Advantage Net Strength
Advantage Net Strength
Leanne Watson-Charles
Episode 282 - Self-Compassion vs Letting Yourself Off the Hook
7 minutes Posted Apr 22, 2026 at 11:08 am.
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How do you know if you’re being kind to yourself… or just letting yourself off the hook?

This is something that came up with one of my clients recently, and honestly, it’s something so many women struggle with, especially when life is busy, energy is low and motivation isn’t exactly flying.

In this episode, I talk about the difference between real self-compassion and the kind that actually keeps you stuck.

Because they can sound the same:
“I’m tired.”
“I’ll do it tomorrow.”
“I need a rest.”

But they don’t lead to the same outcome.

I break down:

  • Why self-compassion isn’t about choosing the easiest option
  • How to start making decisions that actually support “future you”
  • The question that will help you cut through the noise in the moment
  • How to avoid the all-or-nothing trap and build real consistency

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck between being too hard on yourself and too easy on yourself, this episode will help you find that middle ground.

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