This week, David sits down with journalist, author, and host Jarrett Hill for a funny and unexpectedly intimate conversation about religion, sexuality, pleasure, and the freedom of refusing to fit inside other people’s boxes.Jarrett discusses how studying religion helped him realize that he no longer needed Christianity to maintain a relationship with God.

He opens up about dismantling purity culture, developing a new sexual ethic rooted in consent and mutual pleasure, and learning to live without separating his professional identity from his sexual self.

The conversation also explores enthusiastic consent, intentional self-pleasure, and why being a 6'3" Black man who enjoys bottoming challenges the assumptions people attach to race, masculinity, body type, and sexual position.

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