How many of your past relationships you believed to be the one?
 
What does it mean to find the "one" or even the right one?
 
Does the right one equate, to the one who's going to put up with all your baggage and BS?
 
Or, is the right one, the one who reflects back to you your life lessons?

Are men more competent today?

Relationships are hard enough within themselves. As I start some of the most difficult of conversations. Being aware of where you are in your life's process. It is important to answer honestly with yourself, when these questions are asked. In order to heal from past trauma. One must acknowledge who and what they have become. "It starts within you!"