Dear Dual Perspective
Dear Dual Perspective
Sara McPhee-Knowles and Emma Eaton
Welcome to Dear Dual Perspective! Your hosts are Dr. Emma Eaton, registered clinical psychologist and Dr. Sara McPhee-Knowles, policy researcher. (For entertainment purposes only). We will answer your question from both the micro perspective of individual relationship dynamics from Dr. Emma's clinical training, and the macro perspective of social trends based on Dr. Sara's policy background. Submit your question here for an upcoming episode. This podcast is recorded on the territory of the KDFN and TKC in Whitehorse, Yukon.
Going back to school as the primary parent
In this follow up episode on primary parenting, Emma and Sara answer a question from a mom who is considering going back to school and is wondering why it's more difficult for women to have these conversations about career advancement and juggling household and childcare responsibilities. Sara has a lot of questions about what type of schooling and how it will fit in to the family's goals and priorities, and Emma points out that the patriarchy is like the air we breathe which is why this type of change is so challenging. Please let us know what you thought of this episode, don't forget to share and subscribe, and please submit your questions for an upcoming episode here: https://forms.gle/PJgD67Tk9N53JBgu8 References: Wage gap in Canada Zawn Villines, Liberating Motherhood
Oct 12, 2023
26 min
Artificial Intelligence Won't Save Us
In this episode, your hosts answer a question from a listener asking their opinion on artificial intelligence, such as ChatGPT, and its potential to impact work and the home. Further, they ask if AI can help solve big challenges, like the mental health crisis, health inequality and climate change. Emma and Sara offer their opinions on the use of artificial intelligence in different spheres, including the implications for copyright, credit for published work, ethical use, and how new technology exacerbates existing inequalities. Finally, your hosts ask ChatGPT what it thinks it can do for addressing these problems, and offer their critique and conclusion: artificial intelligence won't save us, even though promises that technology will fix society's biggest issues are seductive. Please let us know what you thought of this episode, don't forget to share and subscribe, and please submit your questions for an upcoming episode here: https://forms.gle/sT3JhopgXnUQkKih9 References: CBC News. 2023. Study suggests AI can help find breast cancer. https://www.cbc.ca/player/play/2265144899551#
Sep 26, 2023
35 min
Coping with a dysfunctional workplace
In this episode, your hosts answer a detailed question from a listener who is frustrated with a workplace where they enjoy their work and coworkers but are stymied by bottlenecks, unclear priorities and poor communication, and are thus losing motivation and struggling to be productive. Sara's initial reaction was to encourage quiet quitting, but following more reflection she emphasizes that it's important to match expectations of productivity to the work environment. Emma points out that building capacity and relationships is a productive activity even if it doesn't directly create a product. Your hosts also mention that productivity culture, and that constant hustling is not sustainable or fair to workers. Please let us know what you thought of this episode, don't forget to share and subscribe, and please submit your questions for an upcoming episode here: https://forms.gle/sT3JhopgXnUQkKih9 References: Gallup poll on quiet quitting: https://www.gallup.com/workplace/398306/quiet-quitting-real.aspx Petersen, Anne Helen. Feb 4, 2021. The diminishing returns of productivity culture. Culture Study. https://annehelen.substack.com/p/the-diminishing-returns-of-productivity Perlo J, Balik B, Swensen S, Kabcenell A, Landsman J, Feeley D. 2017. IHI Framework for Improving Joy in Work. IHI White Paper. Cambridge, Massachusetts: Institute for Healthcare Improvement.
Sep 10, 2023
24 min
Biking through a world built for cars
In this episode, a listener asks why so few people in Whitehorse bike or walk despite relatively short distances to many destinations, and another asks why drivers can be so aggressive. Emma and Sara talk about their experiences bike commuting, car culture, and the need for more safe and accessible infrastructure to support different transportation modes across neighbourhoods and life stages. There are lots of statistics mentioned in this episode, and sources are linked below. Please let us know what you thought of this episode, don't forget to share and subscribe, and please submit your questions for an upcoming episode here: https://forms.gle/sT3JhopgXnUQkKih9 References: Yukon Bureau of Statistics, 2021, Whitehorse Transportation and Commuting Survey Report. https://emrlibrary.gov.yk.ca/environment/whitehorse-transportation-commuting-survey-report-2021.pdf Global News. June 28, 2023. Road rage is heating up in Canada. https://globalnews.ca/news/9796469/road-rage-incidents-canada/ CBC News. August 17, 2022. Do SUVs, pickups cause more pedestrian deaths? Safety advocates say they have the numbers to prove it. https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/street-safety-groups-say-suvs-pickups-more-likely-to-kill-1.6551924 What is Vision Zero? https://visionzeronetwork.org/about/what-is-vision-zero/ Scientific American. 2016. What is loss aversion? https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-is-loss-aversion/
Aug 27, 2023
38 min
Help! My neighbour stole my plants!
We're at the mid-point of season 2! We hope you enjoy this bonus short episode. Today, Emma and Sara take on a different kind of question that left them with far more questions - this listener's neighbour stole their plants from their yard, and is looking for advice on whether to steal them back! Your hosts comment on the oddity of this behaviour, with Emma suggesting a rational and responsible way to address it and Sara offering a much more petty solution. (Surprisingly, Sara manages to get through the episode without commenting on how this problem ties back to the development of individual property rights.) You can submit your anonymous question here: https://forms.gle/ZTXy5rpd2S2MAgAM9 We'd love to answer it in a future episode! You can follow us on Instagram @deardualperspective and Twitter @deardualpersp. Please subscribe, answer the poll below, and listen in to our next episode in two weeks. Thanks for listening.
Aug 13, 2023
8 min
Breaking up with friends (nicely?!)
This episode forms part 2 of a two-part series on friendship (part 1 is "Birthday Cards and Letting Go of an Old Friend"). In this episode, Emma and Sara answer a question from a listener asking how to gently and honestly break up a platonic relationship. Emma brings up a recent topic of interest, the HR-ification of friendship, and Sara notes that we have very few well-defined cultural norms about friendships and how they end. In true #Yukon fashion, your hosts' recording session in Sara's camper is interrupted by a raven! We also discussed this hour's main character on the Internet, Jonah Hill, and the use of therapy speak in friendships. Please let us know what you thought of this episode, don't forget to share and subscribe, and please submit your questions for an upcoming episode here: https://forms.gle/sT3JhopgXnUQkKih9 References: Barrett, Jessica. Feb 6, 2023. The kindest way to break up with friends is to ghost them. iNews Opinion. https://inews.co.uk/opinion/the-kindest-way-to-break-up-with-a-friend-is-to-ghost-them-2131119 Fishbein, Rebecca. Apr 7, 2023. Is therapy-speak making us selfish? Bustle. https://www.bustle.com/wellness/is-therapy-speak-making-us-selfish CBC News. July 12, 2023. Jonah Hill and the rise of therapy speak. Frontburner. https://www.cbc.ca/radio/frontburner/jonah-hill-and-the-rise-of-therapy-speak-transcript-1.6904309
Jul 30, 2023
20 min
Birthday Cards and Letting Go of an Old Friend
In this episode, Emma and Sara answer a question from a senior who is wondering whether it is time to let go of an old friendship that has become unbalanced and is leaving the listener feeling resentful. Your hosts discuss how different people show up in their friendships, greeting cards, and how access to transportation and technology can affect our friendships as we age. This is a two-part episode series on friendship; our next episode will discuss ways to respectfully let go of a friend. Please let us know what you thought of this episode, don't forget to share and subscribe, and please submit your questions for an upcoming episode here: https://forms.gle/sT3JhopgXnUQkKih9 References: Olga Khazan, 2023, "Stop firing your friends; just make more of them" The Atlantic. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/06/stop-breaking-up-with-friends/674540/
Jul 17, 2023
16 min
Primary Parenting and Saturday Struggles
In this episode, Emma and Sara answer a question from a listener who wonders why they now hate Saturdays as the primary parent to two children, aged 5 and 2, even though they are good at self-care and have a helpful spouse. In their response, your hosts dig into feminist philosophy and psychology theory, along with their experience as mothers to children that same age. You can submit your anonymous question here: https://forms.gle/ZTXy5rpd2S2MAgAM9 We'd love to answer it in a future episode! You can follow us on Instagram @deardualperspective and Twitter @deardualpersp. Please subscribe, leave us feedback in the Q&A below, and listen in to our next episode in two weeks. Thanks for listening. References: Veltman, A. 2004. "The Sisyphean torture of housework: Simone de Beauvoir and inequitable divisions of domestic work in marriage," Hypatia, 19(2). If Books Could Kill Podcast Rodsky, E. 2019. Fair Play: A game-changing solution when you have too much to do (and more life to live). New York: Random House. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
May 29, 2023
25 min
Speaking up, with guest Michelle Friesen
In this episode, Emma and Sara included a special guest, Michelle Friesen. Michelle is Yukon First Nations whose family is from the Ta’an Kwäch’än Council, the first Indigenous city councillor in Whitehorse in 30 years, a mother and a mountain biker and we were so pleased to have her on our show to answer a question about speaking up (even when it's scary!), power dynamics, and representation in leadership. Thank you, Michelle! Do you have a question you'd like us to answer in a future episode? You can submit it anonymously here: https://forms.gle/BGTPzwNVaeg7Zz8E9 You can follow us on Instagram @deardualperspective and Twitter @deardualpersp. Please subscribe to get our next episode in two weeks. Thanks for listening!
May 15, 2023
27 min
Hold the Phone
In this episode, Emma and Sara answer a question about the use of technology in adulthood, the role of our phones as a gateway to the Internet and how this affects relationships in a variety of spaces, and mis/disinformation in social media. Do you have a question you'd like us to answer in a future episode? You can submit it anonymously here: ⁠https://forms.gle/BGTPzwNVaeg7Zz8E9⁠ You can follow us on Instagram @deardualperspective and Twitter @deardualpersp. Please subscribe to get our next episode in two weeks. Thanks for listening!
May 3, 2023
16 min
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