Women receive a lot of aggression and hate, particularly on social media, particularly if they post about how well they're doing on social media. In this episode we dig into some audience feedback on the word "incel" and some personal incel comments Steffanie received on TikTok and what we make of needing to raise better men.

BONUS EPISODE: We deep dive into Boca Negra Club here in Los Angeles and give our full review (keeping everyone's anonymity) of our first swingers club experience along with answering some audience questions.

In this episode Eric and I delve into society's view of monogamy and how we, as a long-term couple, feel about it. We challenge religion and Western culture's view and as a bonus we discuss what led us to going to our first sex clubm...review will be in the follow up episode.

In the premiere episode of the Coffee and Kinks podcast, hosts Steffanie Moyers and Eric Formhals introduce themselves, their backgrounds, and upbringing around sexuality in Western culture. They dive into how we're programmed to feel guilt and shame around sex at an early age, and what it does to us as adults.s