Butch Queen After Dark
Butch Queen After Dark
David Brandyn
Butch Queen After Dark is a sex-positive podcast hosted by David Brandyn, featuring bold, unfiltered conversations with queer people of color about sex, dating, pleasure, identity, and real life. From hookup culture and kink to sex education and intimacy, this is after-hours talk with humor, heart, and no judgment.
Famous & Freaky with Kid Fury!
This week, David sits down with his number one inspiration, comedian, writer, podcaster, and internet icon Kid Fury! They chat about sex, liberation, growing up Black and gay, bottoming, bathhouses, porn, kink, dating, and why having a public career shouldn’t mean giving up your sexuality.Kid Fury takes us back to one of his earliest sexual awakenings, explains how he eventually realized the world was right about his ass, and talks about learning to embrace his sexuality while building a career in entertainment.This episode is sponsored by my friends over at Frolic Beach Club, taking over Fort Lauderdale May 27–30, 2027 for a four-day getaway created for and centered on queer and trans people of color.From the creators of Frolic Weekend, expect high-energy pool parties, round-the-clock parties, community programming, and community-building events designed around one thing: pure, unapologetic queer joy.🎟️ 4-Day Passes start at $199💳 Payment plans are available🏨 The official host hotel is the Courtyard by Marriott Fort Lauderdale Downtown, where Frolic will also host its rooftop pool party.There’s also a Premium Pass that gives you access to both Frolic Beach Club in Florida and Frolic Weekend in Provincetown.Get your tickets, book your room, and learn more at frolicbeach.club.Follow https://www.instagram.com/frolicbeachclub/ for lineup announcements, hotel updates, and everything coming for Memorial Day Weekend 2027.Follow David instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Kid Fury instagram.com/kidfury
Aug 15
56 min
Big Meat, Good Suits, and Fem Dominance with Jeremy Scott!
On this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, Jeremy Scott talks fashion, confidence and clapbacks — and somehow we ended up in church basements, physics study sessions, DL hookups, dick prints and the art of being properly dominated.It’s funny, filthy, unexpectedly vulnerable and a conversation about what happens when you stop trying to squeeze sexuality, gender expression and pleasure into neat little boxes.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Jeremy instagram.com/princesssjeremy
Aug 12
50 min
Pretty, Spiritual, and Vers with Zaya!
In this episode of BQAD, Zaya joins David for a sexy, spiritual and unexpectedly hilarious conversation about becoming a New York City go-go dancer, exploring ballroom and possibly entering his Butch Queen Sex Siren era.Zaya opens up about identifying as sexually fluid, balancing masculine and feminine energy, and what makes him want to dominate—or surrender to—another man. He shares his experiences with public sex, piss play, foot worship, flipping and exploring pleasure beyond the usual body parts.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Zaya instagram.com/inspiredzaya
Aug 8
35 min
It's Bottom Season with The Messy Thoughts Podcast!
On this episode of BQAD, BJ and LeBron from the Messy Thoughts podcast join David for a hilarious, honest and very freaky conversation about bathhouses, cruising, sexual fantasies, communication and consent.We talk about how their friendship and podcast began, their most memorable sexual adventures and what first-timers should know before stepping inside a gay bathhouse. From getting a room and bringing shower shoes to handling rejection and not spending the entire night waiting for “Prince Charming,” we share the lessons we have learned from navigating these spaces.We also discuss the complicated boundaries around touching and consent in sexual environments, why verbal communication still matters and how to confidently say—or receive—a respectful no.Follow David instagram.com/davibrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Messy Thoughts instagram.com/messythoughtspod/
Aug 5
1 hr 9 min
Creaming and the Power of Submission with Gemini!
On this episode, one of our most requested guests, Gemini, joins David for an intimate conversation about sexuality, submission, confidence, group sex, body image, porn representation, and living without asking anyone’s permission.Known online for his incredible physique—and especially his butt—Gemini opens up about the personality, experiences, and perspective people rarely get to see on social media.Follow David instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Gemini instagram.com/gemini_aesthetics/
Aug 1
44 min
Sex, Religion, and Bating Rituals with jarrett hill!
This week, David sits down with journalist, author, and host Jarrett Hill for a funny and unexpectedly intimate conversation about religion, sexuality, pleasure, and the freedom of refusing to fit inside other people’s boxes.Jarrett discusses how studying religion helped him realize that he no longer needed Christianity to maintain a relationship with God. He opens up about dismantling purity culture, developing a new sexual ethic rooted in consent and mutual pleasure, and learning to live without separating his professional identity from his sexual self.The conversation also explores enthusiastic consent, intentional self-pleasure, and why being a 6'3" Black man who enjoys bottoming challenges the assumptions people attach to race, masculinity, body type, and sexual position. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Jarrett Hill instagram.com/jarretthill
Jul 29
56 min
Autism, Unmasking, and Primal Sex with Savant thee Prodigy!
What happens when you finally feel safe enough to drop the mask—even in the bedroom?In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with late-diagnosed autistic creator and neurodiversity advocate Savant the Prodigy for an open, funny, sexy, and deeply vulnerable conversation about autism, intimacy, sensory needs, consent, relationships, and learning how to experience pleasure fully unmasked.Savant shares how his autism diagnosis transformed his understanding of sex, communication, rejection sensitivity, jealousy, spontaneous intimacy, and the accommodations that help him feel comfortable and connected. We also get into bathhouse adventures, primal sex, navigating nonverbal moments, spiritual energy, cruising, body confidence, finding safety with a partner—and the very specific fantasy he plans to try next.This conversation is a reminder that great sex is not about following a script. It is about communication, curiosity, accommodations, consent, and feeling safe enough to show up as your complete self.Follow David: instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark: instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Savant : instagram.com/savanttheeprodigy
Jul 25
49 min
Sniffing Pits, Used Underwear, and Bears with Coco Montrese!
Drag Race legend, Miss Gay America 2010 and certified lip sync assassin Coco Montrese joins David Brandyn for one of the wildest and most honest conversations yet on Butch Queen After Dark.Coco opens up about the person behind the makeup, including the difference between Coco and Martin, navigating masculinity outside of drag and refusing to let audiences limit her to a single character.Fresh from São Paulo Pride and DragCon Brazil, Coco takes us inside a massive all-night sex party filled with thousands of men, swings and endless possibilities. She also reveals her love of bear parties, older men, armpits, scents and collecting used underwear from dancers.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Coco Montrese instagram.com/theonlycocomontrese
Jul 22
57 min
Fem Tops, Gooning, and Toys with Mxter Xero!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Mxter Xero for a conversation about kink, pleasure, power, and what it means to play with intention.Mxter Xero opens up about their sexual awakening during the pandemic, exploring toys, body capacity, and becoming what they call “the Divine Baddie.” Together, they get into puppy play, handlers, free use, exhibitionism, worship, hypnosis, and the difference between simply being dominant and being someone’s Dominant.Follow David instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Mxter Xero instagram.com/mxter_xero
Jul 18
54 min
Bottoming and Bulking with Alex, Q, and Darrien!
In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David is joined by three personal trainers — Alex, Darrien, and Q — for a hilarious, honest, and very unfiltered conversation about fitness, sex, body confidence, and what really happens when gym culture meets queer hookup culture.The group gets into gym sex, client boundaries, bottom nutrition, fiber, bulking while bottoming, pre-workout before sex, and what tops should eat if they need endurance. It’s sex education, fitness advice, and Black queer comedy all in one sweaty conversation.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Alex instagram.com/newdayfitnessbyalexFollow Q instagram.com/quise_tymeFollow Darrien instagram.com/drivenbydarrien
Jul 15
40 min
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