
What happens when you finally feel safe enough to drop the mask—even in the bedroom?In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David Brandyn sits down with late-diagnosed autistic creator and neurodiversity advocate Savant the Prodigy for an open, funny, sexy, and deeply vulnerable conversation about autism, intimacy, sensory needs, consent, relationships, and learning how to experience pleasure fully unmasked.Savant shares how his autism diagnosis transformed his understanding of sex, communication, rejection sensitivity, jealousy, spontaneous intimacy, and the accommodations that help him feel comfortable and connected. We also get into bathhouse adventures, primal sex, navigating nonverbal moments, spiritual energy, cruising, body confidence, finding safety with a partner—and the very specific fantasy he plans to try next.This conversation is a reminder that great sex is not about following a script. It is about communication, curiosity, accommodations, consent, and feeling safe enough to show up as your complete self.Follow David: instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark: instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Savant : instagram.com/savanttheeprodigy
Jul 25
49 min

Drag Race legend, Miss Gay America 2010 and certified lip sync assassin Coco Montrese joins David Brandyn for one of the wildest and most honest conversations yet on Butch Queen After Dark.Coco opens up about the person behind the makeup, including the difference between Coco and Martin, navigating masculinity outside of drag and refusing to let audiences limit her to a single character.Fresh from São Paulo Pride and DragCon Brazil, Coco takes us inside a massive all-night sex party filled with thousands of men, swings and endless possibilities. She also reveals her love of bear parties, older men, armpits, scents and collecting used underwear from dancers.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Coco Montrese instagram.com/theonlycocomontrese
Jul 22
57 min

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Mxter Xero for a conversation about kink, pleasure, power, and what it means to play with intention.Mxter Xero opens up about their sexual awakening during the pandemic, exploring toys, body capacity, and becoming what they call “the Divine Baddie.” Together, they get into puppy play, handlers, free use, exhibitionism, worship, hypnosis, and the difference between simply being dominant and being someone’s Dominant.Follow David instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Mxter Xero instagram.com/mxter_xero
Jul 18
54 min

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David is joined by three personal trainers — Alex, Darrien, and Q — for a hilarious, honest, and very unfiltered conversation about fitness, sex, body confidence, and what really happens when gym culture meets queer hookup culture.The group gets into gym sex, client boundaries, bottom nutrition, fiber, bulking while bottoming, pre-workout before sex, and what tops should eat if they need endurance. It’s sex education, fitness advice, and Black queer comedy all in one sweaty conversation.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Alex instagram.com/newdayfitnessbyalexFollow Q instagram.com/quise_tymeFollow Darrien instagram.com/drivenbydarrien
Jul 15
40 min

This week on Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Sir Chris and Boy Vixxen to talk about leather, power exchange, sir/boy dynamics, and Black queer kink.They get into the difference between a relationship and a dynamic, what it means to negotiate power, how trust is built in kink, and why Black men deserve to see themselves in leather spaces. The conversation also explores ballroom culture, impact play, bondage, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, shame, confidence, and asking for what you want.It’s funny, freaky, educational, and affirming — because kink belongs to us too.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Sir Chris instagram.com/BXM2099Follow Boy Vixxen instagram.com/lbv_html
Jul 11
51 min

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with New York City–based adult entertainer Boe Jack Ryan about his journey to becoming vers, kink, porn, body confidence, and the politics of being a Black gay adult creator.Boe Jack shares the story of his first double penetration scene, what it taught him about pleasure and pressure, and why knowing your body — and your dick’s strengths — matters.From content trips and collab strategy to avoiding the “hangry bottom,” this episode is equal parts freaky, funny, and insightful.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Boe Jack Ryan instagram.com/itsboejack
Jul 8
39 min

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Milan Garçon: femme queen, host, storyteller, performer, and certified scene-stealer. Milan brings beauty, humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sexual freedom to a conversation about pleasure, ballroom, butch queens, kink, confidence, and the power of living without shame.David and Milan also get into the complicated, exciting, and sometimes confusing attraction between femme queens and butch queens, how sexuality keeps expanding even when we think we have ourselves figured out, and why queer people do not have to chase heteronormative dreams of family, love, marriage, and success. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Milan instagram.com/milangarcon
Jul 4
48 min

In this episode of Butch Queen After Dark, David sits down with Caleb Channing: bodybuilder, crochet artist, and the man behind the viral dancing video that had the internet in a chokehold.What started as a 10-second clip of Caleb dancing, twerking, and enjoying himself at Pride quickly turned into think pieces, body critiques, race debates, desirability politics, and people projecting their own insecurities onto one man simply having fun.David and Caleb unpack the viral moment, the difference between jealousy and envy, why people struggle to witness joy they don’t feel entitled to, and how Blackness, colorism, masculinity, body image, and desirability all got dragged into a conversation that should have simply been about someone dancing at the club.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Caleb instagram.com/caleb_channing
Jul 1
46 min

In this episode, David sits down with Muscle Ram to talk about gaining, go-go dancing, fat body politics, inflation, and finding confidence in a body that doesn’t always fit the “expected” fantasy.The conversation becomes a reminder that at some point, you have to decide your body is yours, it is enough, and it deserves to be celebrated exactly where it is. Ram also opens up about realizing he was demisexual after reconnecting sexually with an ex and noticing that without love or emotional connection, his body didn’t respond the same way. Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Muscle Ram instagram.com/muscleramm
Jun 27
32 min

In this episode, David sits down with Sir Malice Christian, a Marine Corps veteran turned BDSM Leather Dom, to unpack the world of domination, discipline, kink, objectification, bondage, and sexual exploration. Malice shares how his military background shaped his approach to discipline, why “Sir” felt like the right title, and how kink can be both erotic and deeply spiritual.The conversation gets into water sports, fisting, impact play, flogging, consent, safe words, consensual non-consent, aftercare, and how objectification works when it is consensual, intentional, and rooted in fantasy. They also talk about Black men exploring kink beyond shame, knowing queer sexual history, and why sexual health requires honest conversations with doctors who understand your lifestyle.Follow David Brandyn instagram.com/davidbrandynFollow Butch Queen After Dark instagram.com/butchqueenFollow Sir Malice Christian instagram.com/fvcknsirmal
Jun 20
43 min
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