Check Your DM
Check Your DM
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Listen to Helen (@FlavaFlavswife) and Tony (@afadjato) dissect real stories of how young African celebrities navigate the complexities of Life, Career, Dating, Sex and Internet Culture in this social age.
Funny Men, Wicked Women & Disastrous Public Sex with Joey B
With equal humor, honesty, and what-the-fuck-moments,  artist Joey B joins Helen and Tony in a no-holds-barred convo on  music, heartbreak, being shy, and learning to handle fame in the final episode of the season. This episode’s story was submitted by...
Mar 6, 2021
1 hr 2 min
Long Distance Relationships, Beauty Queens & Bromance with E.L
Helen and Tony are back with equal dozes of humour and honesty. In this episode, singer, rapper, songwriter and producer E.L gets his girlfriend on the line as a special guest. He chats with Helen and Tony about finding love online, being stranded...
Jan 12, 2021
1 hr 4 min
Millennial Dad, Navigating Safe Sex and Malaria Pussy with KiDi
2020 has been difficult, and KiDi as an artiste is helping us get through with good music, great videos and fire pictures and remaining sexy through it all. Helen and Tony chat with KiDi about being a millennial dad, navigating safe sex, seeing with the...
Dec 3, 2020
1 hr 11 min
Heartbreaks, BDSM & Being a Better Ally with Ko-jo Cue
We all love the music, but that’s not why we’re here. Ghanaian rapper Ko-jo Cue chats with Helen and Tony about finding love on BBM, heartbreaks, BDSM, being a better ally, and how societal standards can’t just be dismantled with a thread, or two. Don’t...
Nov 13, 2020
59 min
God, Ethics of Dick Pics & Azonto with Gasmilla
One moment he's making a covenant with God, and getting the right angles for dick pics the next. In between, Gasmilla gave us some of the songs that defined a cultural moment in the Ghana music industry.  King of Azonto joins Helen and Tony in an open...
Oct 31, 2020
57 min
Bomb Dicks, Shitty Jobs & Heavenly Kisses with Maayaa
It's always judgment free in the studio with Helen and Tony. In this episode,  our hosts chat with singer and songwriter  Maayaa about dealing with sexual tensions, snapchat, and why we need a lot more cool sex ads. MUSIC:Perfect – Maayaa Love &...
Oct 16, 2020
47 min
Feminism, Bad Sex & Walk of Shame with Worlasi
Worlasi's idea of a perfect date is exactly what we imagined. In this hilarious no-holds-barred convo, Helen, Tony and Worlasi talk about dates, sex with feminists, and the walk of shame. MUSICPreek - Worlasi Mawuena - WorlasiWe All Go Die -...
Oct 9, 2020
45 min
Sex Work, Trap House & Astrology Babes with Ria Boss
Recounting her experiences with online dating, soulful singer  Ria Boss shares her adventures in a trap house, to getting robbed and blocked. Also, find out why sex work is important. MUSICLow - Ria Boss Powers - Ria Boss Masem Bi - Joe Beecham Connect...
Oct 2, 2020
41 min
Deflowering, Love and Coffee Drinking at AI’s Red Table.
With equal doses of humour and honesty, Helen and Tony chat with AI on sliding into the DMs, finding love the old school way, star signs, and Helen doesn’t even drink coffee. You’ll love Tony’s tinder bio. AI could be a sick therapist.
Sep 18, 2020
56 min
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Check Your DM brings real stories of how people are navigating the complexities of online dating and sex culture in this social age.
Sep 11, 2020
1 min