<p>I struggle when I think advocating for myself might hurt someone else’s feelings, but after years of avoiding conflict and being gaslighted, it’s time for a little of this…</p>

April Fools - I’ve Been Focused on the Wrong Darn Thing

As a mother of four and a self-proclaimed micromanaging - perfectionist - martyr, I constantly need to be reminded that control leaves me lonely, perfection can&nbsp;paralyze me, and caring for others over myself leads to resentment. Join me as I try to navigate being a structure-luvin' gal, in an absolutely chaotic household.