Dear Son,
Dear Son,
Derek Johns
Dear Son, There's Only Now | Ep 186 | The Dear Son, Show
1 hour 9 minutes Posted May 8, 2026 at 12:00 pm.
Birthday Talk and Condoms
Welcome to Dear Son Show
Setting the Theme Time Is Now
How to Talk Urgency
Parents Behind the Curve
Release Them to Thrive
Be an Anchor to Principles
At What Cost of AI
Crowds Likes and Value
Stay Your Course Timeless
Falling Behind Fast
AI Dependency Spiral
From Enhancements to Necessities
Who Holds the Plug
Only Now Matters
Procrastination Costs
Time Allocation Skills
Parenting Accountability
Family Familiarity Trap
Hard Talks With Sons
At What Cost
Final Thanks and Signoff
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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Dear Son: The Time Is Now (Parents & Young Men, Don’t Wait)
Hosts Jey Blac and D Johns use a birthday call with a 20-year-old son—turning into a repeated condom and responsibility talk—to stress that if parents are asking “when is the time,” it’s already time. They discuss how rapid shifts in technology, especially AI, make “in my day” advice ineffective unless parents first understand their kids’ perspective, stay relatable, and anchor them to enduring principles and morality. The conversation warns against procrastination, overreliance on convenience, and letting social media “crowds” define truth or personal value, emphasizing that being overlooked doesn’t reduce worth. They challenge parents to act now, communicate without judgment, hold standards at home, and consider “at what cost” when chasing speed, money, or new tools.
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