Break the Cycle with DSD
Break the Cycle with DSD
Duane Robert
The podcast focusing on recovering from toxic narcissistic relationships with specific help to break the cycle of abuse for yourself and children. All are welcome and this podcast, and YouTube channel, serve both men and women, moms and dads. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
213. Why are dad’s rejected? How to cope with the pain!
Father’s always seem to be rejected by children, we discuss the reasons and how to cope. Show Notes A common problem people experience in high conflict narcissistic divorces and custody is being rejected by your children. This is a very painful thing to experience and it is very hurtful when you feel your own children “rejecting” you. In this episode Duane discusses the reason this occurs and ways to help you cope with the frustration and disappointment when your children are used as weapons. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
May 16, 2024
24 min
212. Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse
Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse Show Notes DSD discusses the reality of it taking time to learn how futile it can be struggling to make a different in your life with a narcissistic ex. Duane shares how he continues to see people struggling with this concept. You get stuck in the mode EXPECTING justice and accountability. He shares how he hates to see people only learn this lesson after losing in court and then questioning why they even fought for it. Ultimately you have to take things slow and give yourself time to accept and see the reality of your situation. In the end focusing on your children and the relationship you have, and are building with them, is the key! Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  00:00:00 - Start 00:01:49 - New Topic 00:01:58 - New Topic 00:18:46 - New Topic 00:25:18 - New Topic 00:31:19 - New Topic 00:36:13 - New Topic 00:46:15 - New Topic 00:50:19 - NEW CALLER 01:02:07 - CALLER END 01:03:39 - NEW CALLER 01:10:48 - NEW CALLER 01:12:16 - New Topic 01:19:05 - New Topic 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Mar 14, 2024
1 hr 45 min
211. Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important!
Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important! Show Notes In this episode Duane talks about the importance of having a hobby or something that you enjoy doing. He also talks about the struggles when you are down, depressed, and beaten with ways to push yourself to break yourself out of that downward spiral. He then fields questions from others on silver bullets, narcissists seeking control, being forced to spend time with the ex, and finally an update on his current medical situation. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  00:00 Start 02:55 - Welcome to the livestream 06:04 - Finding some positive to do hobbies 17:19 - Advice on handling message about school 21:20 - Narc fishing for control 29:57 - Supervised visits and lashing out 36:14 - Having to spend time with the ex 37:16 - When drop offs are late 39:54 - Silver bullet - supervised visits  47:02 - Don't respond immediately 52:49 - Worry about kids and narcissism 59:41 - Paranoia and narcissists 01:01:27 - Graduations with ex 01:08:03 - Realizing you have narc friends 01:12:03 - Getting to the other side! 01:13:03 - Our child as abusers? 01:21:48 - Ex should be normal around kids 01:25:31 - Narc mom blaming you? 01:31:32 - Medical update on me 01:35:21 - End of show wrap-up 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Feb 14, 2024
1 hr 36 min
210. You MUST deal with the pain!
Dealing with the pain is the only way to get through this Show Notes In this episode DSD starts with a clip from Brad Pitt talking about his experience of running from the pain and ultimately how he worked through it to take his like back! Duane has a discussion with the audience about their experiences and ways to approach things Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  00:00 Start 03:24 New Topic 11:46 New Topic 28:56 New Topic 38:06 New Topic 43:07 New Topic 01:04:26 New Topic 01:10:17 New Topic 01:14:23 New Topic 01:16:18 New Topic 01:22:34 New Topic 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Feb 10, 2024
1 hr 32 min
209. Letting go and update on civil case
A deep dive discussion on the struggles of letting go with an update and review of the redacted Order Sustaining Demurrer on my civil case. Show Notes In this episode DSD talks about the struggles and importances of learning to “let go”. We discuss how difficult it is to actually do, being forced to learn the “lesson”, recognizing when you’re being pulled back in, and notice when you are stuck in the rumination cycle. Duane then shares how things really start to change ONCE you accept the situation and allowing yourself to “move on”. He also shares that unfortunately this process takes a LONG time and for some even years. DSD shares that it took him about 2 to 3 years for it to really sink in. Duane then provides an update with a reading on the final Order Sustaining Demurrer that was finally sent and signed by the court. This leads into a discussion on various aspects of court. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  00:00 Start 03:17 - The Struggles of Letting Go 27:20 - Review of comments 50:05 - Order Supporting Demurrer 2:01:25 - End of show wrap-up 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Feb 7, 2024
2 hr 2 min
208. Getting Past Your Past
A discussion on how difficult it is to let of the past Show Notes The Healing Path: Navigate the path to healing with practical tips and strategies. Discover effective coping mechanisms and self-care practices to nurture your mental and emotional well-being. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Jan 28, 2024
1 hr 33 min
207. Alex on the news again & dealing with the stress of family court
Alex on the news again & dealing with the stress of family court Show Notes Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Jan 9, 2024
1 hr
206. Anxiety is a slow killer in narcissistic abuse
Anxiety is a slow killer in narcissistic abuse Show Notes In this podcast DSD talks about the effectives of the constant anxiety and stress these situation put you under. He covers different techniques he has used to help him and other in dealing with this reality. Later in the podcast he takes a caller working through severe parental alienation and we discuss techniques on dealing with his minor and adult children. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Jan 8, 2024
57 min
205. Showing up is more important than you realize!
Showing up is more important than you realize! Show Notes Although these situations are very complicated, stressful, and more frustrating then they really should be it is important to show up and be there for your children. In this podcast we discuss some examples of this with callers sharing their stories. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Jan 5, 2024
57 min
204. Handling when older kids are alienated
Handling when older kids are alienated Show Notes In this podcast DSD continues yesterday’s topic discussing the ways to deal with older children who are in the throws of parental alienation. He also takes the same caller to deep dive in his situation and talk through scenarios and ways to help his children Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing  You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents  🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel  DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads  The M.E.A.N Workbook  Channel Memberships --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
Jan 4, 2024
1 hr
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