Dear Son,
Dear Son,
Derek Johns
Fathers Must Stay Emotionally Connected to Their Daughters | The Life of an Ada | Ep 176
1 hour 11 minutes Posted Mar 19, 2026 at 12:00 am.
Show Intro and Guest
From Nigeria to Jersey
Black Excellence and Culture Shock
American Ignorance Abroad
Her Father’s Legacy
Oldest Daughter Pressure
Discipline and Repair
Sex Talks and Silence
Marriage and Family Today
Dad’s Marriage Criteria
Honoring Dad in Church
No Matchmaking Allowed
Marry for Love
Dad Vetting the Suitor
Choosing a Husband Like Dad
Parenting Styles and Teens
Fathers Must Be Present
Why Emotional Moms Started
Behind the Perfect Family
Work Life and New Calling
Lessons on Connection
Modeling Values at Home
Talking Porn and Vices
What I Wish Dad Said
Plugging Resources and Farewell
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Chika Onunkwo on Fatherhood’s Legacy, Nigerian Upbringing, and Raising Emotionally Safe Kids
In this Women’s Series episode of the Dear Son Show, host speaks with Chika Onunkwo, a Nigerian-born mom in New Jersey who moved to the U.S. at 16 and reflects on growing up in Port Harcourt where “black excellence” was normal, then experiencing bias and jokes about Africa after immigrating. Chika shares how her father—an accomplished civil engineer and community giver—modeled provision, emotional availability, high standards, and repair after discipline, shaping her confidence, marriage expectations, and how she parents. She discusses marrying a Nigerian man she met in college, her father’s cultural criteria and emphasis on marrying for love, and how Emotional Moms began from her own struggles balancing corporate work and emotional connection with her sons. She urges parents—especially fathers—to be emotionally present, connect before correcting, and talk openly about taboo topics. Follow the channel and leave a review.
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