Dear Schuyler
Dear Schuyler
Schuyler Bailar
Schuyler Bailar was the first transgender athlete to compete on an NCAA Division 1 men's team. As a renowned speaker, author, and thought leader, Schuyler's work includes answering questions from all sorts of people relating to gender, current events, mental health, civil-rights issues, and so much more. But there are always questions left unanswered -- until now. On "Dear Schuyler", the award-winning activist answers questions he receives from followers, allies, and anyone who wants to learn more about how our ideas of gender shape our lives. To help inform those answers, Schuyler speaks to guests whose wisdom and experiences are directly impacted by those questions -- people like like NCAA champion swimmer Lia Thomas, ACLU lawyer Chase Strangio, Olympian Megan Rapino and others. These are the culture movers, the experts, and the real people who tell their stories, teach their lessons, and help us all recognize how they're shaping today's society and culture.  If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on his Instagram @pinkmantaray, or go to DearSchuyler.com. We need to understand each other better and whether you define yourself as straight, cis, gay, trans, non-binary, bisexual, asexual, or something else, this is the podcast we all need in today's changing world. "Dear Schuyler" humanizes the conversation.
How can we undo the gender binary? ✶ with Devin-Norelle
The gender binary, or the idea that there are only two genders, is at the core of so many issues facing transgender people today. However, Schuyler speaks with the host of PBS' Brave Spaces and trans advocate Devin-Norelle about how this false assumption impacts those who may not believe gender plays a significant role in their life, and how radical self-reflection can help dismantle this societal norm. 
Jan 15, 2024
58 min
How do parents support their transgender kid? ✶ with Nai and Leo
Navigating the journey of caring for and supporting a transgender child can be overwhelming, especially for parents unfamiliar with the transgender experience. In this episode, Schuyler invites Nai and Leo, the first parent and child who reached out to him after his 60 Minutes feature aired. They delve into the discussion on how Nai affirmed Leo's identity, coped with less supportive relatives, and navigated the process of obtaining gender-affirming care. This interview was recorded in March 2023.
Jan 6, 2024
51 min
How do prisons shape society and gender? ✶ with Jaden Janak
In many ways, the existence of police and prisons may feel natural to many people. However, Schuyler sits down with Professor and Scholar Jaden Janak to discuss how the Prison Industrial Complex we know today is actually a recent invention, and how this system serves those in power. Together they gather insight before Schuyler answers today's main question: How do prisons shape society and gender? This episode was recorded in April 2023 Black and Pink PenPal program A guide to the Prison Industrial Complex by Critical Resistance
Dec 18, 2023
52 min
Why are there so many anti-trans bills? ✶ with Chase Strangio
Today, there are over 500 anti-trans bills that have either been passed or introduced throughout the United States. Though transphobia is not new, it is natural to wonder: why now? To address this question, Schuyler speaks with ACLU lawyer and activist Chase Strangio. He discusses why so many states are pushing for these laws, what their real intent is, and what we can do about them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 27, 2023
58 min
How do I manage my relationship with parents that don't understand me? ✶ with Raquel Willis
It can be tricky for all of us to maintain a healthy relationship with our parents. But for trans people, this relationship can be even more complicated. To help navigate this complicated connection, Schuyler sits down with author and activist Raquel Willis. She discusses how the dynamic between her and her religious parents morphed over time. Raquel also discusses her new book, The Risk it Takes to Bloom, out November 14th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 13, 2023
54 min
How do we find belonging without conforming? with ✶ Addison Rose Vincent
Schuyler sits down with friend, nonbinary advocate, educator, and influencer, Addison Rose Vincent. In this conversation Schuyler and Addison discuss surviving as a trans person in this world, how many feel that gender nonconformity or trans-expression is a joke and the ongoing narrative of how people are supposed to respond to gender nonconformity and transness. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray, or go to DearSchuyler.com.  ✶ Join Diversion+ on Apple Podcasts and get the whole episode ad-free! In fact, members get every Dear Schuyler episode—as well as every podcast from Diversion Audio—ad-free, plus early releases and special episodes. Try the free trial at https://apple.co/417QkGVSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 25, 2023
1 hr 13 min
How do we bring our authentic selves to sport? ✶ with Erica Sullivan
Schuyler sits down with American swimmer, Erica Sullivan.  Sullivan, who won a silver medalist in the 1500-meter freestyle at the 2020 Summer Olympics, opens up about being gay, the loss of her father and how she was able to bring her authentic self to the sport she loves. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray, or go to DearSchuyler.com.  ✶ Join Diversion+ on Apple Podcasts and get the whole episode ad-free! In fact, members get every Dear Schuyler episode—as well as every podcast from Diversion Audio—ad-free, plus early releases and special episodes. Try the free trial at https://apple.co/417QkGVSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 18, 2023
1 hr 11 min
Must trans athletes choose between their identities and their sport? ✶ with Angel Flores
Schuyler sits down with Angel Joy Flores, the deadlift Queen, for an in depth conversation about trans athletes and whether or not trans athletes must choose between their sport and their identities. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray, or go to DearSchuyler.com.  ✶ Join Diversion+ on Apple Podcasts and get the whole episode ad-free! In fact, members get every Dear Schuyler episode—as well as every podcast from Diversion Audio—ad-free, plus early releases and special episodes. Try the free trial at https://apple.co/417QkGV  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 11, 2023
53 min
How do trans people feel about how we were before? ✶ with Ezra Michel
Schuyler is joined by musician, actor, model and barber, Ezra Michel.  In this conversation the two discuss what growing up was like and what their feelings are now when they look back on their early life. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray, or go to DearSchuyler.com.  ✶ Join Diversion+ on Apple Podcasts and get the whole episode ad-free! In fact, members get every Dear Schuyler episode—as well as every podcast from Diversion Audio—ad-free, plus early releases and special episodes. Try the free trial at https://apple.co/417QkGVSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 4, 2023
1 hr 19 min
How can we feel more like ourselves ✶ with Elle Deran
Schuyler sits down with actor and advocate, Elle Deran.  In this conversation we discuss getting closer to our truth and using discomfort as an invitation to learn about ourselves. ✶ If you have a question for Schuyler, send him a voice memo on Instagram @pinkmantaray, or go to DearSchuyler.com.  ✶ Join Diversion+ on Apple Podcasts and get the whole episode ad-free! In fact, members get every Dear Schuyler episode—as well as every podcast from Diversion Audio—ad-free, plus early releases and special episodes. Try the free trial at https://apple.co/417QkGVSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 28, 2023
1 hr 3 min
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