Brandler Bits
Brandler Bits
Jeffrey M. Brandler, LMFT, CAS, SAP
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Addictions Specialist and Nationally Board Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist,  for the past 39 years, I have worked with many people who have successfully made changes in their life. Brandler Bits are tasty morsels that address how people make change. For more information, go to my website www.changeispossible.org
Episode 71: Name it Claim it Tame it
Have you experienced a painful or traumatic event in your life?  If so you will want to listen to today’s Brandler Bits when we address a great strategy to handle this.  If you follow the phrases, Name It, Claim It, Tame it, you can work on healing this pain.
Feb 5, 2024
9 min
Episode 70: Hope--the Remedy to the Black Cloud Above You
Are you feeling a little dark, perhaps a little hopeless, and maybe lacking enthusiasm?Then today's Brandler Bits is the perfect remedy.   Learn  4 strategies to put more hope into your life.  
Dec 18, 2023
7 min
Episode 69: More Than Words
On today’s episode of Brandler Bits, we are going to discuss the need for authentic communication with ourselves and within our relationships.   Using Ruiz' agreement "Be impeccable with your words", we discuss why our words matter more than they ever did.
Aug 29, 2023
6 min
Episode 68: Wasted Time
On today’s Brandler Bits,   we will talk about the Eagles song “wasted time”  and how that applies to relationships. This powerful song about the end of a relationship can teach us many things about healing from breakup and making changes in life.
Aug 8, 2023
7 min
Episode 67: Why You Need Boundaries
On today's episode of brandler bits we're going to discuss boundaries—·      what they are ·      why they're important ·      and how to set them 
Apr 3, 2023
6 min
Episode 66: Communication Skills for Couples
 In 2014, I was a guest on the "Stay Happily Married" podcast.  The topic was communication skills.  Listen as we discuss "I messages" listening, acknowledging and validating, as well as building intimacy.  The communication skills that I referenced then  are still relevant today. 
Feb 27, 2023
12 min
Episode 65: Resentment: the " Gift" That You Keep Giving Yourself
On today’s episode we cover the topic of resentments.  We are going to define what a resentment is, and then most importantly discuss some tools that you can use to make them better.  
Feb 15, 2023
7 min
Episode 64: Our House--Does your relationship house need some help?
In this episode of Brandler Bits, we example the "house" of your relationship.  How is the foundation?  How is the first floor?  How about the second floor?  Are there issues?  Do you need some housing upgrades?  Does your house need some renovation?  Listen to find out more.
Jan 25, 2023
6 min
Episode 63: Irresolution-when resolutions often fail (Revised edition 2023)
This episode of Brandler Bits describes in detail about why new years resolutions do NOT work.  Instead of making a  resolution, think about making a plan for the changes that you want and need in the upcoming year
Jan 3, 2023
7 min
Episode 62: Stories
 In the year ending edition of Brandler Bits learn about your story. How do you want it to be? Can you write a new chapter or a new book to improve your health?Listen to learn more 
Dec 21, 2022
9 min
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