Break Rules | Make BANK
Break Rules | Make BANK
Carly Raemer
The House of Valkyries; the global movement of soul-missioned trailblazing for wild women. Energetics, embodiment, emotional mastery and practical magics for mythic living, intuitive business with world-wide covens.
16. Shadow Work Isn't Enough for 10K Months (And What Actually Is)
In this episode of Break Rules, Make Bank, I'm diving into why all your shadow work isn't translating to consistent 10K months (even though you're a pro at it).After years in the trenches with my own money shadows and certification in existential kink, I discovered that understanding your money blocks isn't enough to regulate your income. You can embody the next version of yourself all day and still be riding that revenue rollercoaster.The missing piece? It's not another activation or quantum leap.I share the unexpected convergence of shadow work and soul-led strategy that transformed my feast-or-famine business into consistent five-figure months, and the exact system I use with clients who are done with emergency flash sales when bills come due.I break down the Compass Method that maps the five cardinal points you need to master if you want your dream clients sliding into your DMs ready to pay your premium prices.Plus, I issue a micro-challenge that will help you turn your shadow work into actual income right now.If you're a visionary who loves energetics but is tired of inconsistent cash flow, this episode is your permission slip to embrace strategy without strangling your feminine creativity.Listen to discover why the biggest quantum leap available isn't another round of shadow integration – it's action backed by soul-based strategy.And when you're ready to make those 10k months a reality...I have 2 seats left in The Firestarter:JOIN THE FIRESTARTERQuestions? Hit my DMs.
Feb 28, 2025
17 min
15. Break the ceiling on your rules = break the ceiling on your BANK
Why your soul mission HAS to evolve and why playing by your own made-up rules is keeping you yoyo-ing in income. Fresh off the evolution from House of Valkyries (more on that juicy pivot in ep 2), I'm lit up about why being soul-missioned means getting dirty, breaking rules, and making bank while we do it.Your soul mission isn't some perfect, fixed destination. It's messy, it's always refining, and it requires you to break every single rule in the shape of pattern, conditioning and narratives. Those internalized "shoulds" from your parents, society, and that 4th grade teacher? They're blocking your next-level evolution AND your bank account.I've been breaking rules my whole damn life (art school rebel here 🎨), and here's what I know: Learn the foundations fast, then burn the rulebook. But the real magic happens when you break your own rules. Because when you're fully unleashed - no holdbacks, no shoulds, just pure YOU energy - that's when money flows, clients flow, and everything streamlines.You're in your own pocket. This is shadow work in a business suit, babes. The fastest, deepest internal work you'll ever do. Ready to find those internal rules holding you back and smash them? LFGO 🚀Dm me on Instagram about your "rules" and how you're going to break them to land even deeper in your soul mission. I'll meet you in THE FIRESTARTER when you're ready to see what we can do when you're 100% convicted in your soul mission. (Hint: we're going to sell our your program in 90 days flat.)
Feb 20, 2025
17 min
14. Valkyries: Your New Standard with Kristi Higgins
Valkyries is the new standard for soul alignment, relationships and authenticity. In this powerful episode of House of Valkyries, Carly Raemer is joined by long-time Valkyrie, Kristi Higgins. Together, they dive deep into the transformations Kristi has experienced throughout her journey in Valkyries, emphasizing how it has become the new standard for embodying feminine power, authenticity and leading your legacy. Kristi opens up about her struggles before Valkyries—navigating a life where she was disconnected from her true self, striving to fit into roles and environments that didn’t honor her essence as a woman. Through their conversation, Kristi reflects on how Valkyries has consistently been a homecoming—a beacon guiding her through her deepest challenges, holding her accountable to her growth, and helping her peel back the layers of societal conditioning. They discuss the profound impact of being held in a safe, unconditional space where each woman is truly seen. Kristi shares how this level of connection set a new standard in her life—where anything less than full authenticity and alignment no longer feels acceptable. Through the container of Valkyries, she has learned how to show up unapologetically, embrace her feminine essence, and live her life on her own terms. The episode also highlights the life-changing experience of the in-person Valkyries retreat, where Kristi felt fully embodied and seen for the first time in her raw, authentic self. She emphasizes how this experience set the bar for what true sisterhood and feminine leadership look like—a standard that has forever transformed how she shows up in the world. Tune in to hear how Valkyries sets the new standard for what it means to live boldly, authentically, and powerfully as a woman, and how Kristi’s journey has led her to a place of deep self-trust, joy, and purpose. Valkyries 6 starts October 8th. Set your own new standard for your mythic life and join us HERE.
Oct 2, 2024
1 hr 1 min
13. The Call of The Valkyrie with Elaine Geni (the "Secret Sauce" episode)
Welcome back, trailblazers. Carly sits down with the one and only Elaine Geni, long-time Valkyrie who's been with us since Valkyries 2 and is now stepping into Valkyries 6. Carly and Elaine journey deep into what it truly means to embody the Valkyries essence – because this work isn’t just about building your business; it’s about building YOU. They peel back the layers of how this experience has shifted everything for Elaine – from transforming her energy work, hypnotherapy, and Reiki mastery to creating a life that’s soul-aligned and sovereign. They dive into the magic of somatic embodiment, the power of emotional mastery, and how Valkyries gives you the tools to alchemize your shadows and rise into your full power. This isn’t about learning another strategy – it’s about embodying the woman who is meant to lead her life, her business, and her mission with unshakable sovereignty. Elaine and Carly break down what it means to be in the down cycles, find the SECRET SAUCE in those moments, and why embracing the darkness is where the real transformation happens. They talk about the sisterhood that’s created inside Valkyries – if you think you have to do this journey alone, think again. This is where women rise together, challenge each other, and hold each other to their highest potential. Elaine shares her vision for bringing Valkyries to Canada, and we're so excited for what’s coming next – including the Valkyries coaching certification that will allow more women to step into this work and lead from their most powerful selves. If you’re ready to embody your soul’s mission, tap into your true power, and step into the *Let’s F*cking Go* energy, this episode is for you. We start in just a week – JOIN US: VALKYRIES 6
Oct 1, 2024
56 min
12. The Call of the Valkyrie with Heather O'Dale
In this episode of House of Valkyries, I’m thrilled to sit down with Heather, aka Cybil Unrest—a burlesque dancer, teacher, and confidence coach who has experienced some massive shifts inside the Valkyries container. Heather shares her journey of transformation through the Valkyries program, a space rooted in energetics, embodiment, and emotional mastery, and how it’s brought her closer to herself and her soul's mission in ways she never imagined. Heather opens up about the fears and doubts she faced when first stepping into the Valkyries world and how she realized it was exactly what her soul was calling for, even when she didn’t fully understand it. We dive deep into her journey of healing past trauma and rediscovering her power through the program. She beautifully describes the magic of being truly seen and witnessed in the Valkyries community and how it brought her back to her feminine sovereignty in a way that was different from anything she'd experienced before in the burlesque world. We discuss how Valkyries isn’t just another program; it’s a space where women come together to feel what it means to be unshakable, to hold each other in the fire, and to reclaim every part of themselves. Heather and I dig into the power of community, the beauty of blending both masculine and feminine energies, and why being deeply rooted in our bodies is the key to truly living our soul missions. Heather shares how learning to move energy through her body—not just as a dancer, but in a way that allowed her to process and express her deepest truths—was a total game-changer for her. Heather’s excitement is palpable as she talks about her next steps, including joining the Valkyries Somatic Alchemy Coaching Certification program. She’s ready to take everything she’s learned and pass it on, helping other women step into their own transformations. This episode is all about honoring the call of your soul, and Heather really embodies that journey. If you’re feeling that deep, soul-led pull to be part of something bigger, this episode is your sign. Heather describes Valkyries as a homecoming, a place where women are meant to show up fully as they are, dive deep into their shadows, and rise together. And if you’re ready to say yes to your own soul journey, Heather’s offering 15% off with the code "heather" when you join us for Valkyries 6. Trust me, this is the moment you’ve been waiting for. We dive into the importance of trusting yourself, embracing the messy, beautiful process of embodiment, and showing up for the life that’s calling you. Valkyries isn’t just a program; it’s a movement, and this episode gives you a taste of what’s possible when you say yes to the path that’s meant for you. Let’s go, Valkyries—your soul is ready. JOIN VALKYRIES 6 use code HEATHER for 15% off.
Sep 27, 2024
55 min
11. Your Sacred Blow up Season: Valkyries 6
*this episode is a body sermon; receive with your intuitive body, not your mind. In this episode of "House of Valkyries," host Carly Raemer and co-pilot Violet Vang dive deep into the concept of sacred transformation and the fine-tuning that takes place during this "blow-up" season. They explore the journey of unlayering, refinement, and tapping into your true self to blaze your soul's mission. The conversation unravels how Valkyries 6 offers an immersive experience that helps women build a foundation rooted in authenticity, embodying their true power and purpose. Carly and Violet share insights about the importance of cultivating mastery through subtle adjustments, how shifts in identity play a vital role in one's transformation, and how these fine-tuning moments help us align with our highest selves. The episode emphasizes that Valkyries 6 isn't about just making drastic changes but about cultivating the depth, foundation, and sacred magic needed to create sustainable growth. Whether you're an entrepreneur, leader, or soul-led woman lit to trailblaze your path, this episode offers an invitation to receive this transmission and embody the massive shifts waiting for you in Valkyries 6. Join Carly and Violet as they share their journey and invite you into the powerful shift happening within this sacred container.  Takeaways: - Understanding the process of "blow-up season" as a sacred, intentional journey. - The importance of refining your tools and practices to embody mastery in every area of life. - How Valkyries 6 is the portal to help women build, thrive, and lead their soul's mission with unshakable confidence. - The power of tuning into your body's wisdom to navigate transformation. If you're aching to step into your next-level version and create your soul's nect movement, this episode is your call to action. Valkyries 6 starts October 8th- join us: FLY WITH US
Sep 27, 2024
25 min
10. The Raemer Sisters; Hannah's Rise from Rupture with Valkyries
In this episode of "House of Valkyries," Carly Raemer is joined by her sister, Hannah Raemer, who participated in the last round of Valkyries and is returning for Valkyries 6. Together, they share an intimate and raw conversation about Hannah’s transformation through the Valkyries experience. You'll hear about her journey from feeling broken and unfulfilled to discovering unshakable confidence, emotional regulation, and finding her authentic self. Hannah opens up about her personal struggles before joining Valkyries, the power of somatic alchemy in her life, and how she's now trailblazing her path with boldness and heart. This episode is a deep dive into the sacred work of finding and reclaiming yourself, the magic that happens when women come together, and why sisterhood is an irreplaceable part of true growth.Tune in to discover -how Hannah went from overwhelm and dysregulation to embodying her most authentic, powerful self- -The difference between knowing your patterns and embodying your truth- Why embracing sisterhood can be the key to unleashing your potential- How joining Valkyries can be the missing piece to living your most expansive life.Whether you're ready to burn down old beliefs, expand into the woman you've always known you could be, or simply want a taste of what true, embodied sisterhood looks like, this episode is for you. Join us as we set the world on fire. Ready to blaze your path? The next round of Valkyries is just two weeks away. JOIN VALKYRIES 6Hire Hannah Raemer; Mythical Movements for Badass Women
Sep 25, 2024
58 min
9. From the Void to Momentum: Utilizing the Death Phase to Building Soul-Aligned Movements
In this episode, Carly and Violet dive into the collective experience of the death phase, a space where old identities and ways of being dissolve, leaving us in a void-like state. They emphasize that this liminal phase, while deeply uncomfortable, is an essential part of transformation. It's a time when previous patterns are shed, but the new forms are not yet clear. Rather than rushing through, they suggest embracing this period of uncertainty as a fertile space for reflection and growth, allowing the new energy to slowly reveal itself. Next, they tackle the resistance and fears that often arise during these transitions. Carly and Violet highlight how women, especially those stepping into deeper leadership and power, frequently encounter inner resistances that can make the process feel even more challenging. Whether it’s the fear of the unknown, discomfort in asking for help, or societal pressures to always be “doing,” they stress the importance of leaning into vulnerability. By asking for support and learning to receive it, we can move through resistance and align more deeply with our purpose. Finally, they explore the collective surge in energy and momentum as we begin to exit the death phase. Carly describes this amping up as an exciting time when women are building bigger, more soul-aligned businesses and movements. The energy of expansion is palpable, and it signals a time to step boldly into leadership, trusting that the groundwork laid during the death phase is creating a foundation for something extraordinary. This episode offers an empowering message: embracing the discomfort of transformation leads to the manifestation of something far greater than imagined. Valkyries 6 starts October 8th. Join us HERE.
Sep 20, 2024
53 min
8. Workouts: Sacred or Feminine Wound?
In this catalytic episode of House of Valkyries, Carly Raemer shares her journey of transforming her relationship with exercise, nutrition, and her body. She reflects on her strict fitness routine and macro-tracking, which led to losing her period due to low-fat diets and over-exercising. This physical toll became a wake-up call, prompting Carly to question societal pressures and her own beliefs about needing the "perfect" body for validation. It marked the beginning of a deeper connection with her body, where she learned to listen to its signals. Through Feminine energetics, Carly embraced embodiment work, allowing her to reconnect with her body’s natural rhythms. She let go of rigid control over her workouts and diet, adopting a more intuitive approach. Sacred relationship comes from hearing the soul through the body rather than forcing Her to fit societal ideals. Carly laughs through her experimentation with practicing both Masculine and Feminine energetics during movement. Carly’s personal experiences shape Valkyries, where she guides women to reconnect with their bodies and build an embodied and unshakable sense of worth and value. She emphasizes that honoring the body’s wisdom not only improves physical health but also enhances emotional and spiritual well-being. Carly encourages women to release societal conditioning and somatically embrace their bodies as they are, the protocol for which is inside Valkyries. JOIN VALKYRIES 6: carlyraemer.com/valksuite follow Carly on Instagram: carlyraemer.co
Sep 16, 2024
32 min
7. Valkyries x Existential Kink
In this episode of House of Valkyries, Carly Raemer and Violet Vang dive deep into the transformative practice of Existential Kink (EK) and its pivotal role in the Valkyries program. Carly shares how EK, a shadow integration modality created by Carolyn Lovewell, helps women fully approve of all aspects of themselves, especially the darker, hidden parts we often reject. Through the lens of EK, Carly and Violet explore how embracing even the most taboo desires and shadowy parts of ourselves can lead to profound transformation, healing, and empowerment. The discussion highlights how Valkyries, a six-month program, integrates EK as a core element, guiding women through a journey of embodiment, energetic shifts, and soul alignment. Carly opens up about her own journey with EK, how it transformed her life, and why it’s crucial to navigate the phases of destruction, emptiness, and rebirth with full approval. Valkyries is a space for ambitious women to learn how to embrace their shadow, cultivate trust in the unknown, and embody their next level of soul-aligned living. Tune in to learn how EK can help you break free from societal conditioning and reclaim your true power. register for Take Me to CHVRCH Masterclass join Valkyries
Sep 12, 2024
29 min
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