Brave Widow Show
Brave Widow Show
Emily Tanner
Love Doesn’t Die: A Widow’s Story of Grief, Faith, and Healing Through Music | BW: 203
25 minutes Posted Jul 14, 2026 at 2:00 pm.
– Music, grief, and why this episode matters if you’re hurting  
– Victoria’s loss story and turning to music after her partner died  
– Grief groups, community, and how support changed her work  
– Hospice work, faith, and going back to supporting other grievers  
– Creating The Blue Album using the Tasks of Mourning  
– “Love Doesn’t Die”: continuing bonds instead of “goodbye”  
– Hope, reunion, and how to connect with Victoria + next steps  
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If music has been part of your healing, or you wish it could be, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale. 
 
In this episode, I’m talking with Victoria (artist name: SH3), a music therapist, grief counselor, and widow who created The Blue Album after the sudden loss of her partner.
 
We talk about using music to process grief, the power of community and support groups, continuing bonds with your person, and why love truly doesn’t die.
 
IN THIS EPISODE:
• Victoria’s story of sudden loss and turning to music for survival  
• How being a grief counselor did (and didn’t) prepare her for her own grief  
• Why grief support groups and community changed the way she practices  
• The faith and meaning that keep her grounded working in hospice  
• How The Blue Album maps to Worden’s Tasks of Mourning  
• The story behind “Love Doesn’t Die” and continuing your bond  
• Finding real hope that this is not the end of your story together  
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Music, grief, and why this episode matters if you’re hurting  
01:12 – Victoria’s loss story and turning to music after her partner died  
03:35 – Grief groups, community, and how support changed her work  
06:10 – Hospice work, faith, and going back to supporting other grievers  
08:32 – Creating The Blue Album using the Tasks of Mourning  
13:40 – “Love Doesn’t Die”: continuing bonds instead of “goodbye”  
19:05 – Hope, reunion, and how to connect with Victoria + next steps  
 
LINKS MENTIONED:
 
Learn more about SH3 (Victoria) + her music:
https://www.sh3official.com
 
Follow SH3 on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/sh3official
Link to stream The Blue Album:
 https://li.sten.to/apjayenf?fbclid=PAVERFWASqAIlleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAaf9GjSfdnsHMRwRzo1derS1-LF46s5U-Iu19dwjsKkO1wk1UnlX1sY8LS7YbA_aem_JDtvN9ihPugXtZTwzeYr0A
 
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