Why do so many couples who believe in equality still end up falling into traditional gender roles? I’m joined by Stefanie O’Connell Rodriguez, author of The Ambition Penalty, to talk about what happens when money, ambition, power, and gender collide in dating and relationships.We get into why women’s success can create unexpected tension in heterosexual relationships, what happens when a woman earns more than her male partner, and why saying you want an equal relationship is very different from building one in practice. We also talk about dating when you’re financially successful, expanding what it means to “provide,” when to start talking about money, and how to think about a partner who isn’t where you want them to be financially.In this episode...Why modern couples still fall into traditional gender rolesWhat can happen when a woman earns more than her male partnerWhy believing in equality doesn’t automatically create an equal relationshipWhat real support for an ambitious partner looks like in practiceWhy “providing” in a relationship should mean much more than moneyWhen and how to start talking about salary, debt, savings, and finances while datingHow to date someone who is financially behind without dating their potentialWhy having a full life and strong community outside your relationship mattersMENTIONEDStefanie’s Substack, Too AmbitiousFair Play by Eve RodskyTHANKS TO OUR SPONSORS😎 Zenni: Get 15% off your first order and free shipping on orders over $65MORE FROM DATING INTENTIONALLYDate Tracker: Start your 7-day free trial! (iOS link)Take the quiz: What's holding you back in dating?Say hi on InstagramBook a See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.