Dad Still Standing
Dad Still Standing
Liam Preston & Matt Dearsley
🏆 Winner of the Best Parenting Podcast of the Year - British Podcast Awards. Two dads discussing baby loss, coping with life, and working their way through grief. In the aftermath of losing babies, Liam and Matt found there was no support specifically aimed at dads to help them process their grief, prepare for what was to come next, and help them to support their partners. So, they've teamed up to create this podcast for other dads (and families) which shows a bereaved father's perspective and provides the tools to help them on their journey with grief. If you would like to contact us you can do so via our social media pages (@dadstillstanding) or email [email protected].
Healing and Justice: Legal Action After Baby Loss
This episode focuses on medical negligence and legal action and the fraught conversations among families about whether to sue or not.  The dads - with absolutely zero expertise in this - are thankfully joined by Guy Forster from the Irwin Mitchell legal firm. Guy is a partner there and heads up their Medical Negligence team. The episode dispels some of the myths about legal action as well as covers the threshold for taking on or winning claims; what the process looks like; and the emotional impact of doing so on families. Interestingly we also explore not just the financial implications of taking legal action but the policy and practice changes it can lead to. Ultimately saving more babies' lives. Please remember to subscribe or follow the podcast so it lands in your inbox as soon as a new episode drops. If you could write a review or just rate the pod that would be awesome.  If you’d like to get in touch with the show please message us on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a podcast about baby loss and grief and is a Factory Originals production.
Dec 1, 2023
39 min
Spotlight on loss with James Green
The dads are joined by Sky Sports broadcaster, presenter, journalist, Gooner, and all-round top bloke James Green for this episode of the podcast.  On the show, James shares his own experiences of loss with Matt & Liam, and while you would hope that the dads managed to structure this important topic in some kind of sensible way - they just go off down various rabbit holes and somehow try to pull it all together at the end to make it sound profesh. The three of them talk about loss, mental health, being public with their grief, the impact of the podcast and having a voice on baby loss, and how men deal with emotions.  Please remember to subscribe or follow the podcast so it lands in your inbox as soon as a new episode drops. If you could write a review or just rate the pod that would be awesome.  If you’d like to get in touch with the show please message us on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a podcast about baby loss and grief and is a Factory Originals production.
Oct 28, 2023
44 min
Escaping the Rut
In this episode, the dads get real about the emotional ups and downs that come with losing a baby. And the sometimes never-ending rut that feels impossible to escape. They explain that grief isn't just about feeling sad; it's a mix of emotions that can make you feel physically tired or mentally stuck.  The dads then offer some practical advice for getting through the hardest days. They stress the importance of acknowledging how you're feeling instead of bottling it up, and share tips on finding professionals like counsellors who can help specifically with the loss of a baby.  They also touch on the benefits of exercise and mindfulness as ways to help your mental health - Matt even attempts it live, before Liam ruins it 🤣 Finally, they chat about finding a group of other dads or trusted friends to talk to, because speaking openly with people who understand can make a world of difference. But before all that, they can't help themselves discussing the British Podcast Award Win...so, strap yourselves in for that one...as it comes thick and fast! If you're a dad dealing with the painful loss of a baby, or you know someone who is, this episode is packed with helpful advice, support, and ways to take steps forward, even when it feels impossible. The dads would love you to follow the podcast or subscribe wherever you get it, and of course, leave a review.  If you’d like to get in touch with the show please message on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a podcast about baby loss and grief and is a Factory Originals production.
Oct 14, 2023
48 min
Impact on Careers
In this thought-provoking episode of 'Dad Still Standing,' the dads delve deep into a seldom-discussed aspect of grief—the profound impact on your career. From the immediate aftermath of loss to long-term job performance, they explore the challenges and adjustments grieving fathers and mothers face in the workplace. Whether you're struggling with colleague dynamics, contemplating career changes, or seeking a better work-life balance during this painful time, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice. Enlisting the support of their listeners, Matt and Liam are joined by five guests Ross, Emma, Indy, Vaish, and Arthur who give their insight into how bereavement affected their careers. So, whether you are listening for coping strategies; supportive resources; advice; other people's experiences; or just to hear Matt call Liam a "prick"...then fear not this episode has it all.  If you have a spare minute and want to help Liam & Matt, please could you leave a review for the podcast on here. It helps enormously to reach more families. If you’d like to get in touch with the show please message on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a podcast about baby loss and grief and is a Factory Originals production.
Sep 6, 2023
1 hr 3 min
Regrets
The dads are back with an episode requested by one of their listeners, all about regrets following baby loss. It's hard to go through what we all have without thinking back to decisions we made or things we wished we'd done differently.  For this episode, Liam & Matt try and recognise some of the classic regrets people will face and also delve a little into a few of their own. As ever, the podcast is here to be supportive and a toolkit following a loss. So, the dads have spent some time thinking about when those regrets do become all-encompassing -  how you can find your way out. Pretty early on in the episode 🤣 they also get a touch hyped up about being shortlisted for the #BritishPodcastAwards. In the Parenting Podcast of the Year category. Details about the awards can be found here. If you have a spare minute and want to help Liam & Matt, please could you leave a review for the podcast on here. It helps enormously to reach more families. If you’d like to get in touch with the show please message on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a podcast about baby loss and grief and is a Factory Originals production.
Jul 29, 2023
40 min
Social Media
It can be a force for good, it can bring you to your knees; and that’s just with a swipe of your finger. Browsing, posting, commenting or liking content on social media after loss can bring up the full range of emotions.  In this episode the dads discuss the pros and cons of social media. From it being a tool to build a community and find an empathetic ear; to the triggering and emotional onslaught of seeing baby related posts. They also share advice on how to handle those difficult emotional reactions to posts and discuss their own experiences with social media - the positive, the negative, the public, and the private.  Joining the dads this week are contributions from three listeners: Seth, Mike, and Brian. Thank you all so much for being a part of the show. Social media will impact your journey with grief in different ways at different stages. Just remember to take care of yourselves. If you have one spare minute and want to help the dads, please could you leave a review for the podcast on here. It helps enormously to reach more families. If you’d like to get in touch with the show please message on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a podcast about baby loss and grief and is Factory Originals production.
May 27, 2023
46 min
Multiple Losses
“Surely it won’t happen again?!” Sadly, however, the reality is that for many couples it will, and multiple losses will go on to dominate their journey with grief. In this week’s episode the dads discuss the devastating world that is losing more than one baby and how to cope in that moment, and navigate a relationship through what follows. Matt guests on his own podcast 🤣 (yeah we don’t know how that happened either) to discuss his losses and the reality of losing more than one child and how it can define you. If you have one spare minute and want to help the dads, please could you leave a review for the podcast on here. It helps enormously to reach more families. If you’d like to get in touch with the show please message on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a podcast about baby loss and grief and is Factory Originals production.
Mar 27, 2023
46 min
Pregnancy After Loss
They're back...Season Three...And what a way to kick it off. An episode Matt & Liam have been wanting to do for some time finally lands, and this week it is all about pregnancy after loss. Navigating this part of the baby loss journey is incredibly complex. Whether you're successful, suffer further losses, or for some not being able to conceive again - the pregnancy after loss world is emotional and fraught with danger. In the episode, the dads discuss how to approach the subject of trying again with your partner; how to actually try again (don't worry no tips); the emotions and anxieties of being pregnant; and the pain of additional losses. A big thank you to all those who got in touch to ask the dads to cover this episode, and as ever if you’d like to reach out to the show please message on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a Factory Originals production.
Feb 28, 2023
51 min
'Tis the End of Season Special
As we draw a close on 2022 and Season Two of the Dad Still Standing podcast, Matt & Liam reflect on what has been a crazy year for the pod. It wouldn't be an end-of-season show without inviting some special guests along for the sleigh ride (apologies in advance the show is littered with puns). So, the dads are joined by four previous guests who have appeared on the show this year. The dads hope you enjoy catching up with old friends as much as they did and hearing how their baby loss journeys have progressed in 2022. As ever take care this Holiday Season and look after yourselves. Wishing you a blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year. Liam & Matt Also, not forgetting, if you’d like to reach out to the show please message us on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a Factory Originals production.
Dec 20, 2022
56 min
Sharing is Caring: an episode for friends and family
For most of us, we can probably think of a friend or family member who could have done more to support us or was that little bit better after our loss. But due to a lack of knowledge or thoughtfulness or experience, they just weren't there when we needed them. Well, after a suggestion from one of our listeners...we've done something different with this episode.  We've designed and recorded it for you to pass on to that family member who isn't there for you, or that mate who you think could be doing more.  It isn't about shaming them or making them feel like shit, but about giving them an insight into what you're going through and the type of things they can do to help.  The episode for family and friends begins at 6 minutes but obviously, they can listen to the whole thing...we'll leave that up to you. So, have a listen, share the episode, and hopefully, get the response you need from those closest to you.  If you’d like to reach out to the show please message us on Instagram or Facebook and for our socials search @dadstillstanding. You can also email the show [email protected]. 'Dad Still Standing' is a Factory Originals production.
Dec 13, 2022
50 min
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