In this episode, David sits down with Sir Malice Christian, a Marine Corps veteran turned BDSM Leather Dom, to unpack the world of domination, discipline, kink, objectification, bondage, and sexual exploration. Malice shares how his military background shaped his approach to discipline, why “Sir” felt like the right title, and how kink can be both erotic and deeply spiritual.

The conversation gets into water sports, fisting, impact play, flogging, consent, safe words, consensual non-consent, aftercare, and how objectification works when it is consensual, intentional, and rooted in fantasy. They also talk about Black men exploring kink beyond shame, knowing queer sexual history, and why sexual health requires honest conversations with doctors who understand your lifestyle.

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