boys cry
boys cry
Joe Destra
Welcome to “Boys Cry” the podcast where we follow the journey of a 21-year-old gay man as he tackles the challenges and joys of growing up and coming into his own. Join the host, Joe Destra, as he shares his own personal experiences, explores his complex life, and offers advice to help listeners navigate this fast changing world. From relationships and career choices to discovering oneself and personal growth, he invites listeners to be a part of his life story and connect on a deeply relatable level. “Boys Cry” features a diverse range of guests from various backgrounds, professions, and life experiences. These guests share their own stories, challenges, and advice, offering a unique perspective on how to transition from carefree youth to responsible adulthood.
the jda's: joe destra award's
join me for an unforgettable season finale as we bid farewell to this incredible year and set our sights on the promises of tomorrow. in this episode, I delve into the ambitions and aspirations that define my new year's resolutions, sharing personal insights and goals for the upcoming year.but that's not all! we're rolling out the red carpet for the first-ever Joe Destra Awards, celebrating the best moments, and highlights from 2023. it's a chance to revisit some of the most cherished memories and experiences, reflecting on the journey we've shared together.and as this chapter draws to a close, I want to extend my heartfelt gratitude to each and every listener. Your support, feedback, and engagement have made this podcast an incredible adventure. Without you, none of this would be possible. so, thank you for being part of this amazing community.tune in for a heartfelt reflection, a glimpse into the future, and a celebration of all that we've accomplished. Here's to new beginnings, aspirations fulfilled, and the exciting adventures that await us in the episodes to come. Cheers to you, the listeners, and to the limitless potential of the year ahead!
Dec 7, 2023
28 min
dishing disorders
join us this week of boycry as we tackle a topic that has resurfaced in my life recently. instead of avoiding it and acting like these problems aren't problems we're going to talk them through. on a lighter night this episode also covers the topic of "happy birthday-ing" your way back into a man's life, and my recent journeys in switching jobs. due to the content of this episode, I want you all to feel safe here, and please please if you need to talk about topics relating to this video, or anything else I'm here for any of you.
Dec 5, 2023
23 min
advice for myself
in this episode of "boyscry" I've decided to take a more personal approach by playing the thought-provoking card game, "we're not really strangers," all by myself. as the cards prompt me with questions that peel back the layers of my own experiences and emotions, I invite you to join me on this intimate journey of self-discovery. Through each revelation, you'll get to know me on a more profound level, as we explore the joys, struggles, and vulnerabilities that shape who I am. but that's not all. as the episode unfolds, I'll be offering advice to my current self. Reflecting on lessons learned, mistakes made, and the growth that followed, I share insights and wisdom gained through the rollercoaster of life. it's a moment of self-reflection that not only helps me but also serves as a guide for anyone navigating the complexities of their own journey.so, grab a cup of coffee, settle in, and let's break down the walls of vulnerability together in this special solo episode of boyscry. because sometimes, the bravest thing we can do is to open up to ourselves.
Nov 16, 2023
30 min
sibling shenanigans
in the fifth episode of boyscry, prepare to laugh out loud as joe and brooke lovingly roast each other while bonding over their shared love for Taylor Swift's music and the unforgettable moments that shaped their sibling dynamic. It's a blend of nostalgia, music, and sibling rivalry that you won't want to miss. Tune in for the ultimate dose of sibling hilarity and Swiftie nostalgia!
Nov 9, 2023
1 hr
queer and theatrical tales: boys, love, and show tunes
In this thrilling episode of "boyscry" we're joined by a special guest star, the one and only Griffin! A triple threat with a flair for the dramatic, Griffin takes us on a captivating journey through the worlds of love, theatre, and TikTok crushes. Griffin is willing to spill some intriguing secrets that you won't want to miss. From juicy theater anecdotes to the unfiltered truth about his dating life, this episode is filled with laughter, intrigue, and the kind of candid confessions that only "boyscry" can provide. It's an episode you don't want to miss!
Nov 2, 2023
1 hr 8 min
waiting for a vampire
In this spooktacular episode or boyscry, we're diving deep into the closet of Halloween memories. Join us as we explore the evolution of Halloween costumes throughout a lifetime and share some truly unpopular Halloween opinions. From childhood fantasies to adult extravaganzas, we've seen it all. We'll also be delving into our unpopular Halloween opinions. From our disapproval of the overused "sexy" costume trend to our love for creative, DIY outfits, we're going to tackle some controversial topics that might just change your perspective on the spookiest holiday of the year. So, grab your pumpkin spice latte, cozy up with your favorite jack-o'-lantern, and join us on this Halloween journey filled with costume confessions, laughter, and unexpected twists. Whether you're a Halloween fanatic or just someone who enjoys the occasional candy binge, you won't want to miss this episode of boyscry "waiting for a vampire"
Oct 26, 2023
27 min
coming out... again
welcome back to 'boys cry,' where today diving into the world of dating in the LGBTQ+ community, along with my deep-seated loathing for dating apps, and the unique journey of re-coming out. Join me as we tackle the emotional terrain of modern dating, from first dates to ghosting, and explore the myriad ways in which boys, like all humans, cry. We'll share stories of vulnerability, resilience, and the importance of staying true to ourselves in a world that can sometimes feel too wrapped up in digital swipes and unrealistic expectations. Let's have an open and honest conversation about the challenges and triumphs of dating while LGBTQ+ and coming out again. 
Oct 19, 2023
29 min
friendship are heavy
In the first episode of "boys cry" titled "friendships are heavy" take a deep dive into my life as we discuss its current state. From work related-pressured to personal struggles everyone can find a way to relate. To top it off we finish the episode with a Q&A discussing just how difficult to can be to navigate adult friendships. Whether you are looking for advice, a relatable story, or just a simple laugh this episode has something for everyone. 
Oct 8, 2023
21 min