I experienced repeated trauma as a child. I’ve been through several intensives and lots of therapy seeking ways to heal. The connection codes has helped me come out of hiding and show the world I am here!

My fiancé and I found Connection Codes during our pre-marriage prep. It was my second marriage and his first. There was lots of pain and betrayal, both in past relationships and in our families of origin. Connection Codes helped us tap in to so much UN-processed emotion and clear the way for a fresh start with our marriage. We are coming up on our one year anniversary and I can’t say that it’s perfect, but I can say even when it’s bad we are still connected. This podcast helps it stay fresh in the day to day. 43 feet of JOY that we found Connection Codes, Glenn and Phyllis, and Tera. It has transformed our life and our relationship with each other and with everyone we come in contact with. ❤️

Life was always so black & white as I made decisions as a young adult. 14 years of marriage and 5 kids later… life feels very gray and messy! We took our foundations class in 2021 and have not stopped learning. Connection Codes has changed our marriage, how we parent, and how we live in community with our church family and in our daily lives. I can hear my 4 year old from the bathroom say “sad!” I ask “What’s happening for you?” And she replies with, “I dropped my toothbrush.” Then I say “Oooo. I understand that.” Processing these small daily thoughts can help all of us lead so much healthier and happier lives as we work to let the light of Jesus shine in our own hearts and in the world around us. Our children imitate EVERYTHING! I want to have an AMAZING marriage for myself, but I also want to model that for my children. I have done the classes, bought the book for family members, shared the podcasts. Invest in understanding yourself better so that you can be better in EVERY aspect of your life! You won’t regret it!

I’m found this podcast from a recommendation on Energy to Heal. These Connection Codes are incredible. I really am grateful for each episode’s transparency and rawness. I’m hoping for transformation in my home.

I had the pleasure of interviewing Tera on my podcast and was so impressed with how the Connection Codes have transformed her relationships with her husband, kids, and herself. I am excited to read Dr. Glenn and Phyllis’ book and use the core emotion wheel! This podcast provides helpful insights to improve your emotional and relational health in a simple, straightforward way Thank you for all the work that you do!

Amazing information- so empowering and useful in growing in self-awareness!! Really eye-opening.

I have been listening to Connection Codes for over a year, and I learn something new with each new episode! Just started my mom on the path of healthy connection and communication. Just amazing work! Thank you!

This tool is so powerful, such a life changer to live with this. It’s truly changed our lives to integrate the wheel into all of our life, home, adult relationships, my parenting, work relationships.

I cannot even express in words how thankful I am that I learned who Phyllis Hill is through the ONE Extraordinary Marriage podcast. I was listening to on of their webinar’s and Phyllis’ name, along with a few others, was mentioned so I looked her up on Instagram, which then lead me to the podcast. I listened to the “Stop Feeling That” episode and thought, “This is so good but what in the world are the Connection Codes??” The first time I heard Dr. Glen and Phyllis go through the Core Emotion Wheel I thought it was strange because I had never heard people share their emotions with others like that before. I grew up in a house where emotions were bad and angry little girls were disrespectful and didn’t get love. They were punished. So I have spent over 40 years stuffing my emotions and never communicating my needs. I’ve been told a thousand times that I wear my emotions on my sleeve and can’t hide what I’m feeling but I had no clue how to verbalize what was happening inside me. I only knew how to present my “case” in court and try to defend and justify myself and my choices. My mom always says that we live by what we know is true - not by how we feel. I would feel so frustrated every time I heard that phrase. So finding the Connection Codes and learning the language of safety and connection has been like finding a priceless, hidden treasure that I know is going to set me free from carrying the burden of all the trapped emotions inside my body. The TRUTH indeed does set us free. The way God coded us to connect through emotion is universal truth for all people everywhere. I am fascinated by the human experience, too, and want to learn so much more! Thank you, Dr. Glen and Phyllis & Tera and Wes, for sharing the truth of the Connection Codes and how God designed us to process and connect with each other. It’s changed everything for my husband and me and now I’m working on connecting with my 5 grown and almost grown kids. I feel like a 2 year old learning how to talk but I’m determined to become fluent in it!! I love this podcast and the book and the Foundations course (excited to go through Late Night soon!). I cannot wait to become a certified Connection Codes coach and join you in your global mission to take this truth to every human on the planet. I tell every single person I talk to about it. I can’t help it!

You might think this is a podcast for marriages - which it is, but it is much more than that! These tools should truly be used by everyone so that no child ever looses the practice of communicating authentically and co-processing emotions. Don’t just stop with the podcasts. Invest in your relationships with the book, foundations course, and late nights. Parenting as well ☺️

I would love to learn this information but the constant "audible responses" make it unbearable to listen to.

I heard (saw on social media) about the Connection Codes from Tera a 1-2 years ago. I was skeptical at the time and not in a great place. I was trying to find a therapist for myself. Marriage was stuck in a tornado and my PMDD and anxiety was ruling my life. Finally earlier this year I got the book on audible and listened to it within a few days and told my husband about it. We had agreed to go to couples therapy so I knew he was in a place where he might be open to it. We started with the wheel and watched those videos. Only doing it every few days or less. And we’ve slowly done it more and more. It’s really been a game changer along with some tips from our therapist. I even told our therapist about it 😂. Not sure she realized how much it’s really making a difference though. My individual therapist seemed genuinely interested in it though! And I’ve told a bunch of other people about the book and podcast. Really praying my husband and I keep moving in the right direction and breaking dams and being authentic. It’s not easy after 17 years of walls/dams.

Is there any way we could get a core motion wheel made for public and private school teachers? I would love to help get this out to teachers. I really enjoyed the episode about keeping connection with your kids, but I think our teachers needed it as well. And for those of us who wear both hats, this would be an excellent resource! Thank you so much for putting these episodes out. I look forward to listening to more.

Thank you so much for everything y’all are doing! My boyfriend and I started listening to your podcast on a roadtrip to visit his mom, and it led to some incredible conversations. We’ve been using the Core Emotion Wheel for about a month now, and I don’t think we’ll ever stop. It keeps us on the same page and keeps us feeling connected and grounded. It seems so simple, but sometimes the best ideas are, I guess!

To whom this may concern I first discovered the Connection Codes as a social work student several years ago. Since then, I have made the Connection Codes one of the primary foundations of my work- the reason for this is because it works!! The ideas are simple, and they resonate well with people. I primarily work with teens-at-risk, and they have no patience for therapy, but the Connection Codes really speaks to them. It is so beautiful to experience to watch them experience a change both withon themselves and within their relationships. I cannot recommend this podcast enough!

My husband and I purchased the Connection Codes Foundation Class last Valentine’s Day. Our marriage has never been better, and now we are buying and gifting courses for our loved ones because it has so drastically changed how we communicate with each other, our children, and others in our lives that we want to shout from the rooftops “THIS WORKS!” Thank you for these courses and the love/energy it takes to produce these podcast episodes. Know that there is a very grateful family in Greer, SC that is benefitting every second of every day from your efforts. ❤️

Over 20 years of marriage and we’re finally finding the tool that we’ve been needing as individuals and as a couple, thanks to you! Thank you and thank God!

For almost 14 years, my wife and I have struggled with connection and within two sessions of doing the core emotions wheel It feels like we are as connected as when we first started dating. We are looking forward to deeper connection than we have ever experienced before! We thank God for giving Glen and Phyllis great wisdom in putting the connection codes together to help us navigate true lasting connection in all our relationships! May God richly Bless your ministry to the literal world!

I cant recommend this podcast enough! Finding this (listening, reading the book, and using the tools from the course) is what my husband and I needed to really connect and grow in our relationship. It has also helped me grow in self awareness and improve connection and understanding in other relationships.

Please do yourself a favor and read the book and/or get the foundations course. It took me some time to figure out what to do with this information, but because it came with so many high recommendations with the description of being the best thing people had ever come across, I pressed in. It has completely changed my marriage for the better. We’ve given away at least a dozen books and shared the link with dozens of people. If you do this, you will have better relationships. No question

I love this show. Every time I listen I’m reminded how simple it can be to truly connect with others. I am constantly learning. I am always so impressed by the honesty of Tera, Glenn and Phyllis and it inspired me to be more honest and brave in my sharing too. Not only had the Connection Codes influenced our family unit but it influences how I interact with my family of origin, in-laws, friends and more. It has changed my life and simplified how I talk to my husband. I now have language to explain how I feel instead of swirling in my pool of confusing emotion and lashing out. I am always learning and this is an amazing way to continue to learn! Thank you and love you all! Also, in reference to your previous episode, Tera is wonderful and all her contributions are always insightful, honest and so real. Thank you for that.

The Connection Codes methodology is truly unique. It simplifies what many of us struggle with in our relationships—the healthy processing of emotions with ourself and others. Where other well-educated self-help relationship folks tend to add complexity to growing in your emotional maturity, Dr. Glenn and Phyllis make it an instantly applicable emotional rubric that you’ll find yourself adopting and using. The podcast reflects their personable, humble approach to helping others. They lived through the worst and they live the methodology that saved them from it. I find nearly every episode a joy to listen to. My only suggestion is that the host Tera would insert herself a little less into the conversation. Dr. Glenn and Phyllis are the stars of the show and I feel the amount and quality of Tera’s contribution takes away from what they have to share.

Connection Codes is literally the first thing that has actually worked. We did the marriage retreat and the Master class and felt hope in areas we never did before. The key is: actually doing the tools. If not it’s fizzles back to cycles. We are so grateful for you Glenn, Phylis and Tera✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

As an internalizer and overthinker working on myself, I am currently at a state of constantly overanalyzing my emotions. This has led me to worry about what my baseline should feel like. When I’m doing normal daily activities, what should I be feeling? Calm? Is not feeling anything okay?

Enjoy this new perspective and curious about the class…is it just for couples or can singles do it too?

I’m so thankful for the Connection Codes tools and for this podcast. I used to say that there were just some things I couldn’t tell my husband about what I was thinking or feeling because he would think I was crazy. I thought I had to just work through everything on my own or with a friend and then just give him the highlights if anything at all. Now that we both use the Connection Codes tools, I can be open and authentic with him and it has brought so much more connection and intimacy into our marriage. And has helped us work through our kids’ conflict as well. Absolute game changer for our family.

This podcast is truly changing my life and my outlook on who I am. I have always been a positive person that tries to find the good in everything. In listening, I have become aware that I just had learned not to go there with the less than positive emotions. I realized I have been denying them for years not realizing what I might be doing to myself out of fear of facing them. Dr. Glen, Phylis and Tera have all shown me that feeling and processing these emotions are absolutely necessary for my physical health and my mental health. Being scared of feeling was actually keeping me stuck. They taught me how to feel and then be free because of that. I have never been a podcast person and I cannot get enough of this show. I feel like they are friends riding in the car with me each day having a great conversation with me. So much growth is happening in me because of the connection codes. I feel so much joy because I’ve found this podcast!

Have have spent years investing in my emotional health. Countless books, podcasts and conferences. After experiencing some significant trauma, I felt like nothing was working to help process the pain of it all. So grateful for the Connection Codes tools that have helped me through the most painful season of my life! Now I feel powerful in pain and connected in chaos. Connection Codes has changed my life!

Today’s episode touched me so much! We were there with you on retreat in September. I’m enjoying the podcast so much. You are all such beautiful people. My life has been greatly touched by your courage and love for each other and for humanity. Thank you!!!

I am really enjoying the podcast and just recently bought the Connections Code course. My husband and I are doing it together and just two classes in, it’s been eye opening for both of us. Thank you for stepping out in faith to share your message.

Absolutely incredible! I’ve been through years of trauma therapy in varying modalities. Have gone through courses on boundaries, transparency, vulnerability, safe people, communication etc. So many of the Connection Codes concepts I’ve learned but have never heard them woven together in such a cohesive and effective manner. Everyone needs these. What a world we would love in if we taught our children and ourselves to connect with our emotions, drop our defenses and become safe people got loved ones to process emotions.

I would give this podcast more stars if I could. My husband and I have managed 2 decades of marriages and 3 kids, and this podcast and the Connection Codes book have done more for us in 6 months than years of attending seminars, and trying really hard to connect well, communicate well, and pass on healthy communication styles to our children. We were doing okay before, despite some huge, ongoing life challenges, like chronic illness and a kid with special needs. Glenn and Phyllis have given us tiny, practical steps to take daily, so that we can feel more connected to each other, know each other better (Yes, after 23 years!), and even work through some very painful things from our past together. We are constantly amazed at how positive we feel about our relationship, how hopeful. And we are so excited to give these tools to our kids for their future and to all of our friends. I am SO grateful for Glenn and Phyllis' work and vulnerability in putting this out into the world. Side note, buy their book too!!

These tools have changed my life and it is transforming my marriage. If you apply these tools I can promise it will for you too. Thank you connection codes team, I’m forever grateful.

Within only a few episodes, it’s like a light bulb turned on. For the past few years, my wife and I have struggled to get on the same page with one another. I have always felt like the pain just moves from one thing to the next therefore we were having a new and separate argument once we “I had addressed” the previous one. Test my wife has always said, “we keep having the argument over and over.” As soon as we started listening to the connection codes, I realized what she meant. I simply wasn’t acknowledging the emotions she was experiencing therefore not understanding or allowing her to feel what was happening to her. This has instantly impacted the way we communicate. It’s not easy in the beginning because changing the way we have been programmed by society is not easy. But it is so nice to feel safe and have space to feel our true emotions making us fall in love with each other more every day!

So pumped about this show! As someone who has been around church circles a long time, it’s sooo helpful to have practical tools and a humble example of what real marriage and relationships look like. Thank you Glen and Phyllis!

This is by far the best podcast I’ve ever heard not just about connection but how to navigate and process your emotions. Phillis and glen give powerful tools to help us identify and process our emotions so we can connect deeper specifically with our spouse and humans in general. Do your self a favor, Buy the book, do the master class and Listen to every episode!

This. Wow. I wept through the first episode I listened to as they were a guest on another podcast and I sought out their content. I shared with friends because this has been so deeply encouraging for me! I do not want to be a great business partner as a wife I want more and this is a path to “the more”! My husband and I are so excited to take the next class- we love this content!

I was made aware of the Connection Codes through Cole and Caitlin Zick (Moral Revolution) and was very intrigued by the concepts they introduced to me. I read through the book but was still struggling to grasp how to incorporate it all into my life, as I need lots of information and examples to help me. This podcast has done it! I have a deeper understanding that has absolutely transformed my way of connecting with my husband and children. I also have seen my compassion for myself increase as I receive revelation related to how I am wired because of my upbringing and life traumas. Thank you so much Dr. Glenn and Phyllis! You have been a huge influence in helping change my life, my husband’s life and the lives of my children.

Connection Codes have mended a broken marriage and brought love and peace back. We had never connected before on this level, and the Codes are THE answer to what we needed all along.

You are bringing hope to anyone who thought there is no way we can get better!

I have absolutely loved listening to the podcast and every week wait with such anticipation for the next one to come out. I have found the information that Glen and Phylis teach on is so life-changing and I am putting more of it into practice weekly. It is one of the few marriage podcasts out there that gives simple tools that work and release hope for every couple and every relationship! The world is hungry for what you are sharing Glen and Phylis! Please don’t stop.

My husband and I are patiently awaiting the release of the course- but already we have learned so much from the podcast and just started the book. We have done so much to work on our marriage- but knew we were still missing something…. Now we know! We have spent 20 years squashing emotions in each other, in our kids, and we actually feel like this is the tool that is going to change everything!

Thank you for describing this research and the impact it can have on our relationships and well being in such a relatable way.

I started to learn about Dr. Glenn and Phylis and Connection codes this year, our marriage is Next Level, and we are seeing massive change at our church with our leadership, the information is simple, practical, and so powerful! We’ve learned so much and we too are making the shift and change in our generation… it truly is a New Way of Life. We are so glad they started a podcast

This information is so simple and practical but has changed every relationship in my life for the better. I am so incredibly thankful for the Connection Codes. My marriage is better than ever and my parenting has been so blessed. Listen to this podcast and read the Connection Codes book! Every human needs this ❤️

I am so excited for this movement! I love listening to what Phyllis and Glen share. It ignites a spark inside my spirit for more of this! More connections, more passion for these authentic codes! 💜

The information shared was very eye opening. There are so many points that I felt were very relative to myself. The podcast keeps you engaged with easy conversation and my first thought was no this isn’t something I want to think about or deal with but continuing through the episodes I realize how helpful the information is.

Dr. Glenn and Phyllis have changed out marriage! We’re so glad to know them and no other counsel comes close to the depth they provide.

So glad for this content to go live on a podcast to help couples transform their communication and felt experience in relationship. Authentic and helpful!!

Love the authenticity and perspective! Great listen!