We tend to look at judging others as a bad thing. But if that's true, why do so many people still do it? Is it possible that when we think we are doing the right thing for people we are actually judging and condemning them? What if what we think is "loving others" is actually doing more harm than good? Jesus spoke about this in one of the most complicated verses in the gospels, and showed us how to truly be helpful to the people in our lives.