Let's unpack EVERYTHING about masturbation: desires and kinks, early conditioning, unpairing yourself from your partner, shame and sexual shadow work.Let's talk porn, toys, and sexual scripts.Let's talk about taoist energy circulation, breathwork, sounding, & movement, to expand your pleasure.And finally, let's figure out what kinds of masturbation are right - and wrong - for YOU.

Let's go over Oral Sex as a Barometer for your relationship. Hidden resentment, lack of trust in your partner, and discomfort in your own body are some common blocks to our giving and receiving love in this way. Such magic happens when you allow yourself to be Fed by your partner's genitals, when you Surrender. Tasting yourself first can be a beautiful practice to get you started.We'll also unpack sucking soft dick, differently shaped pussy lips, and the buffoonery of condoms. Plus, how to conserve your sexual energy, and how your body tells you Very Clearly when you're with a misaligned partner.Listen here for my advice on getting past blocks, my first-hand stories, & some sexy tips! All with the goal that everyone goes down on each other waaay more. Enjoy. ;)

Over the past year I have honed my Tantric Embodiment practice into the deepest work I know: Dearmouring. And SO MANY of you have asked me wtf this is, so I've decided to make a longass podcast episode explaining everything - from my personal experience, to what it feels like to receive this style of bodywork, to how to practise dearmouring through meditation and dance. There are so many keys: breath, sound, movement, relaxation, non-attachment. Shadow work. Presence. Love.We'll talk about common physical body armours (sexual dysfunction and pain, weight gain distribution, chronic pain), as well as the energetics of thought/habit patterns (eg making yourself small, control, avoidance). There is also lots of discussion on plant medicines, sobriety, and Vipassana meditation.This is a discourse-style podcast, best listened to continuously and with presence. I can't wait to read all your messages & comments.Happy Listening xx.tantricanjali.cainstagram.com/[email protected]

Two hours of me answering my Most Ask Questions lmaoo... buckle up! How did I get into the industry? What is the worker demographic - educated? Cokeheads?? Is there drama? What are the clients like? Is it safe? How do we practise safe sex?! Also I define many of the common abbreviations, so you'll be an expert by the end of this. ;) Being a sex worker in Toronto has been such a fucking wild ride - pleasurable, curious, scary at times... having something so deep in common with the girls I work with... :) It's also led to an Extreme Dissolution of my Sexual Spiritual Ego. How can you be passive and receptive to a man (and his cock), without dissociating? Dissociation is a super common trauma response, and one that's tricky to notice while you're in it. How does being sexual with clients all day affect my real-life sex drive? How much mismatch is there between the integrity-rooted work I do with clients, vs. the "hand hooking" for money? My "sexual desires" in male clients have become the opposite to those I have in my real life. ~~ This is all just one woman's opinion :D I wanted to shed some light on my 2 months' (so far!) experience in this industry in Toronto. Happy listening y'all xxx! ****** https://www.instagram.com/tantricanjali BUSINESS INQUIRIES: [email protected]

UNPOPULAR OPINION ALERT;) Bring back kink-shaming LOL! Vanilla sex is the best sex!! OBV I love being choked out & ravished as much as any rational girlie.. but stop using this shit as overcompensation for bad dick lmfao. Lemme give voice to the "vanilla" girlies for the next hour - missionary, eye-gazing, and all. And kissing befooore butt stuff lol PLZ.

Wowwww hello sexy people! This is my first episode back after a LONGASS 4 MONTH HIATUS!! Woo! This episode was inspired by a couple recent relationships in my life that... left my Inner Child REELING. This is a discussion-based episode (everyone's favourite kind) with tons of personal stories of my good, bad, & ugly dating L's. The pathway of Love Addiction follows the pathway of ALL addiction - here I compare it to my experiences with weed, alcohol, and food as well. So if you want a deep dive into super grey area themes, nothing cut and dry, nothing predetermined for ya... then get your flip flops, find a forest, and enjoy a nice PodWalk. ;) I love reading all your comments <33 Reach out to me on socials with any questions. https://www.instagram.com/tantricanjali https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011322273186

Let’s talk about sex! My friend asked me “so you do Tantra.. you must be really good at sex, ya?” Um… no? Yes? Can a person ever be “good” or “bad” at sex lol? - What a stupid question!🙄😂 But real talk, I describe the basics of what I think makes a person “good” or “bad” at sex: stamina and drive in a man, and submission and flow and love in a woman. And these aren’t just for sex - they’re qualities of LIFE! 🌟 I talk about how Tantra got me out of the Performance Mindset, and increased my body confidence as a woman. Plus, how to love your body’s appearance in specific sex positions (doggy, cowgirl, missionary,..).😉 I also talk about how I personally flow between meditation and masturbation in my Sacred Self-Pleasure sessions, as well as how partners can flow between exploring their own body and The Other’s.🥰 Regarding polarities, I talk about how key it is for women to have a safe environment in order to submit. And how it’s so important for men to say fuck you to society’s repressing of your sexuality and be strong! Ravage us!!!❤️‍🔥🥵 And then the flip side of this Divine Feminine & Masculine of course is the shadow side: the Dark Feminine and Dark Masculine.🌚🌝 Finally I touch on a little bit of different Tantra patterns and philosophies. And how it’s key to study Tantra WITHOUT all these bs philosophies - practise from the heart and body instead of the mind. Tantra is so transformative, and starting to explore this path will create powerful changes in your sex life and overall life! For every human. Of any gender. I promise😁❤️

This episode is… maybe a little more depressing than most?🥴😅 But it’s something I wanna share.. mainly for those of you who want to support your friend after their loss of a parent / close family member, and don’t know how best to do so. I talk about how healing it was for me when my friends/partner held space for me to talk it through and process, and reminisce - without showering me with hasty pity. I talk about some of the long term effects on my life, now 4 years after her death. This episode, like all of mine, is straight from the heart. I finally felt ready to share a little bit of the effect of my mother’s death on me, and I’m hoping you guys enjoy listening, and are maybe opened up to a new perspective. ❤️

Wow! I’ve been travelling full-time for over a YEAR now! My recent 23rd birthday passed about a month ago (woo Taurus gang!!) and OF COURSE I got a little nostalgic…😅😌. I’m exploding with gratitude for the lessons learned and have a TON to share with all of you on languages, cultures, healthcare, Tantra and how it relates to the gender binary, short term friendships. Love. The last year has taught me soso much about love, most of all love for myself and falling back in love with celebrating my own life!!😍🤩 Really enjoying it!❤️ I hope this is a helpful listen for all of you, and that everyone gains a new perspective on something that’s been interesting them. :)

WE BACK BOIIIIS!!🤩 Recording from Nice, France, and talking ‘bout my favourite topic on this earthhhh - sex! All sorts of “taboo” sex - some that took place in a crazy French sex club I visited, and also in the most beautiful tantric orgy imaginable.😍😍 More specifically, we talking ‘bout the diff w Older Men (aka why I can’t stop fucking them), how to get out of your repression (through drugs, among other avenues), and like how to actually GET an orgy. A playful approach to sex is key - you’re literally touching your partner(S) w the hands of god - no room for stupid mental rules & judgement. Oh and also, the clit is for babies.🙃