks in and my marriage is better than it has ever been. Don’t hesitate. I can’t say enough good about Belah, her podcast, and program. God Bless.

A lot of Christian podcasts give the idea or feel of what you should do, but this podcast gives practical steps on how to love your spouse well and it is so incredibly helpful! I hope it’s a great resource for many people!

I have been familiar with this podcast for over seven years, and it has transformed my marriage of nearly 40 years! Four years ago, I connected with DYM and did one of their courses and that was the best thing that I ever did for my marriage!

I’ve listened to many of these podcasts and have actually done the related coursework. I highly recommend this Biblically-based, practical content!

I took the Masculinity Reclaimed course about 22 months ago. My wife Started the intimate freedom course at the same time. We were open in conversation about “sex”(NOTICE: I did not say physical intimacy) being “a thing” and it having it’s own pulse in our relationship. I was aware that link of the chain touched and affected (and was an integral supporting link to) every other link of the chain. We had a significant biblical understanding of what the God was calling us to. We were stuck in implementing many of these things practically. We both agreed that seeking help from Belah was a good idea. Her character on the podcasts was deeply confirmed while spending time with her on the courses. What you hear and see on the podcasts is what you get, only tailored specifically to your current situation, with the same biblical insight, dedicated loving service, honesty, sincerity, grace and steadfastness for your good. Since taking the courses my wife and I are playful, our communication with and acceptance of each other the way we are is unrecognizable from the beginning. It’s truly amazing. We knew God designed marriage for more. The reason we ultimately decided to take the course was because we knew and agreed that God designed marriage and specifically PHYSICAL INTIMACY (NOTICE The change In verbiage looking back). Physical intimacy has now become the culmination of all other expressions of intimacy in our marriage. Ephesians 5 parallels marriage with Christ and the church and it being “a profound mystery”. Oh, is it. God desires our deep, complete, unbridled intimacy with Him. He desires that we respect and honor Him and His authority. He desires to be completely known and accepted. He wants us to affirm him to himself as well as in front of others. So does the husband. He was made in the image of God with masculine energy. Jesus came as one who submitted to a higher authority, submissive and obedient to that higher authority, took his place and purpose under that authority as the utmost importance in His life. He was loving, gentle, sincere, graceful, kind, self-controlled, joyful in all situations, peaceful and peace giving and patient. What more do women desire more deeply from her husband than these things? God desires to be deeply known by us. For us to accept who He is, as He is! He wants us to cherish Him for who He is. To show Him off to others as our prized possession. For Him to be the star of the show. He desires to be listened to, to be understood, to have emotionally intimate time alone with us. He wants to be affirmed in who he is. He wants us to acknowledge who He is and “compliment” Him for the things He does in our lives. So does the wife. She was made in God’s image with feminine energy. Praise God for His timing and praise God for Belah Rose and her obedience to God’s call on her life!! We love you Belah. Update. It’s been over 4 years now. Having gone through the courses we have continued to grow in many different ways. Most noteably for me has been my ability to focus on my mental health and overcoming trauma from my past. Alongside this, leading in many other areas of our lives including things that do not make her happy at the time are areas of growth for me. Thanks again Belah!!

I had been searching for something to better my marriage. When I joined Beulah’s delight Your Marriage program, it wasn’t just about improving my marriage, but improving me as a person and building my relationship with God. It completely changed my daily focus. My life has been so much better since joining our program.

DYM is doing work to change lives and marriages! You get an inside look to the principles as well as people’s experiences applying them in the podcast! There is so much authenticity, hope, and biblical wisdom offered here on marriage and sexuality. Dive in!

I have been listening to this podcast for over a year now and I am continually blown away by how spot on the material and suggestions are. Wow! Belah does an amazing job at letting the Holy Spirit guide her talks and material. It is so evident she loves Jesus with all her heart and uses that relationship to bring forth solid, Biblically based content to help us grow in our marriage relationship. Even if you are the only one listening and putting into practice what is shared, God will change your marriage as He changes your heart. I have learned more about how humility and following Jesus’ example will help me love my wife in a more fulfilling way, change the atmosphere in our home and change how she responds to me in a more positive way. Lives and marriages are being changed by this ministry and it is super inspiring!

I’ve only been in the program for 5 weeks. But so much has been revealed to me through the program. I am so hopeful and encouraged and already, I have seen such positive changes in our marriage. God is the center of the program and the scaffold for all of the tools and skills learned through the program. I know because of this, in His perfect time, we are able to honor our marriage covenant and grow together, unified and full of joy!!

I started listening to DYM three years ago. Initially, I found the broadcasts while looking for something to excite our marriage. Without my wife listening to a single episode, our marriage began to improve because I implemented changes in myself. The podcasts bless me, over and over. I am finally starting the "Masculinity Reclaimed" course work, and I am sure that God will bless us as I continue on this journey of seeking God and self-change. If you want a more intimate life with your partner, start listening to DYM, and start working on yourself. God will honor those prayers!

I love how Belah handles difficult and / or sensitive topics so graciously! I always come away with something practical or challenging and it’s always Biblical.

I am so grateful God led me to Belah’s podcast! The content has and is changing my mind, perspective, attitude, and mindset and showing me what it truly means to love my husband the way God designed me to love him, biblically, and also HOW to do that! Belah I cannot say thank you enough for episodes 371 and 372!!! I have taken notes and am reading them daily, and have listened several times to cement things in my mind. Your engaging way and ready laugh is a blessing! Keep up the wonderful podcast!! O will Be listening!!

Thank you God for this amazingly gifted woman, Belah! Thank you Belah, for sharing your gifts and talents with the world in such a beautiful way!! I am inspired to move and be the man God has given me the calling to be!

Thank you Belah for all that you do! This podcast is an incredible resource!

My husband and I have been married for 37 years. We have just recently in the last year begun listening to various Christian podcasts about sex and marriage. We have learned a lot but we have especially enjoyed Belah Rose. She doesn’t just talk about new techniques or the mechanics of sex but her podcast integrates the gift of sex with all of life… especially our walk with God. This is so important because God is the one who created sex… it is His gift. Knowing that Belah has a deep relationship with God herself gives us confidence in her advice.We find her to be engaging and compassionate in all of her conversations. Definite worth listening to!

Great info, very useful

I LOVE this podcast!! It has given me practical ideas on how not only improve my marriage and relationship with my wife, but has also brought me closer to Jesus and my children. When things are improving, it spills over to so many areas of life! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!!

✨I just found this podcast a day ago!✨ I have nonstop listened !! I have cried- prayed- taken notes !!! There is so much meat - I have listened to a couple of shows twice to really get what I just heard. I have craved a mentor for years - I feel like this has been an answer my to prayer.🤍 ✨• I searched up encouragement and scrolled through and found this - and felt like God said YES!!•✨ I had a shift in my mindset; l that I needed work in our marriage and to not come at him from a place of hurt. I have been taking notes like my life depends on it. Because I see the season of life that we are in • it does• I want a generational blessed marriage to trickle down. I want to learn how to Love my husband well. I want to truly celebrate our next anniversary, 18 years is something to celebrate.✨ Thank you DYM team for ALL you each do- to give so many hope !!! T

Thank you Belah for your words and wisdom and love for Jesus. My marriage is be healed from the inside out. Muuuaaahhh

These podcasts are so inspiring and encouraging! Belah has a wealth of knowledge. I also purchased her book off of Amazon and I am amazed how well it’s written and how accurate it is. Within a week of finding her resources, I can already see a change in my heart which is quickly impacting my marriage. My husband and I thank you!

I’ve been looking for a Christian marriage intimacy podcast and stumbled across a gold mine with Belah’s. I went back to the beginning of the episode list, which is a good 6 years ago now. I’m working my way up to current, but I’ve got a lot to go! It’s great to have a space where Christian sex can be discussed openly. I feel that the church is lacking in this a bit bc it can be “uncomfortable” to talk about. However, it’s one of the most important topics regarding marriage and couples need to understand each other’s needs to really flourish and actualize God’s purpose for our lives. God bless you Belah (and your hubby!) I’m looking forward to listening to so many more of your episodes! -Doug

As a newly married wife I was on the lookout for a podcast about marriage and intimacy, and this quickly became the only one I listen to. Belah is so wise and full of practical tips for intimacy, but also fully saturated in Biblical truth! Listening to the podcast is always a breath of fresh air. THANK YOU so much for this amazing work!

My wife and I listen often to your podcasts individually and together. They have helped us immensely and our marriage is growing, even thriving as a result. Thanks Bella!!!

I have a great marriage, but something we’ve struggled with for most of our marriage is my wife’s lack of sexual desire. I’ve tried many Christian podcasts and books for answers. We’ve thought perhaps it was due to changes in her body after having children. Most of the answers I gathered had to do with making sure she enjoyed the sex, encouraging her to accept her conjugal duties as a wife, understanding that she has responsive desire, etc. Nothing I learned was truly changing her desire for me. Things helped a little here and there, but nothing radical. But then I discovered this podcast 4 days ago. Since then, she’s initiated 3 times- we’re lucky to have sex twice a week (and I’m initiating most of the time)! I haven’t initiated at all- haven’t had to! I’m seriously blown away at the revelation the Holy Spirit has given me thru this podcast. It’s truly an answer to prayer, praise Jesus! It dawned on me that I wasn’t pursuing her romantically as I should- that her lack of desire was MY fault. This changed everything- and I haven’t even taken the courses yet! Soo excited to pursue being the husband she would want. THANK YOU!

Married for 22 years and my wife and I have found Bella’s teaching and coaching to be transforming to our sexual intimacy. It’s biblical, practical, and powerful. It really will impact your sexual intimacy for good…way beyond your expectations.

It was the ending that got me in tears!! I love inclusion!! And as a black woman myself who listens faithfully to this podcast, this was beyond a blessing and heartwarming! I love you guys!

Been listening to this podcast for over a year and the practical advice makes the ideology come to life. It has helped me immensely see how I have the power to sabotage the intimacy in my marriage in as well as the power to get it back with how I love my wife. Thank you Belah!

This is one of those rare podcasts which will actually help you and not many Christians, let alone podcasts discuss this vital topic. I’ve been listening for a few weeks now and it’s already helping our intimacy in my 21 years of marriage. Whatever stage you’re at, you will find jewels of wisdom to help grow your intimacy. I rarely give 5 stars!!

Thanks for amazing Godly advice for marriages. May the Lord continue to use you to speak into the lives of those that want to live well and to be an example to the world.

No podcast in the Intimacy and Marriage category comes close to Belah in connecting Intimacy in Marriage to Jesus’ call to love one another as he loved us which means to love your spouse as THEY want to be loved. Keep up the great work in your ministry Belah!

This has been SO amazingly helpful, and I have learned SO MUCH. Everyone should listen to the podcast. I am so thankful to have found this, thank you Belah Rose!!!

Horny is Holy! 🙌🏽🤣 Since I was 10yrs old I dreaded the concept of sex and marriage and now I look forward to kicking satans lies out of my life one day at a time. And I hope and pray that like me it will reach and help many more women out there! I will be getting married here in the next 6 days. Growing up all I knew was men rape, young women become pregnant, and birth control screws up the body. Then I met my husband to be and was devastated of his sex experiences. Our church community sadly does not speak on intimacy or sex. I ran into this on podcast and the resources provided are abundant!!! Belah Rose is a vessel of the Lord shing light and truth into a holy gift that has been infected by satan.

I’ve read multiple books on marriage and I have listened to various podcasts. However, Belah and Delight Your Marriage has been a game changer for me and my relationship with my wife!

Her podcasts, book, and resources online are unlike anything else. She is making real differences in broken lives and marriages through her insights. She argues from the perspective of design, pointing to how our hearts and marriages were meant to work. If you have any struggles or doubts, pray and at least give his podcast a chance. It will impact you and stir your spirit toward Biblical change. Her program has worked for me.